Im just trying to grow closer with my mother but i feel like she just doesn't understand teenagers any advice?

i'm almost 16 now %26amp;%26amp; she thinks boys are the most stupidest thing ever created.every time i talk to someone on the phone she tells me the phone is trouble.if i even bring up the term relationship she says its foolishness %26amp;%26amp; that im getting played.she says all young boys just want some sex %26amp;%26amp; they are going to leave you.she claims i'm just another girl to all guys.she never fell in love as a teenager %26amp;%26amp; has been done dirty by all men in her life [played,raped,taking advantage of].its hard dealing with her.she says no boy has ever loved me.





also i cannot talk to her about my personal problems she just runs %26amp;%26amp; tells my step dad.%26amp;%26amp; he will cut you down till you cry because he used to do girls dirty %26amp;%26amp; thinks the same thing is happening to me.





my mother doesn't like me around my friends %26amp;%26amp; i'm talking about females no sleepovers,no hanging out etc.she thinks my friends are bad with no reason behind it she thinks every guy i talk to


im sleeping with like what should i do to break this barrier?Im just trying to grow closer with my mother but i feel like she just doesn't understand teenagers any advice?
Well, I'm not extremely close to my mom either, so I just started talking to her with simple stuff, like just regular school. Then, as you get closer, talk about more complex things.Im just trying to grow closer with my mother but i feel like she just doesn't understand teenagers any advice?
Sorry at 16 you're a hot commodity. Being wiser and mature in your actions may change their perception of you. But if they trust you... They still won't trust other people. To a parent, being mature is, your ideas influences your friends opinions not them influencing yours.
i was in that same thing a little while ago. i talked to my mom and said that i think we need to do some family therapy...and it worked. shes very understanding about it.
talk to her