Thursday, December 31, 2009
For any celebrites the real ones do you have any advice for an teenager who wants to be a actress?
Get into rep and do as much theater work as possible. This way you get plenty of experienced. But be prepared for disappointment, and false hopes out there. There is so many agencies out there that will promise you work etc. Best of luck. As they say in show business break a leg.
Desperately need advice on how to handle ex & father of teenagers?
What can I do? My husband upped and left this year after a long period of indecision and 18 years of marriage. We have two teenagers and a house which I am trying to sell which means that I cannot just move away from the area. I feel so very alone. He always said that I was the only friend that he wanted and did not want friends around and did not want to go anywhere or do anything. He has taken up with a colleague from work, lied to me and put me at risk.
And yet every time we meet he acts as if nothing has happened and is happy to provide support and to be supported and talk about his new life, girlfriend and the hard times he is having.
Now he says it is my choice if I want us to be friends. I don't understand and am desperately afraid that he will hurt me again.
On another hand I miss him and feel so at ease when we are together. This is hard and crazy but I need some advice on how to handle this relationship and keep working %26amp; trying to sell the house and move on. Most important are the teenagers who need support and a stable environment. There are times that I don't feel very stable though! help me please.
I miss him so much even after all the hurt
Any advice would be great.
KateDesperately need advice on how to handle ex %26amp; father of teenagers?
You need to get angry. Right now you are still so hurt you don't realize how selfish this man has been and that he is asking you to ';be friends'; while he takes his love life elsewhere and leaves you to rear his teenagers! Once you see what a jerk he is being, you will tell him you can be civil for the sake of the children, but you cannot be friends. He is being selfish and saddling you with the work and the worry. Get yourself a lawyer and ask for half of everything this man has now or ever will have. You are going to need money in order to help your kids get through school and flourish. If you haven't worked outside the home, you may need to go back to school to get a refesher course. Ask the courts to make him pay for that. You'll need a job that pays well to support yourself. And, I think you need to see a counselor of some type to help you through this period. Either a marriage counselor to help you get through the divorce, or a pastoral counselor at church, or a psychologist who can help you keep things in perspective over the next year. You have a lot on your plate and he stuck you in this position. Thre sooner you get over the hurt and on with the anger, the sooner you can empower yourself to get what's due you financially (why do you have to sell the house? Make him pay to keep you and the kids there!). Once you get through this, join Parents Without Partners and learn from other parents who've had to raise kids on their own.Desperately need advice on how to handle ex %26amp; father of teenagers?
if you respect yourself, NO man not even your god should be allowed to do that to you. You're letting him have his cake and eat it too. He's a low life and if he's w. you then you're a low life's gf. don't be stupid! take your life into your own hand, life is what you make of it. if you want him in your life then that's your bad. GL2U!
Kate, After 24 years and 3 teenagers my husband did pretty much the same thing to me just 3 weeks ago...My only advice to you is to stay close to family and friends, Write in a journel all your hurts and thoughts, PRAY, PRAY ,PRAY, the power of prayer is awsome and pray for him too, and keep busy and move on, It totally blows my mind that a man can up and leave his family and act like hes the wounded one..but there is a reason for it and eventually he will realize what hes done and have many regrets.. One Day At A Time Kate, it will get better..I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers..
And yet every time we meet he acts as if nothing has happened and is happy to provide support and to be supported and talk about his new life, girlfriend and the hard times he is having.
Now he says it is my choice if I want us to be friends. I don't understand and am desperately afraid that he will hurt me again.
On another hand I miss him and feel so at ease when we are together. This is hard and crazy but I need some advice on how to handle this relationship and keep working %26amp; trying to sell the house and move on. Most important are the teenagers who need support and a stable environment. There are times that I don't feel very stable though! help me please.
I miss him so much even after all the hurt
Any advice would be great.
KateDesperately need advice on how to handle ex %26amp; father of teenagers?
You need to get angry. Right now you are still so hurt you don't realize how selfish this man has been and that he is asking you to ';be friends'; while he takes his love life elsewhere and leaves you to rear his teenagers! Once you see what a jerk he is being, you will tell him you can be civil for the sake of the children, but you cannot be friends. He is being selfish and saddling you with the work and the worry. Get yourself a lawyer and ask for half of everything this man has now or ever will have. You are going to need money in order to help your kids get through school and flourish. If you haven't worked outside the home, you may need to go back to school to get a refesher course. Ask the courts to make him pay for that. You'll need a job that pays well to support yourself. And, I think you need to see a counselor of some type to help you through this period. Either a marriage counselor to help you get through the divorce, or a pastoral counselor at church, or a psychologist who can help you keep things in perspective over the next year. You have a lot on your plate and he stuck you in this position. Thre sooner you get over the hurt and on with the anger, the sooner you can empower yourself to get what's due you financially (why do you have to sell the house? Make him pay to keep you and the kids there!). Once you get through this, join Parents Without Partners and learn from other parents who've had to raise kids on their own.Desperately need advice on how to handle ex %26amp; father of teenagers?
if you respect yourself, NO man not even your god should be allowed to do that to you. You're letting him have his cake and eat it too. He's a low life and if he's w. you then you're a low life's gf. don't be stupid! take your life into your own hand, life is what you make of it. if you want him in your life then that's your bad. GL2U!
Kate, After 24 years and 3 teenagers my husband did pretty much the same thing to me just 3 weeks ago...My only advice to you is to stay close to family and friends, Write in a journel all your hurts and thoughts, PRAY, PRAY ,PRAY, the power of prayer is awsome and pray for him too, and keep busy and move on, It totally blows my mind that a man can up and leave his family and act like hes the wounded one..but there is a reason for it and eventually he will realize what hes done and have many regrets.. One Day At A Time Kate, it will get better..I will be thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers..
What are three advices i can give to adults so they can make there relationship with teenagers better?
plz 3 advices but well developped..
10 points best asnwerWhat are three advices i can give to adults so they can make there relationship with teenagers better?
take them out shopping ! just spenting time togever with my mum helps
go to the movies and get premier seats with loads of pop corn and drinks
go somewhere fun :D
just spenting time with them doing what you both like
1.listen to them!
2.trust them for once
3.talkWhat are three advices i can give to adults so they can make there relationship with teenagers better?
1. Listen sometimes and don't be quick to speak w/o listening
2. Trust that children can make SOME decisions.
3. Be a parent and not a friend.
10 points best asnwerWhat are three advices i can give to adults so they can make there relationship with teenagers better?
take them out shopping ! just spenting time togever with my mum helps
go to the movies and get premier seats with loads of pop corn and drinks
go somewhere fun :D
just spenting time with them doing what you both like
1.listen to them!
