Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??

Read this question:





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I don't judge anyone. For all the virgins/girls/guys/teenagers that I have spoken to that get enfuriated when adults talk about casual sex here is 1 example of what can happen. By all means it is not a tell tale of all examples.





.So many emotions come with sex and if you think of the type of questions you start asking yourself...if you read and understand the question above you will see some of the more common things that can happen.


A lot of people that tell you do not do it are speaking from experience, whether that makes them knowledgeable or a hypocrite is up to you.


Some people are going to hate me for posting this but I am ok with that.I think sometimes you have to show a person vs. Tell them.





I hope this is effective.Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
i agree, there are a lot of emotions that unexpectedly come along with sex that teens do not understand, along with the risk of pregnancy. however, i feel it is wrong to discourage them through fear, as is taught in the ';abstinence only'; programs at schools. sex is over glamorized everywhere you look, whether it is movies, tv, books, and on and on... it is portrayed as something that is wild, reckless and rebellious. and how can you deny a teenager/young person that? thats why i feel that it should be taught as ';responsible sex'; and not just abstinence. there needs to be proper education in place to warn them about the attachment issues, misconstrued feelings, and just plain baggage that comes with it. casual sex is fine when to participating parties both know what they are getting involved in, but when something like in the question happens [very long by the way, not yours, but the ';was he using me...'; question] someone gets hurt, when neither party wanted that to happen. so, casual sex , fine when both are upfront and straight forward.Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
im only 18 but i really dont want to hear about young teenagers having sex all the time with so many different people maybe cause i was never in to the whole casual sex stuff. Im just really old fashion in the whole sex thing i think you should love the person you are having sex with not just get horrny around them
The gibberish you wrote is really not effective. From an adults perspective, we try to tell teens that as a way to prevent them from making the same mistakes we did. If you call that hypocrisy, fine. If it prevents one teen from contracting an STD or getting pregnant, then it was successful. Guess what--you can learn something from an adult whether you want to believe it or not.
I don't get it either.. i think it's cool.. I don't have a daugher though
I'm a adult...I have no problem with casual sex
I try to tell kids (under 18) not to have sex because I did NOT have sex when I was underage (so there goes the hypocrite theory) and many of them, dare I say most, are going to have sex recklessly, causing teen pregnancies and the further spread of STD's. My biggest concern is pregnancy, because then you have an unwanted child in the world where their parents are simply not old enough (maturity-wise, financially, etc) to take care of an infant, which puts that burden on ME, the taxpayer. For anyone old enough and can take care of the mess they cause, I say sleep with however many people you want to. But until then, keep it in your pants.