Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Mothers, fathers, teenagers. Please Advice is a must!?

hey I am 17 years old going to be a senior in September. Now to my issue is about my parents. My mom is ridiculous and never pays attention to me. My mom then made me quit dance because I was gaining weight, dont you think you would do the opposite? My dads into drugs and alcohol so I never really had the nerve to try it. I am a straight up great kid who has a job and really mature for her age. My parents never once told me they loved me, they never ever come to any of my school event which I btw basically run every single one of them. Its always about my brothers. In a few weeks will be the start of my senior year, I am class president, a peer mediator, apart of the superintendents cabinet and the principals posse, oh yeah I am also valedictorian. Now why cant my parents ever say their proud of me, they never say I love you and they never even talk to me. I have a friend at school one of the teachers who I happen to look up to and she is like a really good mentor and we became mighty close the past few months. My mom hates her and tells me I cant talk to her any more. I think my mom should be happy I talk to her instead of people my own age. I like her and I can relate to her. Shes always there for me more than my parents ever were. She tells me I am the daughter she never had and her inspiration to do things that she always wish she had done. She always wishes the best for me. Shes there when I am having a really bad day, or a great day shes always the one I go to. She inspires me as I inspire her. I talk to her about crushes and dates and my troubles with friends. Shes more of a friend than a mentor. You have know idea how much it all means to me. I wish my parents payed like a speck of attention to me. I think the three of us me my friend and my mom could be friends. but my mom is just way to jealous the only things she ever takes away from me are the things that I enjoy. Why cant my mom be happy for me. am i crazy being friends with my teacher? Please and thanks in advanceMothers, fathers, teenagers. Please Advice is a must!?
Last time you asked this question it was from ';the mother's'; perspective. If you are going to be ridiculous at least be ridiculous and funny.Mothers, fathers, teenagers. Please Advice is a must!?
Your ';mom'; was asking about this before. Interesting that both sides of the story end up on here.... Trolling, perhaps???
Stop asking this question. It's annoying.
I call you out and you block me????





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have you let your parents know how you feel? i think you should do that, at least tell your mom. it's wrong of her to take away activities you enjoy when you don't do anything wrong. you are so talented and i would love my children to grow up and do half the stuff you have done. im sure they are proud of you they are just being weird about it. talk to your mom. if she doesn't seem to care then do it for you and don't worry because there will always be people trying to bring you down.
it sounds like your life is the movie ';Matilda.'; But no, you are not crazy to have a teacher as a friend. school is usually where you get most of your guidance, so, when you don't get that at home, it is natural for you to look for it at school. while it is great to have a friend/mentor that you can trust, you may also want to branch out to other students. You may find somebody who has a similar problem with their parents. After such a long time, being the way that your parents are, you probably can't change them. but you may want to try reasoning with your mom civilly about your friends. promise her that you will hang out with kids your age. i think maybe she feels weird about you having an adult friend. when she tries t pull you out of dance or other activities, just calmly sit down and discuss it. and if that doesn't work, you may have to sneak around to work hard for what you want. best of luck to you and your parents! oh and by the way, your story would be more convincing if you didn't choose yourself as best answer when your ';mom'; asked the same question.
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