2.trust them for once
3.talkWhat are three advices i can give to adults so they can make there relationship with teenagers better?
1. Listen sometimes and don't be quick to speak w/o listening
2. Trust that children can make SOME decisions.
3. Be a parent and not a friend.
HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
I am getting a new phone with a keyboard and I am trying to convince them to get me texting. Any suggestions?HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
One reason to get texting is because a lot of teenagers do have texting now and it will end up costing your parents more money for the incoming texts. Also, now that I have unlimited texting I use less minutes talking on the phone.HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
tell them it would be pointless to have a phone with a keyboard without textingg
+ texting isn`t that much nowadays.
I am a mom. If my child asked for something like that and offered to take on some chore that i hate ( say ,, wash the car or keep the dishwasher emptied) I would really think about doing it. Moms always love the help even if we have to pay for it sometimes LOL
well tell them that with unlimited texting you can text for free and u get pix messages,video messages,and then tell them that when you talk on the phone u run out of things to say texting is way more fun..
One reason to get texting is because a lot of teenagers do have texting now and it will end up costing your parents more money for the incoming texts. Also, now that I have unlimited texting I use less minutes talking on the phone.HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
tell them it would be pointless to have a phone with a keyboard without textingg
+ texting isn`t that much nowadays.
I am a mom. If my child asked for something like that and offered to take on some chore that i hate ( say ,, wash the car or keep the dishwasher emptied) I would really think about doing it. Moms always love the help even if we have to pay for it sometimes LOL
well tell them that with unlimited texting you can text for free and u get pix messages,video messages,and then tell them that when you talk on the phone u run out of things to say texting is way more fun..
Some Advice, I am a mother of three. The only thing is my kids or teenagers, and they have not lived with me
My kids have not lived with me in 3 years. I currently live in Lawton, OK and my two daughters live in DC with their father. Who is always in New York with his girlfriend. My son is 18 and currently lives with his father in OKC. Now please don't get it twisted, after my divorce I had to get away from my lie, cheating husband, I was not financially stable to bring my girls to Oklahoma. I am better now finacially, but the neighborhood that I live in is not good for teenage girls (No what I mean) my 15 year old is on a mission from Hell. and my 13 year old hates everybody and everything. I am single and trying to get my life together, but recovery is not easy after 15 years of marriage. Any help out there for a poor desprate mother.Some Advice, I am a mother of three. The only thing is my kids or teenagers, and they have not lived with me
i also have 3 kids. they are girl 19 girl 17 boy 13. when my girls where 3 and 5 i ended up in a homeless shelter oldest was starting king and i was a lost person there dad went to prison.i had to send my daughters my life to mich from tx with there grandfather. so see as adults and parents were not perfect and we have to think what is best for them . yes they came home after a year. dont give up . its hard for girls u have to talk to them be open with them . and they will make mistakes just be there for theme,.all teens hate everone speacily parents. just let her know u love her and your there for them. do what u have to for u to be save so u can get them .until then keep your chin up and let them know how much u love them.
good luckSome Advice, I am a mother of three. The only thing is my kids or teenagers, and they have not lived with me
well i hope you cna get your children back if you want them and maybe they will stop hating everything. You made a good choice too.
what are you asking help with? Sounds like your girls need someone to show that THEY are important.........it won't be long and you will be dealing with a pregnant daughter.....they will go some where to get the attention.
I think you excuse of not having your girls with you....';bad neighborhood';....is LAME.....your kids should come first....if they don't have adult supervision with their dad...then living with an adult who will supervise them.......even if it is a bad neighborhood.....is better.
its good that you're getting your life back together and that you are making the necessary steps to take care of yourself and your future, your children who are are each dealing with it in their own way and this may explain why your children are acting out at the moment, take small steps in trying to get them back in your life and let them no that what happened in the marriage is not their fault, most kids think the breakup of a marriage has something to do with them, or they end up resenting what has happened and starts to resent one of the parents, but take small steps into trying to rebuild your relationship with them and things will start to progress but it takes time, good luck.....
The boy probably needs to stay with his father because he's at the age where he's better off with Dad. Your daughters are going through that crazy age, makes you wish for the terrible twos again. So I believe that they really need you in their life as they approach young womanhood. Usually missions from hell do end, you just don't know when. Try to get them back and the neighborhood doesn't matter. You do realize that you will be able to get child support from ex. In any case your daughters need you now and that may be the reason why they are acting out. They didn't really understand why you left them. So be patient and hang on in there. Good luck.
Good luck with your kids and may god bless you.....
So a 15 and a 13 year old are being left alone while their dad travels to New York? You need to do something about that.
Do you want them to come live with you? Who cares what kind of neighborhood you live in. As long as your love and values are strong while you try to make a difference in their lives, it doesn't matter what setting you live in.
Teenage girls need their mommies because there are some things we just do not want to involve our dads in.
';Mommies little monsters, Daddies little girls.';
Dads are such push overs when it comes to their daughters.
It sounds like they need you Mom.
Also, you did not do anything wrong so stop feeling so guilty.cargo
i also have 3 kids. they are girl 19 girl 17 boy 13. when my girls where 3 and 5 i ended up in a homeless shelter oldest was starting king and i was a lost person there dad went to prison.i had to send my daughters my life to mich from tx with there grandfather. so see as adults and parents were not perfect and we have to think what is best for them . yes they came home after a year. dont give up . its hard for girls u have to talk to them be open with them . and they will make mistakes just be there for theme,.all teens hate everone speacily parents. just let her know u love her and your there for them. do what u have to for u to be save so u can get them .until then keep your chin up and let them know how much u love them.
good luckSome Advice, I am a mother of three. The only thing is my kids or teenagers, and they have not lived with me
well i hope you cna get your children back if you want them and maybe they will stop hating everything. You made a good choice too.
what are you asking help with? Sounds like your girls need someone to show that THEY are important.........it won't be long and you will be dealing with a pregnant daughter.....they will go some where to get the attention.
I think you excuse of not having your girls with you....';bad neighborhood';....is LAME.....your kids should come first....if they don't have adult supervision with their dad...then living with an adult who will supervise them.......even if it is a bad neighborhood.....is better.
its good that you're getting your life back together and that you are making the necessary steps to take care of yourself and your future, your children who are are each dealing with it in their own way and this may explain why your children are acting out at the moment, take small steps in trying to get them back in your life and let them no that what happened in the marriage is not their fault, most kids think the breakup of a marriage has something to do with them, or they end up resenting what has happened and starts to resent one of the parents, but take small steps into trying to rebuild your relationship with them and things will start to progress but it takes time, good luck.....
