Boyfriend Advice Question (teenagers)?

Okay so theres this guy Trevor and a week or so ago i really really liked him and even like a month ago i was actually pretty jealous of his girlfriends (when he was dating them)... so why is it that now, when he JUST asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday (and i said yes), i dont really feel that much attracted to him anymore??? I think about him a lot but this might be just because I'm confused about it. So should I keep him or break--up??? Or what else should i do about this???? Details and ';why'; in your answer would help explain it better!!! Thanks!!! :)





P.S. I'm really not trying to sound ';harsh'; or ';picky'; here, i just really care about our relationship and want to be fair to both him and myself.





(will choose best answer!!!!!)Boyfriend Advice Question (teenagers)?
well, probably just because you've liked him for so long your starting to loose interest in him !





but now that you're dating, id give it a while and those feelings should come back stronger than ever !





and if they don't, its probably best to end it , so you don't hurt him in the long run .Boyfriend Advice Question (teenagers)?
Well mayb its the fact that you waited too long and you lost feeling for him. Or maybe its cuz there really was never a ';spark'; in your relationship. Be a little more romantic with him and ask him to be more romantic with you, then mayb that could help your relationship.
well i say you talk to him about it *i know its hard* maybe you should go back to being just friends
umm if you feel you don't like him anymore, set him free (softer version for ';break up with him';)...there's no sense with a relationship when it's only one-sided or that is based more on attraction because it's more prone to bad breakups, that would be unfair to both of you...but before you do it, think it over. consider your feeling when you're together and when you're not...your reactions his reactions and the like





i have one simple advice...a relationship built with love and trust is better than one built only of attraction...people don't have boyfriends just for the sake of having one...it also means commitment and trust
sounds like you are loosing interest because you said you liked him before...so i guess that once he asked you..you were not that interested anymore....so i think you should just leave him
You were probably attracted to the chase rather than the person. Like you thought the idea of having a bf was great and you probably were attracted to him because of this. No that the chase or hunt is over the ';fun'; is over. Well personally I believe that the real attraction comes later in a relationship. For example with my current bf I wasn't physically attracted to him at first. But for some reason I loved being around him and constantly flirted with him. Well we started dating and as the days, weeks, and months rolled on I found myself realizing how incredibly attractive he was. Now I melt when he smiles or when our eyes make that deep connection. I'm not saying you should be with someone that you're not compatible with, I am however saying that maybe you should give it some time to see if the ';real'; attraction comes. If it never does then you should end it as soon as you realize it. But the fact that you think about him all the time...and I assume in a positive fashion...and obviously not just physically....that you are also attracted to his personality. So I think there may be real attraction there...just give it some time. However like I said if find that isn't the case you should end it soon. It'll hurt but it'll be easier the sooner you do it for the both of you.