dont do drugs
always wear a condom
respect your elders
curb the swearing
dont smoke
dont drink - too much
wear sunscreenWhat advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
to teens- remember that it only lasts so long, don't argue with your parents too much, and have alot of experiences that you will remember past your teen years.What advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
do not drink - it is not necessary in order to have fun (same for drugs)
do not rush into having sex - you'll enjoy it more when you are bit more mature
Live and enjoy life
dont bother getting drunk
lmao
it kills you in sum way or another
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wear sunscreen.
that was a random song, i'm going to have to go and look it up
Foremost, don't fail to seek God's help and guidance in every endeavor you are in. Choose your company, outside influence put a big part in building adolescence, good company- good influence. Concentrate with your studies, better education means brighter future, your future depends on how you prepared in the past. Respect for elders, sooner you become parent too and you'll see what I mean.
Shut up and get on with it, and get your hair cut while you're at it. And don't ask for more money because you can't have any. Turn that music down or you'll be deaf before your 30. Don't forget to wash behind you ears. Use a condom. If you'r pi..ed don't even think about coming home, etc etc etc
boys think about wot your doing it is'nt hard and it is'nt clever
girls same as above %26amp; watch them boys !!
Get the best education you can-it's never wasted.
Don't think you're 10 feet tall and bullet proof. Bad things can and will happen to you and thinking you're invincible is only going to make things much worse.
Please use birth control and condoms should you become sexually active.
Please get some sort of education, even if you can only afford to go to a trade or technical school, please become skilled in something.
Please do not do drugs, and yes, marijuana IS a drug. It doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you look cool, and it IS addicting. My baby brother has virtually ruined his life because he cannot stop doing marijuana. Thankfully almost dying from a gun shot from a mad dealer got him off the ';harder'; stuff but marijuana is taking it's toll all on its own. Just don't do it. It's not worth it.
Peace,
Jenn
Hang on... I'll look out some rope and see if I can rope one in... but even if I tie them down long enough to ask... d'ya really think they'll listen?
Doubt it...
Mum of six mid life adults... and seven early twenties/teenage/rising teens grandchildren and tiny tot great-grandchildren (not a lot of difference between teens and terrible twos)
Serious experience:-(
turn off television.
don't be swayed by the media.
be the wonderful person you were meant to be.
stay healthy.
be confident...be independent.
don't follow the crowd.
be an individual
make nuturing friends.
enjoy being a teenager...there's enough time to be an adult.
Sex ed wise...
Do it like in Northern European countires.
Teach everything and I mean everything from the age of four though teenage getting more indepth with the biologica stuff more fro kids inc how to deliver a baby, and what gays are etc.
Through in teenage more the realtioship aspects, how guys and girls feel different , how blowjbs and vibrators and masterbation works, what terms like russian and french mean. Pyschological break down of pole dancing and boy bands. pretty much every kind of question asked here, reinforced over and over so things like condom AND hornone contraceptive use becomes instinctive and normalised.
Self defence and parkour lessons as standard.
Lessons in respect in that you get none from being a mugger, in a gang or hurting those who you think dis you or preditory behavour.
That respect comes from achienvemnt, what you bring to the community and how you put yourself at risk to look after others. Ie be a hero and eventually peickle stick up for you. Prey on people and whilst you instill fear people would not pee on you if you were on fire but add petrol instead whilst if they respect you they get burnt even die to help you.
Treat others how you would expect and want to be treated. thats what mornality is.
Girls guys like medium... not starving so eat and you get boobs, what guy dont like boobs, but not so much you get fat either.
GIRLS, STUFF THE RULES AS THE GUYS OUT IF YOU LIKE THEM, ODDS ARE THEY REALLY LIKE YOU BUT CANT WORK OUT WHAT TO SAY AS YOU GIRLS ARE SO SUFFY AND OVER SENSITIVE THEY THINK WITH GOOD REASON ONE SLIP UP AND YOU WILL FREAK AND TREAT THEM LIKE SOME SORT OF PERVE.
Perversion is not sleeping around, checking out naked girls dating somone younger (unless they are clearly below mid 15 if you are over then 21 or under 14 if you are younger then 18, or 13 to 13 or younger unless you are 14.), seeing strippers, being gay, being into tie up or dress up games etc.