The boy probably needs to stay with his father because he's at the age where he's better off with Dad. Your daughters are going through that crazy age, makes you wish for the terrible twos again. So I believe that they really need you in their life as they approach young womanhood. Usually missions from hell do end, you just don't know when. Try to get them back and the neighborhood doesn't matter. You do realize that you will be able to get child support from ex. In any case your daughters need you now and that may be the reason why they are acting out. They didn't really understand why you left them. So be patient and hang on in there. Good luck.
Good luck with your kids and may god bless you.....
So a 15 and a 13 year old are being left alone while their dad travels to New York? You need to do something about that.
Do you want them to come live with you? Who cares what kind of neighborhood you live in. As long as your love and values are strong while you try to make a difference in their lives, it doesn't matter what setting you live in.
Teenage girls need their mommies because there are some things we just do not want to involve our dads in.
';Mommies little monsters, Daddies little girls.';
Dads are such push overs when it comes to their daughters.
It sounds like they need you Mom.
Also, you did not do anything wrong so stop feeling so guilty.
HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
I am getting a new phone with a keyboard and I am trying to convince them to get me texting. Any suggestions?HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
Tell them that its the most simple way to communicate without a computer (or using a mobile phone). Tell them that it is important for a teenager to be in contact with other people (to be social) and also to organize in group projects (school work =,=). It's the best of both worlds and I don't see why your parents will say no to letting you text on your phone!
It is like 'level one' of the next gen cellphone communication besides calling, video calling, skype, yahoo messenger (mobile browser), etc.HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
just explain texting is as common as putting on your clothes everyday and people do not ask if you have texting they just do it so when someone text you you get charged as well as when you text it is convient because if you need to tell them something and cannot use your phone you can send them a message so therefore you will not be able to say i could not talk on my phone get it you will not ok sometimes you have to let people think the advantage is theirs and they benefit but if you get it you gonna have to be true to your word and really text them if you can not use your phone maybe once they see the benefits of it they will understand
I just hacked my phone. they are paying for it ad they don't even know!
Tell them that its the most simple way to communicate without a computer (or using a mobile phone). Tell them that it is important for a teenager to be in contact with other people (to be social) and also to organize in group projects (school work =,=). It's the best of both worlds and I don't see why your parents will say no to letting you text on your phone!
It is like 'level one' of the next gen cellphone communication besides calling, video calling, skype, yahoo messenger (mobile browser), etc.HI, I am a teenager and I am trying to convince my parents to give me texting for my phone. Any advice?
just explain texting is as common as putting on your clothes everyday and people do not ask if you have texting they just do it so when someone text you you get charged as well as when you text it is convient because if you need to tell them something and cannot use your phone you can send them a message so therefore you will not be able to say i could not talk on my phone get it you will not ok sometimes you have to let people think the advantage is theirs and they benefit but if you get it you gonna have to be true to your word and really text them if you can not use your phone maybe once they see the benefits of it they will understand
I just hacked my phone. they are paying for it ad they don't even know!
Boy Question, Older teenagers please help me. I need lots of advice because I am totally lost over this boy!!!
Theres this boy. I like him my guy friend...';joe'; asked him out for me he told Joe maybe, I told Joe it was probably no, and the boy Joe asked out for me said no. It's been a few weeks and now its constant flirting, and being nice, but mostly flirting. He put my science book in my locker a few times. He took my hair clip out but gave it back. He took my ponytail out, really slow like...I dunno...but then he ran with it. But just being a boy, not immature. He kinda waits for me after 6th period and in 7th period we flirt a lot, and he touches my shoulder a lot, and we played hot hands, so we have touched, So what does this mean???Please be honest!Boy Question, Older teenagers please help me. I need lots of advice because I am totally lost over this boy!!!
He does like you. He just is probally shy as you might be as well, So you might just want to recommend doing something like going to a movie. Or inviting him to do something away from school, or just hang out as friends. Hope this helps, Good luck, and God bless!Boy Question, Older teenagers please help me. I need lots of advice because I am totally lost over this boy!!!
If you don't want him following you and you're afraid you'll hurt his feelings, then you should be firm. Squish him like a bug and don't drag it out. It's kinder that way.
i think i have same problem email mccrearybriana@yahoo.com
he only likes you cuz you like him back...find someone else...and make him jealous...and then he'll come around!!! don't be so flirtatious with him!!
He does like you. He just is probally shy as you might be as well, So you might just want to recommend doing something like going to a movie. Or inviting him to do something away from school, or just hang out as friends. Hope this helps, Good luck, and God bless!Boy Question, Older teenagers please help me. I need lots of advice because I am totally lost over this boy!!!
If you don't want him following you and you're afraid you'll hurt his feelings, then you should be firm. Squish him like a bug and don't drag it out. It's kinder that way.
i think i have same problem email mccrearybriana@yahoo.com
he only likes you cuz you like him back...find someone else...and make him jealous...and then he'll come around!!! don't be so flirtatious with him!!
Is it okay to kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend as a Christian teenager? CHRISTIAN ADVICE ONLY PLEASE!!!!! ?
yes and you can have sex with him as wellIs it okay to kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend as a Christian teenager? CHRISTIAN ADVICE ONLY PLEASE!!!!! ?
It depends on you and your boyfriend/girlfriends feelings on this. Some christains believe that any contact with another is only to be shared on the wedding day and night and so on. Others believe as long as you don't have sex, it is alright. It's all about your personal belief but i personally don't find kissing to be bad.Is it okay to kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend as a Christian teenager? CHRISTIAN ADVICE ONLY PLEASE!!!!! ?
Only if your parents have both been discussed and they approve of your entering into the eternal bond of matrimony is it permissable in the lords eyes to embrace another in a lustful way, or you could just what you feel like doing whatev'
There is nothing in the Bible against kissing. It's not wrong at all, unless it leads to something more or tempts you to do something that you shouldn't do.
I believe that it is okay, as long as it is a sign of affection, NOT of lust. Just don't make nay mistakes hun. Good luck;)
There's nothing wrong with kissing. As long as it doesn't go past kissing everything is fine.
well i really dont know but my parents tells me
its a sin. i mean i never really kissed a guy either
cause im afraid if its really a sin but i still think its romantic
HECK YEAH....YOU CAN FOOL AROUND A LITTLE TOO.
