I think i have done something wrong?????advice is needed from teenagers 13-17?

im 15 and this may be childess but im serious. well.....my ex boyfriend called me up and said do you wonna go with me and i said yes. but earlier today at school this other boy ask me to be his girlfriend and he has been asking for weeks and i said yes. i told this other boy at school that we could try to take our friendship forward. but i dont wont none of them i wont my ex boyfriend we just broke and i really love him and he said we can get back together......but i dont know how to break it to the others. i mean they are really some nododys to me. advice needed pleaseI think i have done something wrong?????advice is needed from teenagers 13-17?
break up with all the guys you don't want to go out with, work it out with your ex, and settle down! please, for your child's sake stop screwing around, he/she needs a father.I think i have done something wrong?????advice is needed from teenagers 13-17?
GIRL, GET AN EDUCATION.
You need to break with everyone that is not your babys father. They are just extra junk that you will not need to deal with while you are pregnant. Anyway it is unfair to get them into a relationship while you like someone else AND have his baby in your stomach.





I'm not saying this to be mean, but yeah, you do need to grow up. You need to change the way you are thinking about everything and get your life straight so that you can be a good mother to your baby. Right now you're showing that you can't recognize and do whats most important- work on becoming a mother. I hate to tell you the reality the only relationship you need to be working on is ones with grown mature women who can teach you how to be a mom, how to deal with dating, and even if they were never teenage moms, how to deal with that too.





You NEED a mentor in your life because you have a lot of changes headed at you all at once. Good luck with you and your baby.
um r u the one that rite a blog about your boyfriend? dissin him and everythin?


if not u should just say really sorry but am bac with ex
This may be a good time for you to have a talk with yourself and admit that maybe, yes, your actions recently have been childish.





OK. Done with that talk. Now, how do you go about acting in a more adult way?





First, you do need to let the other boys know that you are not interested in them as boyfriend/girlfriend. This will be kinder to them in the long run, anyway.





Second, you need to be making plans for how you will live your life with a baby on the way. Will you parent the baby? Or place the baby for adoptIon? When will you talk with the baby's father about the plans? If you parent, what will his role as a father be? What will the two of you do to be good parents? How will each of you provide for the baby financially? How will both of you arrange for baby care while you continue in school?





So - take care of the issue with the other boys as soon as possible so you can focus on yourself and your baby. It's *your* feelings and your future you should be concerned about right now - not the feelings of these guys.
tell everyone the truth. that is the best thing for you to do.
wow...break up with all of them. get a job, go to college, and make him give you child supportor just get an abortion.
Wow! you sure have a serious problem.


Did you ever think about telling the guys the truth?
Some one who is 15 and can't put a decent sentence together should be consentrating on her studies and not boys. Stop having sex with anyone (I doubt you can read the directions on the bc) and just date everyone. Now is the time to have lots of dates with lots of guys. You are not old enough yet to know what you want in a man, because these boys you are dating haven't got what you are looking for. They are just growing up.
WOW!Just break up with everyone except 4 yo babys daddy.I agree we shouldnt tell every single detail bout our life just to get advice!sometimes we just want to keep things in privet.Now if yo babys daddy dont want to take care of yo baby then look for another man.but you should tell your parents before its 2 late cause then they will probably not trust you or somthin.








I hope my advice helps!
If U R having a baby U need 2 forget about ur three bois (even the sperm donor) and start looking for a man to take care of you and your baby.
ok um u r to young to be even thinking about having sex!!!!! You say u dont want to husrt there feelings by telling them th etruth but infact you are playin all 3 of them!!!!!u are not being true about your feelings and u have to pick one and if you dont want any of them tell them u though u were ready to start dating but ur not. tell them u need more time and they should be understangding. if u keep playing all three of them, they will evenyualy find out and u will never get another bf again and u people will say ur a slut! Pick ur desion fast before it is too late. if u want ur ex talk to him/ work out your problems and be like theses three guys asked me out but to be honost i dont wanrt either of them cause i cant let go of wha t we had. see where he says from there!!!!!!!!!!
Tell the guys u r breaking up w/ that U DON'T FEEL YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS HEADING ANYWHERE, AND YOU FEEL YOU SHOULD END IT. thats the best way.
i know you dont realise it now but this is just puppy love but since ur feeling ur ex bf maybe u should think of the reason why u broke up in the first place and if he treats u RIGHT!!!