Perversion is preditory dominance, gettig off on control (not play control like fluffy hand cuff games) and dominance and intimidation where you hurt others and its not consentual and you are hurting or upsetting the other person.
This includes mugging and bulling for kicks, peadophila (when its clear not borderline), rape, forced arrnaged marriage, borthers/fathers intimidating sisters, tenning people they are dirty or wicked for wanting to date or natural curiousity etc.
That you need social skills more then acedmeic skills as most jobs require bs office politics not what you know.
Alchol is a drug. dont over do it you act like a looser.
Only fight if you have to to defend self, others or a just cause.
Look after those smaller and less experienced then you are or weaker.
Thats what leadership and respect is about
Its the spirit of the law not the letter thats important however be prepared to deal with those who see it the other way round on power trips.
Girls see definition on perversion above.
If a guy is checking out your boobs or body it does not mean he thinks you dumb or thats all he is intoerested in.
He just finds you attractive and odds are wants to get to know you and your brain.
Guna aint cool. they are an ugly ansty tool which hurts people and their families only to be used to save yours or others.
Lads. Gays often have lots of hot sexy female mates. who may if you are the gay guys mate want to try and convert you to straight. Or may get all horney around gay mate then want to unlease horniness on you.
Stop having unprotected sex, and DONT DO DRUGS.
Stop listening to the oldies that keep telling them they are wasters and failures and continue getting their degree and look forward to a long and fulfilling life. Unfortunately too many people get sucked into the media machine and dont stop to think that perhaps not all teenagers are wasters and yobs. I think people should put everything into perspective, teenagers are going through puberty-something that makes us behave in weird and wonderful ways and not all of them are out knifing old women and shoplifting to feed their kids. Leave the youth alone!
to be there selves
and never put them selves down
Just be yourself and have fun...there are too man damn people in this world shaped by the same cookie cutter.
try to be happy in this crazy world. You can pick your friends but you can't pick your families.
Go be happy and safe. xx
DONT TRY TO FIT IN .. JUST STAND OUT!
Even though you think you know everything...you have SO much to learn. Older people know stuff because they've lived it., you simply have not had the life experience to always be able to make the best decisions. What you're going through is nothing new....millions of people have gone through it before you and they want you to learn from their mistakes so you don't have to suffer through your own. LISTEN to your parents and don't be so hardheaded!
i wont we teenagers never listen
Don't sleep around.
Keep your eyes wide open. Listen to your heart.
Dont become a emo or a chav
don't drink don't smoke go to school work hard
To spend more time actually talking to their friends face-to-face, verses texting or IMing from behind a computer.
don't let people talk you into doing something that you know you shouldn't do
Except for your education and the best friend you might make, High school is meaningless. Don't worry about fitting in, being cool or having a boyfriend. College is where your life begins. So, pay attention in class, get a good education and move onto bigger and better things!
don't do heroin...be safe...get good(ish) grades...listen to your parents..they are actually right :( never disrespect your elders, unless they they disrespect you!...don't try and grow up too quickly, because by the time you've grown up..you wish you were a teen again! Live Life. Have fun. and never let things get you down.theres always something good round the corner!
Any way you can teach them empathy is a good start. Might be one of the things most lacking in society these days.
Empathy is the basis for any kind of decency.
If people can understand where others are coming from, the result is far less anger, hatred, violence and other negative behaviors that drives everyone nuts.
With a little empathy you see the line between right and wrong. You're motivated to do right, and consider the feelings of others.
Some people say GOD! I don't think you need to try and force religion on teens, if you can just show them the benefits of trying to walk in someone elses shoes, to understand others and try to see from their point of view. To imagine how your actions impact someone else and think about how you'd feel if roles were reversed.
Road rage, biggotry, shooting sprees... Relationships... Family, friends and romantic interests. A little empathy on everyone's part goes a long, long way with the closest and most important people in your life.
If you can understand where others are coming from, imagine how others feel... You're a far more enlightened individual than most these days. It can enable them to exceed expectation in school, to succeed in work, to build a happy family and eventually to die a dignified death, with honor, surrounded by good friends with great memories.
...and don't squeeze the charmin.
i wouldnt. teenagers are always right...or so they think
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