Da Bible doesn't say anything against kissing, your good to go, kiss all you want
I believe it is ok. Kissing is a loving gesture. As long as your thoughts are pure and not sexual I see this to be ok.
Well, be careful, too much PDA looks bad, but its okay if u aren't being gross about it or like making out
that is between u and ur significant other
but i would kiss him
it is fine. JUST DONT HAVE SEX.
It depends on you and your boyfriend/girlfriends feelings on this. Some christains believe that any contact with another is only to be shared on the wedding day and night and so on. Others believe as long as you don't have sex, it is alright. It's all about your personal belief but i personally don't find kissing to be bad.Is it okay to kiss your boyfriend/girlfriend as a Christian teenager? CHRISTIAN ADVICE ONLY PLEASE!!!!! ?
Only if your parents have both been discussed and they approve of your entering into the eternal bond of matrimony is it permissable in the lords eyes to embrace another in a lustful way, or you could just what you feel like doing whatev'
There is nothing in the Bible against kissing. It's not wrong at all, unless it leads to something more or tempts you to do something that you shouldn't do.
I believe that it is okay, as long as it is a sign of affection, NOT of lust. Just don't make nay mistakes hun. Good luck;)
There's nothing wrong with kissing. As long as it doesn't go past kissing everything is fine.
well i really dont know but my parents tells me
its a sin. i mean i never really kissed a guy either
cause im afraid if its really a sin but i still think its romantic
HECK YEAH....YOU CAN FOOL AROUND A LITTLE TOO.
Da Bible doesn't say anything against kissing, your good to go, kiss all you want
I believe it is ok. Kissing is a loving gesture. As long as your thoughts are pure and not sexual I see this to be ok.
Well, be careful, too much PDA looks bad, but its okay if u aren't being gross about it or like making out
that is between u and ur significant other
but i would kiss him
it is fine. JUST DONT HAVE SEX.
What advice would you give to myself, a young teenager, on life?
Have fun while you're a teenager! Teenage years are a lot easier than college and adult years. But also, make sure to do well in school.What advice would you give to myself, a young teenager, on life?
Do not try to grow up to fast, real life is a whole lot worse than your parents Im sure... Have a good time expericane as much as you can, do not drop out of school but dont load yourself dont to much on it either. Build lasting freindships that you can carry with you after school... be nice to everyone, not just people in certain clicks you will be so much more ';popular'; and liked if you do that. Dont get to hung up on small things, I know everything seems like a big deal now, but it really isnt. And most importanly BE YOURSELF always when get older and your start being your own person you realize that people like you a whole lot better than they did before. Smile always. What advice would you give to myself, a young teenager, on life?
Don't burn bridges. If you get angry, take some time away and do some serious thinking. Never forsake your true friends.
Don't touch a credit card or loan. Read some Dave Ramsey and get a very basic understanding of handling your finances.
Do have a blast. Do take minor risks. Do let yourself get lost in the music and in the moment, because time will sneak up on you like a thief.
Do love, but don't become infatuated. Keep a separate identity and understand that relationships aren't about owning another person. Learn what you can and try to keep ex-lovers as friends.
Be happy, independent and free. Don't be judgemental and have an open mind. You live this life only once so find happiness and beauty in everything!
Do not try to grow up to fast, real life is a whole lot worse than your parents Im sure... Have a good time expericane as much as you can, do not drop out of school but dont load yourself dont to much on it either. Build lasting freindships that you can carry with you after school... be nice to everyone, not just people in certain clicks you will be so much more ';popular'; and liked if you do that. Dont get to hung up on small things, I know everything seems like a big deal now, but it really isnt. And most importanly BE YOURSELF always when get older and your start being your own person you realize that people like you a whole lot better than they did before. Smile always. What advice would you give to myself, a young teenager, on life?
Don't burn bridges. If you get angry, take some time away and do some serious thinking. Never forsake your true friends.
Don't touch a credit card or loan. Read some Dave Ramsey and get a very basic understanding of handling your finances.
Do have a blast. Do take minor risks. Do let yourself get lost in the music and in the moment, because time will sneak up on you like a thief.
Do love, but don't become infatuated. Keep a separate identity and understand that relationships aren't about owning another person. Learn what you can and try to keep ex-lovers as friends.
Be happy, independent and free. Don't be judgemental and have an open mind. You live this life only once so find happiness and beauty in everything!
What kind of advice do adults tend to give teenagers about falling in love? Why?
Yes, another question ..
Basically, straight forward:
What kind of advice do adults tend to give teenagers about falling in love? Why?
鈻?Don't need a paragraph, just small points
鈻?You don't need to answer the ';Why?'; part
鈻?Something besides the fact that they tell you to not have a relationship because your too young (please) .. already have that 銉?br>
This was the assignment I got after reading Romeo %26amp; Juliet btw.
So maybe that can get you some ideas 銉?br>
Pleaaase%26amp;thaankyou ! 銉?br>
I appreciate it.What kind of advice do adults tend to give teenagers about falling in love? Why?
My Mum told me not to get too hung up on relationships, I'm still young and should have fun, not get hung up about these things. And never to let a boy get between me and my friends. Bascially she just wants me to have fun and not look for anything serious.
In the form of Romeo and Juliet and appropriate to that topic: if she doesn't like him I don't go out with him - which is a lot of what Romeo and Juliet is about. But she would never force me to go out with someone (Paris in R%26amp;J).
Basically, straight forward:
What kind of advice do adults tend to give teenagers about falling in love? Why?
鈻?Don't need a paragraph, just small points
鈻?You don't need to answer the ';Why?'; part
鈻?Something besides the fact that they tell you to not have a relationship because your too young (please) .. already have that 銉?br>
This was the assignment I got after reading Romeo %26amp; Juliet btw.
So maybe that can get you some ideas 銉?br>
Pleaaase%26amp;thaankyou ! 銉?br>
I appreciate it.What kind of advice do adults tend to give teenagers about falling in love? Why?
My Mum told me not to get too hung up on relationships, I'm still young and should have fun, not get hung up about these things. And never to let a boy get between me and my friends. Bascially she just wants me to have fun and not look for anything serious.
In the form of Romeo and Juliet and appropriate to that topic: if she doesn't like him I don't go out with him - which is a lot of what Romeo and Juliet is about. But she would never force me to go out with someone (Paris in R%26amp;J).