as for the other guys, just tell them u dont wanna be with them... no explantion needed!! SIMPLE!! ur still young.. trust me!!
ever thought of just saying no to all of them and not getting yourself tangled up? if your ex cheated (i don't know if he did) once, he'll do it again. so i guess it depends on what you broke up over. have you thought that maybe boys just want you to go out with them because they think you're ';hot'; and don't care what's inside of you. the real you
just tell the truth
Call the Jerry Springer Show they will help you
tell them that ur mom hates them and u have an arranged marrige in ireland so all of them need to back off.
ok this is what you do.... you tell one guy that you cant be with him cause you are talking to someone else and the other you tell him your gay.. lol j/k .. tell him you dont feel him and love your ex as if it never happened! believe me it works wonders!
Sorry for you but you have to either tell them or show them by makin out with your ex infront of then and hope they dont cause a scean
1)dont be going out with all these guys at the same time it gives u a bad rep.


2)you're a mom now so ACT LIKE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! the other guys probly wanna go out with u cuz they think ur easy now that u have a kid


3)be honest to them and yourself. if u like ur babys daddy so much you wouldnt have gone out with them other guys
Just tell the other 3 that you are still talking to your ex and there is still some feelings there. They will understand that and then nobody gets hurt. Good luck w/ your baby, you'll need it. :)
You're younger than me, your grammar is horrible, your spelling is horrible, you have a total now of 4 boyfriends, 3 of which you are playing, and you're going to be a mother.





Let the reality kick in. You don't have time to be worrying about the boyfriends, worry about your child. You seem as if you're more concerned about the guys than you are with your own blood. It's commendable that you don't want to break it to those guys, to crush their hearts, but isn't it bad enough you've been playing with them?





From experience I can say that a pity relationship is the worst, and no matter how nice you are, you have to break it to them eventually, and the longer you make it, the worse it'll get. So break off the relationships with those 3 guys you don't want to be with. Tell them you don't have any real feelings for them, and that you don't want to let it linger, because it'll only make things worse.





After you break up with them, go back to your child's father, and talk to him. At 15 (and I'm turning 17 this year, I've gone through it to understand) love isn't always what you think it is. It isn't ';hi let's go out'; ';oh I love you now';. Love is much deeper than that, I don't know if you know, but when you have your child (unless you already had him or her?) you'll have a deeper understanding of what love is (unless you're a b**** of a mom who doesn't know jacks*** about taking care of her child, but I'm hoping you're not like that).





Honestly, love can wait (just believe me on this one), your child most certainly comes first. If you talk to your ex, talk to him about the baby, not just love and being together, but the baby. That's what's most important.





I wish you luck, and I wish your baby a long, healthy, happy life =). Oh and please fix up your grammar and spelling =(.
just tell em u ain't feelin em
its really easy! do you love the guy you had sex with? stay with him if you love him and if you don't.., you don't have to tell anyone about your sex life., its really inethical.. boys wont ask you if you're still a virgin before they ask you out! if you really love your ex that much why dont you go to him, be with him.. sometimes the heart gets what it really wants.. if i were you, id explain carefully the situation to the others and if they're really you're friends? they'll understand that what you want, that is with your ex., will make you a better person., i know you're still young, i just turned 18 last friday., you should enjoy life., you have a long way to go.. you shouldn't have to think about problems like that.. by now you should've know what you really want,, and i say.. you go for it! and make sure that you do.. you wont regret a thing! that's what growing up is all about.. learning to handle your resposibility