Sunday, December 27, 2009

I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?

I'm sorry if this is really long.





I'm a freshman. I'm home-schooled and I'm really tired of being bored and not having anyone to hang out with. I know people and hear about people all the time that are considered ';the weird kids'; and wear whatever they want and do whatever they want. But in the last school I went to had nobody like me and I still didn't have any friends. I have the choice to go to high school next year as a sophmore, but the highschool i'm going to is known for being a ';cliquey'; school and everyone being desperate to fit in. So will I be able to make friends even then? I just don't know what to do. I can go to Church to make friends, but the kids that go there just aren't into the same things as I am and they think i'm weird too. I just have nowhere to go. And i'm so tired of being bored and alone. I just want someone that won't try to make me feel bad or change me.I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
I think you should definitely go to high school. I can promise you with some certainty that you aren't too ';weird'; to not make any friends. It may take time, but I'm sure there are some people who share similar interests as you that will go to the same school. Some people will accept you for who you are. It's important to understand that sometimes you make friends with people who you get along with well, but don't necessarily have a lot in common with, especially when you have interests that aren't as popular. I listen to heavy metal, only wear black band T-shirts, and have long hair(in other words, on the surface, I look ';emo'; or something to the average person), but I still have a lot of friends in school(most of which don't share similar interests or views as me).





In your case, I think you need to accept other people before any of them will accept you. If you seem like you don't want to talk to anybody, nobody will talk to you. If you appear to be social to other people, some of them won't treat you so differently. I know this might not sound like anything new or useful, but I really think it is. Less than a year ago, I never had any friends, and always felt too different around people to become friends with anyone my own age. Not everyone is a mean person who isn't willing to be friends with you.





Most importantly, don't be scared of rejection or let others hurt you. I'm sure this seems difficult, but understand that, no matter what anybody says about you, you're still a great person. Just because somebody might say something bad about you, doesn't make it any closer to being true.





If you don't take any of this advice, I can't blame you. But if you do, I'm sure it'll help you make friends. And I really hope you do, because I know how bad it is to feel isolated from everyone else.I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
If you want to be cool where-ever you go,you have to know that nothing matters and you don't need anyone and no-one needs you, that way you stop acting and you be true to urself and others.That is the way to be cool by not caring and knowing life is bigger than that so go to the high-school and be normal and be sure that everything will be okay.I wish u luck
Well, what are you into? I have been in the same position as you. I just do something I like doing such as playing computer games or workout in the gym. And of course I study.





Its boring, yes. But know that there is a future out there and you can make it anyway you want.
sorry you're having problems making friends. it can be hard. what are your interests? you could join a book club or sign up for a dance class or join a sport. that's a good way to make friends because you'll automatically have something in common.
Aww. I feel bad for you. I'll Im you. what's your SN.





EDIT: no worries, i won't stalk you and kill you.





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No really, I won't do that.
Try being nice to people. If that school has at least 1 decent person, you'll find a friend for sure.








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