Can somebody black give me some advice on how to deal with yobbish,cocky gangs of hard headed teenagers in a?
non confrontational way?~ i live in an area where a few of em live, and their behaviour is very intimidating, manipulating and confrontational....i wanna no how to deal with it without gettin introuble or reacting in a confrontational way back... they havent done any harm to me, but its in the instance they were to shout somethin at me as i walk past....
i deal with high levels of anxiety and rage, so i wanna be carefull to respond in the correct manner, that keeps my dignity, so it doesnt appear im frightened by them, even though i do feel intimidated.
cheersCan somebody black give me some advice on how to deal with yobbish,cocky gangs of hard headed teenagers in a?
Arm yourself. Go to Walmart, get a shotgun.
But seriously. Be street smart.* If you feel threatened, get the police involve. Most black kids hanging out aren't dangerous. But gang kids are. Check out the graffiti on the walls. Are they gang related? If they are, you got problems. Try not to have any kind of verbal or eye contact with gang kids.
You should get a shotgun to protect your house if you know you got gangs.
If all you got are regular black kids, use psychology....make some friends.
*
don't carry large sums of money
vary your movements, such as when you go to the bank and such
don't be afraid to cross the street if there is a group of people in front of youCan somebody black give me some advice on how to deal with yobbish,cocky gangs of hard headed teenagers in a?
why would a black person have moe persepective,
There are white gang bangers too you know.
if you ever show that you fear they will attack and haunt you daily.....I carry a 16Inch collapsable baton in my back pocket...they snick when its slung open does wonders for those types....cargo
i deal with high levels of anxiety and rage, so i wanna be carefull to respond in the correct manner, that keeps my dignity, so it doesnt appear im frightened by them, even though i do feel intimidated.
cheersCan somebody black give me some advice on how to deal with yobbish,cocky gangs of hard headed teenagers in a?
Arm yourself. Go to Walmart, get a shotgun.
But seriously. Be street smart.* If you feel threatened, get the police involve. Most black kids hanging out aren't dangerous. But gang kids are. Check out the graffiti on the walls. Are they gang related? If they are, you got problems. Try not to have any kind of verbal or eye contact with gang kids.
You should get a shotgun to protect your house if you know you got gangs.
If all you got are regular black kids, use psychology....make some friends.
*
don't carry large sums of money
vary your movements, such as when you go to the bank and such
don't be afraid to cross the street if there is a group of people in front of youCan somebody black give me some advice on how to deal with yobbish,cocky gangs of hard headed teenagers in a?
why would a black person have moe persepective,
There are white gang bangers too you know.
if you ever show that you fear they will attack and haunt you daily.....I carry a 16Inch collapsable baton in my back pocket...they snick when its slung open does wonders for those types....
Ok to all teenagers and all other ages need advice please?
am 38 Years old and my Cousin is 13 Years old,We are currently living under the same roof.because she has come basically come from a broken home she has lied and lied to me with just about everything in just a normal conversation.the stories she told me were not true at all.
She told me lies about her Mother and her Grandfather.she even told me that one of her friends were killed which all were made up.
I have tried to ask her why she lies to me she even denied lying to me.
I feel she needs some kind of guidance but being her lies are constant i do not know what to believe any longer and feel the need to cut all contact with her because she even lies to others about her confiding in me.My Mom says to pacify it that its a stage that she is going through and to let it be and forgive her because she is just a kid.I do not believe that,because she not only lies about everything but also is an outcast at school.my question is why would she lie to people who love her the most especially hr own blood? any advice please ?thank youOk to all teenagers and all other ages need advice please?
Teenagers are complicated, trust me. But that doesn't mean that just because shes young she should be excused for everything she does. Just as stupid is not an excuse, neither is being young. I'd try just to sit down and talk to her, one-on-one. it might not work, but it will do more good than just standing back and watching. and if it doesn't work, then just tell her that you wont stand for her lying anymore and that until she straightens up, you'll listen, but not believe her. but don't sever all ties with her just yet. if shes an outcast the one thing she could use most is just someone to be her friend.Ok to all teenagers and all other ages need advice please?
Maybe she's being influenced by the wrong company
My mom says sometimes when someone lies about everything its really hard to get out of the habit , try talking to her and the dangers of lying like
if she was falsely accused of something that could put her in jail for a really long time and she finally tells the truth no one would believe her or even try to defend her because they know her as a liar and it might happen later in life
And guidance counselor works
it is a stage when the person is THREE OR FOUR YEARS OLD. not 13.
she does this because she wants attention, she wants to be interesting, she thinks she has to lie to be accepted, OR
this is something that is a psychological problem, that she can not control at all.
In any case, it doesn't relate to you being family, or that you know that you are trustworthy.
turn it on her!
if she lies say yah rite.
and say that even if she isnt lying.
then she will be like im serious!
and you say no your lying!
and keep doing that!
she will get the point and stop lying after awhile.
.
she is riding in the small bus...her problems were there long before you came along. she does have issues, but you can't believe just being related to her can make her change her ways. she does need guidance, but your not the one to give it. you don't understand what is going on, so there is no way you can help her.
could it possibly be she is seeking attention?? i know i used to do that i used to lie about sad or bad things that happen to me so people would give me sympathy and more love and stuff. try showing her more love and maybe she will eventually feel bad for lieing to you treat her good.she is obviously going through a hard time. any kid that doesnt have their parents arent goingto act normal
Just whenever she tells you anything, respond that ';you're lying again, thank you';. There is no such phase. People who are obsessive liars will never stop. It's some sort of mental deficiency of sorts I'm afraid.
Sorry you have relatives like that. Good news - some of mine are way worse.
hey uhmm i am 13 year old and its probably her friends who are giving her a bad influence or she wants to be a big shot like oh ihave done that and i have been through this so i think you got the idea of what i am saying her so yea
Since she has most likely had family problems, her compulsive lying is her defense mechanism for not having to deal with reality.
I can't really give you any advice, except that you should probably take her to a councilor or therapist... a professional would help this serious situation better than anyone on Yahoo Answers can.
I think the lies are covering up the truth about something deep and she defiantly needs to talk to a professional. It's better to be safe than sorry!
you can't stop her. ignore her exciting or shocking stories by just giving her a simple reply with no reaction, it may take time, but she'll realize it's not right %26amp; stop.. trust me.
:)
Call a shrink and stop believing her.
I agree with BondGirl, maybe you should seek out professional help for her.
