Thursday, December 31, 2009

Advice from parents of teenagers?

My girlfriend's dad doesn't want me seeing her. She turns 18 in a few months but I'm 24. He says he doesn't like me because I kept her out all night once because she fell asleep in bed with me. He thinks I'm the one that took her virginity but she wasn't a virgin when I started dating her. I feel like if I could just talk to him and explain this it would make it better. I love his daughter and I don't want us to have to break up. What do you think?Advice from parents of teenagers?
Show him how much you love his daughter by respecting his wishes , I know it will be hard but,one day you will have a daughter and might be in the same shoes. Ask him if it will be OK for you to go to their house to spend time with her that way you will be supervised , that might make him a little more comfortable with the situation . And she will be 18 in a few months but, if she still lives under his roof it's his rules . If you love her and plan to marry her one day you do not want to make an enemy out of a future in-law .Advice from parents of teenagers?
If you hadn't brought my daughter home all night....you'd be really lucky to not have charges pressed against you. She is still a child and her parents responsibility until she is an adult %26amp; on her own. Think of it as how would you respond if YOU were the father.
Sweatheart, there is nothing you can say to Daddy about his ';Angel';....no matter how much he is wrong or right. Let her deal with her dad.
Once shes 18, shes an adult, just wait it out til then.
You are too old for her.
I think you need to back off. If it's really love you can take some time apart and it will be fine. I don't think telling her father that she wasn't a virgin when you met is going to fix anything, it may cause him to hate you more. You are too old to be with a 17 year old girl anyway. Please try to find someone at least in their 20's, maybe even out of their parents house.





Edit: You added additional details since I answered so I wanted to say, none of that matters. I know you don't want to hear that.

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