Attachment advice please help!!! no teenagers please serious advice?

i'm having trouble with attachment issues and my fiance is saying i'm sufficateing him allitle and i am i understand that but 4 years ago before we met i had a b/f die rite in front of my eyes and we were together for 5 years and planning on getting married blah blah blah ... well i took it very hard and then i met my fiance and he helped me so much we have been together for 3 years and planning a life together but i feel like if i let him out of my sight something is going to happen to him but i feel like when i'm with him i can prevent nething from happening but i've been really bad latly like i can't go places alone even to the bank or walmart or sumthing i won't let him hangout with his friends without me and not because i don't trust him because i'm scared to be away from him he has been so patient and good with me but i can get over my anxioty how do i deal with him being away from me other then work with out haven a axoity atact???





sry so long thank you for ur helpAttachment advice please help!!! no teenagers please serious advice?
Obviously you had a major life trauma, these things usually leave a deep lasting scar. It seems that your anxiety is taking over your life rather than dissipating. That is not good. You might consider seeing a therapist about your anxiety and the potential post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) you are experiencing. If you are anxious when you are together and apart, I can't imagine that you are able to enjoy your relationship much and that will probably continue to get worse. Find a PTSD expert in your area to help you with your fears and anxiety. Good luck!Attachment advice please help!!! no teenagers please serious advice?
Girl take a deep breath and wake up to the reality. I know you have bad experience but you can not prisoning this guy.


He need room to breath and you have to learn to calm down and you have to give him that room. Other wise you two are not last.


Sorry to say so by you need help.
I feel bad for you. Yes its getting bad if you cant let him go to the store. For one thing you not only need to stop for him but more for yourself. I think once he has started to voice his problem about this means that its gone on way to long in the first place. Be glad he even mentioned it to you. He must love you. Be grateful he hasnt left you for this. It would drive me crazy if that was me too. I am a worry wort but I have been on my own for 8 years now and I know that you can be sure that chances are very good that he wont die on you anytime soon. If you make a conserted effort and he notices it it would mean so much to him. Even maybe love you even more. Good luck to you..