Just smack that lil' ho in her f'ing mouth and set her straight.
u should start lying to her to see how she like it
i had a friend like that. i think its about wanting attention.
you should tell her that she doesn't have to lie
lol....i swer when i was reading your question your cousin that you mentioned reminded me of my close friend.....who also EXACTLY like your cousin lies about petty stuff and makes up wonderland stories for no reason.......
im in the same situation as you.....the only difference is that im 15 and my friend is also 15.....
well the best option is to try and make her understand indirectly that you people love her and lieing will break or weaken your relation with her.....
but remember i think she is going through a hard phase in life due to which she is lieing that way so dont be harsh or rude with her or dont scold her for her continious lies......!!
hope it helps!! ;)
anyway thanks and have a good day :)!!!~
natalie.
She told me lies about her Mother and her Grandfather.she even told me that one of her friends were killed which all were made up.
I have tried to ask her why she lies to me she even denied lying to me.
I feel she needs some kind of guidance but being her lies are constant i do not know what to believe any longer and feel the need to cut all contact with her because she even lies to others about her confiding in me.My Mom says to pacify it that its a stage that she is going through and to let it be and forgive her because she is just a kid.I do not believe that,because she not only lies about everything but also is an outcast at school.my question is why would she lie to people who love her the most especially hr own blood? any advice please ?thank youOk to all teenagers and all other ages need advice please?
Teenagers are complicated, trust me. But that doesn't mean that just because shes young she should be excused for everything she does. Just as stupid is not an excuse, neither is being young. I'd try just to sit down and talk to her, one-on-one. it might not work, but it will do more good than just standing back and watching. and if it doesn't work, then just tell her that you wont stand for her lying anymore and that until she straightens up, you'll listen, but not believe her. but don't sever all ties with her just yet. if shes an outcast the one thing she could use most is just someone to be her friend.Ok to all teenagers and all other ages need advice please?
Maybe she's being influenced by the wrong company
My mom says sometimes when someone lies about everything its really hard to get out of the habit , try talking to her and the dangers of lying like
if she was falsely accused of something that could put her in jail for a really long time and she finally tells the truth no one would believe her or even try to defend her because they know her as a liar and it might happen later in life
And guidance counselor works
it is a stage when the person is THREE OR FOUR YEARS OLD. not 13.
she does this because she wants attention, she wants to be interesting, she thinks she has to lie to be accepted, OR
this is something that is a psychological problem, that she can not control at all.
In any case, it doesn't relate to you being family, or that you know that you are trustworthy.
turn it on her!
if she lies say yah rite.
and say that even if she isnt lying.
then she will be like im serious!
and you say no your lying!
and keep doing that!
she will get the point and stop lying after awhile.
.
she is riding in the small bus...her problems were there long before you came along. she does have issues, but you can't believe just being related to her can make her change her ways. she does need guidance, but your not the one to give it. you don't understand what is going on, so there is no way you can help her.
could it possibly be she is seeking attention?? i know i used to do that i used to lie about sad or bad things that happen to me so people would give me sympathy and more love and stuff. try showing her more love and maybe she will eventually feel bad for lieing to you treat her good.she is obviously going through a hard time. any kid that doesnt have their parents arent goingto act normal
Just whenever she tells you anything, respond that ';you're lying again, thank you';. There is no such phase. People who are obsessive liars will never stop. It's some sort of mental deficiency of sorts I'm afraid.
Sorry you have relatives like that. Good news - some of mine are way worse.
hey uhmm i am 13 year old and its probably her friends who are giving her a bad influence or she wants to be a big shot like oh ihave done that and i have been through this so i think you got the idea of what i am saying her so yea
Since she has most likely had family problems, her compulsive lying is her defense mechanism for not having to deal with reality.
I can't really give you any advice, except that you should probably take her to a councilor or therapist... a professional would help this serious situation better than anyone on Yahoo Answers can.
I think the lies are covering up the truth about something deep and she defiantly needs to talk to a professional. It's better to be safe than sorry!
you can't stop her. ignore her exciting or shocking stories by just giving her a simple reply with no reaction, it may take time, but she'll realize it's not right %26amp; stop.. trust me.
:)
Call a shrink and stop believing her.
I agree with BondGirl, maybe you should seek out professional help for her.
Just smack that lil' ho in her f'ing mouth and set her straight.
u should start lying to her to see how she like it
i had a friend like that. i think its about wanting attention.
you should tell her that she doesn't have to lie
lol....i swer when i was reading your question your cousin that you mentioned reminded me of my close friend.....who also EXACTLY like your cousin lies about petty stuff and makes up wonderland stories for no reason.......
im in the same situation as you.....the only difference is that im 15 and my friend is also 15.....
well the best option is to try and make her understand indirectly that you people love her and lieing will break or weaken your relation with her.....
but remember i think she is going through a hard phase in life due to which she is lieing that way so dont be harsh or rude with her or dont scold her for her continious lies......!!
hope it helps!! ;)
anyway thanks and have a good day :)!!!~
natalie.
Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
Read this question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
I don't judge anyone. For all the virgins/girls/guys/teenagers that I have spoken to that get enfuriated when adults talk about casual sex here is 1 example of what can happen. By all means it is not a tell tale of all examples.
.So many emotions come with sex and if you think of the type of questions you start asking yourself...if you read and understand the question above you will see some of the more common things that can happen.
A lot of people that tell you do not do it are speaking from experience, whether that makes them knowledgeable or a hypocrite is up to you.
Some people are going to hate me for posting this but I am ok with that.I think sometimes you have to show a person vs. Tell them.
I hope this is effective.Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
i agree, there are a lot of emotions that unexpectedly come along with sex that teens do not understand, along with the risk of pregnancy. however, i feel it is wrong to discourage them through fear, as is taught in the ';abstinence only'; programs at schools. sex is over glamorized everywhere you look, whether it is movies, tv, books, and on and on... it is portrayed as something that is wild, reckless and rebellious. and how can you deny a teenager/young person that? thats why i feel that it should be taught as ';responsible sex'; and not just abstinence. there needs to be proper education in place to warn them about the attachment issues, misconstrued feelings, and just plain baggage that comes with it. casual sex is fine when to participating parties both know what they are getting involved in, but when something like in the question happens [very long by the way, not yours, but the ';was he using me...'; question] someone gets hurt, when neither party wanted that to happen. so, casual sex , fine when both are upfront and straight forward.Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
im only 18 but i really dont want to hear about young teenagers having sex all the time with so many different people maybe cause i was never in to the whole casual sex stuff. Im just really old fashion in the whole sex thing i think you should love the person you are having sex with not just get horrny around them
The gibberish you wrote is really not effective. From an adults perspective, we try to tell teens that as a way to prevent them from making the same mistakes we did. If you call that hypocrisy, fine. If it prevents one teen from contracting an STD or getting pregnant, then it was successful. Guess what--you can learn something from an adult whether you want to believe it or not.
