I have a srious problem. Teenagers? Anyone with advice?

Thank you so much for reading this, I WILL award BA, I just need someone to help me. So here's the deal...





I'm 16, and junior in HS. There's this girl (we will call her Kaity) and she's a sophomore. She's REALLy clingy and I mean like EXTREMELY! I guess she's just desperate for friends, but I'm not he kind of person to befriend the socially challenged. She's ALWAYS texting me and being rly annoying and hounding me about hanging out when I DON'T HAVE TIME and I don't WANT to hang out with her. I don't know what to do! Everyone is telling me to just basically ignore her texts. But I don't want to be mean or seem like a *****.





What do I do? What would YOU do?I have a srious problem. Teenagers? Anyone with advice?
Well the nice thing to do it continue doing what you're doing. Just be nice, nothing wrong with a little friendlyness. Sure its annoying but better than making her feel bad and making her wanna commit suicide or something. If you don't want to talk to her on text just ignore her, if she tries to talk to you in person just pretend that you're in a rush to meet someone or do something. White lie never hurt no one.I have a srious problem. Teenagers? Anyone with advice?
I know EXACTLY what you mean I had a ';friend'; (just like your description) like that who wouldnt stop calling me when I had homework of I had to study! It was so annoying! Eventually I just started ignoring her and she got really annoyed and ended the friendship herself because she got mad that I was avoiding her, I didnt even have to life a finger! So yeah listen to what everyone is telling you, just ignore her, it sure worked for me.
Just please be nice? She just wants a friend and if you can't even do that...


She answer her text once in awhile. Comment on how shes really nice once in awhile and tell her you have major ACT testing for and you can't talk much.





Just be nice. You don't want to make a innocent girl's high school life a tragedy and something she'll hate for the REST of her life.





:)


Just be a sweet girl about it and not some stuck up person.


Good luck, and If you do this, well.. all I can say is that your a REALLY good person. :)
my advice to you is to kinda of a ingnore her at times. You may still hang out with her at times but gradually ignore her. or maybe get some other friends that are in her grade and start hanging out with them and then she will think their cool and leave u alone and hang out with them.
i know how u feel. this is happening 2 me 2 and im the kinda person who doesn't wanna be mean. (the person is this clingy little 7 year old)


but anyways i would just be very very cold and ignore her as much as u can. kinda give hints, like turning ur head away or very coldly answer her questions. Hopefully she gets the hint.
Tell her you have homework or make up an excuse that you have to go do something. If she invites you somewhere, lie and say you can't. If that doesn't help, you need to tell her to give you some space. It may sound mean, but you need some space.
Just tell her in a nice way, you could tell her like ';I really don't have time to do anything, if I don't reply to your texts or I don't go out or anything, don't be offended, i'm just really busy.';
tell her tht u cant text anymore and then block her...


if she's still really clingy at skool... then start dropping hints tht u dont wanna hang out with her





then if all doesnt work... just talk to her ALONE and tell her tht u really like her but she needs to make other friends etc. just tell her some bullshit
Ugh seriously, don't call this a ';serious problem'; because it really isn't. Your friend dying or being suicidal or something like that is. Just get over it and tell her you don't wanna be her friend. Wow, big deal.
Try giving her advice. Tell her that she is acting clingy and that it has made it difficult for you to be friends with her. Tell her that she needs to stand back a little when she is trying to make new friends.
say your parents only let you hang out on the weekends


also say that you ran out of texts and minutes


or just turn it off





but dont do what that one girl said and ditch her becasue it will devastate her
I'm going to tell you to ignore her too. By ignoring her texts, she will hopefully get the hint. Sometimes you have to seem like a b*tch even if that's not in your nature.
wow i have this problem too. just ignore some of the texts and only talk when its convenient to you and tell her that you are really busy and cant hang a lot
keep ignoring her texts and making up excuses not to hang out...she'll give up eventually








i know from experience... damn I hate those clingy types! And I know it's hard ... I can't be mean either!
its actually pretty simple. get her a boyfriend. then she will be more distracted. if that doesnt work then just start to slowly pay less attention to her and she might find someone else to bug.
secretly file a restaining order if its ';SERIOUS';
just tell her that you dont have the time, be honest. Also when she text you pretend that she has the wrong number
get her a boyfriend..then shell stop bothering you and bother him..it works out better if hes just as clingy