I don't get it either.. i think it's cool.. I don't have a daugher though
I'm a adult...I have no problem with casual sex
I try to tell kids (under 18) not to have sex because I did NOT have sex when I was underage (so there goes the hypocrite theory) and many of them, dare I say most, are going to have sex recklessly, causing teen pregnancies and the further spread of STD's. My biggest concern is pregnancy, because then you have an unwanted child in the world where their parents are simply not old enough (maturity-wise, financially, etc) to take care of an infant, which puts that burden on ME, the taxpayer. For anyone old enough and can take care of the mess they cause, I say sleep with however many people you want to. But until then, keep it in your pants.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?鈥?/a>
I don't judge anyone. For all the virgins/girls/guys/teenagers that I have spoken to that get enfuriated when adults talk about casual sex here is 1 example of what can happen. By all means it is not a tell tale of all examples.
.So many emotions come with sex and if you think of the type of questions you start asking yourself...if you read and understand the question above you will see some of the more common things that can happen.
A lot of people that tell you do not do it are speaking from experience, whether that makes them knowledgeable or a hypocrite is up to you.
Some people are going to hate me for posting this but I am ok with that.I think sometimes you have to show a person vs. Tell them.
I hope this is effective.Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
i agree, there are a lot of emotions that unexpectedly come along with sex that teens do not understand, along with the risk of pregnancy. however, i feel it is wrong to discourage them through fear, as is taught in the ';abstinence only'; programs at schools. sex is over glamorized everywhere you look, whether it is movies, tv, books, and on and on... it is portrayed as something that is wild, reckless and rebellious. and how can you deny a teenager/young person that? thats why i feel that it should be taught as ';responsible sex'; and not just abstinence. there needs to be proper education in place to warn them about the attachment issues, misconstrued feelings, and just plain baggage that comes with it. casual sex is fine when to participating parties both know what they are getting involved in, but when something like in the question happens [very long by the way, not yours, but the ';was he using me...'; question] someone gets hurt, when neither party wanted that to happen. so, casual sex , fine when both are upfront and straight forward.Hypocrites/Virgins/Teenagers-P鈥?Why do some adults advice against casual sex??
im only 18 but i really dont want to hear about young teenagers having sex all the time with so many different people maybe cause i was never in to the whole casual sex stuff. Im just really old fashion in the whole sex thing i think you should love the person you are having sex with not just get horrny around them
The gibberish you wrote is really not effective. From an adults perspective, we try to tell teens that as a way to prevent them from making the same mistakes we did. If you call that hypocrisy, fine. If it prevents one teen from contracting an STD or getting pregnant, then it was successful. Guess what--you can learn something from an adult whether you want to believe it or not.
I don't get it either.. i think it's cool.. I don't have a daugher though
I'm a adult...I have no problem with casual sex
I try to tell kids (under 18) not to have sex because I did NOT have sex when I was underage (so there goes the hypocrite theory) and many of them, dare I say most, are going to have sex recklessly, causing teen pregnancies and the further spread of STD's. My biggest concern is pregnancy, because then you have an unwanted child in the world where their parents are simply not old enough (maturity-wise, financially, etc) to take care of an infant, which puts that burden on ME, the taxpayer. For anyone old enough and can take care of the mess they cause, I say sleep with however many people you want to. But until then, keep it in your pants.
2 Seater for Teenager Advice?
I don't know if I should get a two seater or not i've already picked the car from earlier but I wanted too know if you had a two seater when you were young did you think it was a mistake or not? If you didn't have a two seater did you use your back seat a lot?
Thank you.
10 points for best answer!2 Seater for Teenager Advice?
For years I went without using the backseats in most of my cars I owned. Only recently when I took to the movies all my roommates did I finally use the rear seats for humans. Since four door cars are cheaper, and hence my money is limited, thats what I buy. When I did have a 2 door car without backseats, the room in the back was sufficient for all my needs. I had a early Supra, and the backseat were very small. Take alook at your life are you in clubs or social circles where you need to have the ability to transport people? Are you in a band, so then you need room to transport band equipment? So to sum up in 20 years of driving I needed the backseats less than 20 times or so. 2 Seater for Teenager Advice?
I was going to give my daughter my Miata as a college graduation gift as she just loved that car. It was a second car for me and I also had a Dodge station wagon when I needed to carry more.
However, it was totaled before she graduated and she as a 4 door sedan now. She found there are times it is great to be able to drive friends ir even just extra stuff around. After her initial disappointment, she realizes that if you only have one car, it needs to be a little more practical. A two seater is a fun second car for fun driving.
Well, I am very glad I had a regular sedan because I was always going around with my friends. So, if you spend a lot of time with friends, there is some practicality to a four-door, especially if your friends don't have cars.
But if your friends all have cars, or you don't really drive other people around, then a 2-seater is most likely okay.
If you plan to load up the car with your friends, then I definitely wouldn't recommend a 2-seater.
With a larger than 2-seated car, you have storage room for shopping, and other passengers. One advantage to 2-seaters is that they usually have excellent gas millage (30MPG and up)
Check out this article for more info on what to do and what to look for when buying a first car:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>
Thank you.
10 points for best answer!2 Seater for Teenager Advice?
For years I went without using the backseats in most of my cars I owned. Only recently when I took to the movies all my roommates did I finally use the rear seats for humans. Since four door cars are cheaper, and hence my money is limited, thats what I buy. When I did have a 2 door car without backseats, the room in the back was sufficient for all my needs. I had a early Supra, and the backseat were very small. Take alook at your life are you in clubs or social circles where you need to have the ability to transport people? Are you in a band, so then you need room to transport band equipment? So to sum up in 20 years of driving I needed the backseats less than 20 times or so. 2 Seater for Teenager Advice?
I was going to give my daughter my Miata as a college graduation gift as she just loved that car. It was a second car for me and I also had a Dodge station wagon when I needed to carry more.
However, it was totaled before she graduated and she as a 4 door sedan now. She found there are times it is great to be able to drive friends ir even just extra stuff around. After her initial disappointment, she realizes that if you only have one car, it needs to be a little more practical. A two seater is a fun second car for fun driving.
Well, I am very glad I had a regular sedan because I was always going around with my friends. So, if you spend a lot of time with friends, there is some practicality to a four-door, especially if your friends don't have cars.
But if your friends all have cars, or you don't really drive other people around, then a 2-seater is most likely okay.
If you plan to load up the car with your friends, then I definitely wouldn't recommend a 2-seater.
With a larger than 2-seated car, you have storage room for shopping, and other passengers. One advantage to 2-seaters is that they usually have excellent gas millage (30MPG and up)
Check out this article for more info on what to do and what to look for when buying a first car:
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article鈥?/a>
*sigh* teenagers, can anyone give me some advice?
I'm 15, when i was 14(just turned) i met up with this guy who lives near me, at 13 i was just starting to get interested with guys and i thought this guy was really nice, he was 16 One night me and my friend developed a plan to sneak out and meet up with him. Our plan consisted of me going ';home'; (secretly meeting with him) then my friend was going to come down about 30 mins later to meet me so we could go back to my house. But as my friend was walking down to meet me her mum saw her out the window walking somewhere she wasn't ment to be, so acting like any mother she came flying down the road and picked us up in the car and took us home asap.
things were weird for a month or two and i was starting to realise i really liked him, whatever i did he wouldn't leave my mind and know im young.
That night me and him kissed, and being me full of excitment i told someone, i wasn't going to keep it to myself...
He started speaking to me again and one night he convinced me to sneak out to his house, to be honest i really wanted to, even when i walked to his house i was shaking with fear, fear that he might hate me. So i got to his house and quite alot for my age happened, i didn't have sex with him but it was quite close tbh.
after that night i was really worried about what had happened and i didn't know if i had done right or not, i really liked him but he told me it was for ';fun';. i know i was stupid to go along with it, but when you like someone that much you... you don't know what to do. So i told my best friend, unfortuently he told someone else and word spread.
The guy soon decided he didn't want to speak to me, but it didn't last long and i continued to go to his house...
but more people started to find out and alot of people didn't respect him anymore and he blamed me because of how people hated him.
he now refusses to speak to me at all and tells my friends he wants nothing to do with me, i know i should hate someone that put me through this, but to be honest if he killed me i'd apologize for getting blood on him.. i think i love him, but i can't!
and things are getting worse he's getting really close to one of my ';best friends'; i just can't get over him... and i really need to, i've tryed so much, i think i need help :/
i mean it's almost been two years....*sigh* teenagers, can anyone give me some advice?
Whats is it you like about this guy? You are worth much more than being disrespected. Try loving yourself before you have your heart to any boy, he is only after some ';fun'; after all. Concentrate on yourself and being with your friends, if you are trying to hard you will only attract the wrong boys, who will see as depesperate.*sigh* teenagers, can anyone give me some advice?
the part about him liking your bestfriend.
- if him and you so called bestfriend end up dating,
obviusly you know who your realy friends are.'
And falling in love with someone who dont like you backk,
is really hard.
but you got to try and stop thinking about him.
and go out and find differnt guys,
and if he blames you.
he's deffinaly not worth your time.
its his lost.
thats what i think.
Hope i helped.
things were weird for a month or two and i was starting to realise i really liked him, whatever i did he wouldn't leave my mind and know im young.
That night me and him kissed, and being me full of excitment i told someone, i wasn't going to keep it to myself...
He started speaking to me again and one night he convinced me to sneak out to his house, to be honest i really wanted to, even when i walked to his house i was shaking with fear, fear that he might hate me. So i got to his house and quite alot for my age happened, i didn't have sex with him but it was quite close tbh.
after that night i was really worried about what had happened and i didn't know if i had done right or not, i really liked him but he told me it was for ';fun';. i know i was stupid to go along with it, but when you like someone that much you... you don't know what to do. So i told my best friend, unfortuently he told someone else and word spread.
The guy soon decided he didn't want to speak to me, but it didn't last long and i continued to go to his house...
but more people started to find out and alot of people didn't respect him anymore and he blamed me because of how people hated him.
he now refusses to speak to me at all and tells my friends he wants nothing to do with me, i know i should hate someone that put me through this, but to be honest if he killed me i'd apologize for getting blood on him.. i think i love him, but i can't!
and things are getting worse he's getting really close to one of my ';best friends'; i just can't get over him... and i really need to, i've tryed so much, i think i need help :/
i mean it's almost been two years....*sigh* teenagers, can anyone give me some advice?
Whats is it you like about this guy? You are worth much more than being disrespected. Try loving yourself before you have your heart to any boy, he is only after some ';fun'; after all. Concentrate on yourself and being with your friends, if you are trying to hard you will only attract the wrong boys, who will see as depesperate.*sigh* teenagers, can anyone give me some advice?
the part about him liking your bestfriend.
- if him and you so called bestfriend end up dating,
obviusly you know who your realy friends are.'
And falling in love with someone who dont like you backk,
is really hard.
but you got to try and stop thinking about him.
and go out and find differnt guys,
and if he blames you.
he's deffinaly not worth your time.
its his lost.
thats what i think.
Hope i helped.
Any advice for help with household chores from a lazy husband and 2 lazy teenagers?
teenagers are 14 and 16 , husband is 31; all are exremely lazy and if they pick up one thing that happens to be theirs , they think they cleaned the whole houseAny advice for help with household chores from a lazy husband and 2 lazy teenagers?
Stop doing their laundry... and cooking dinner for them. What will they do without clean clothes and food to eat?? They will realize sooner or later that someone takes care of them and maybe they need to start doing it on their own.
Or you could call a family meeting and tell them they all need to pitch in.Any advice for help with household chores from a lazy husband and 2 lazy teenagers?
STOP doing a thing for them...
kick there stuff to their doorway (no matter what it is)
tell them you won't be cooking, cleaning, or doing anything for them at all until they help..
then go relax in a long bath ......
make a nice dinner for yourself(preferably their favourite)..
clean up after yourself..
don't do a thing for them ..
take a few days for you ...
act as if they aren't there...
just walk around them when you do things...
they will sooon get sick of it and help....
and as for your bed give your husband a sleeping bag and tell him that you wont allow animals in your room and until he helps he has to sleep on the lounge....
it will get to them.....
stop doing for them they are old enough to do there own just do your own stuff if they cant be bothered to bring there dirty clothes down to be washed leave them on the floor then when they have nothing to wear make them do there own washing same with cooking washing up shopping and everything else good luck i think your gonna need it lol x
to get my children and husbands attention I bought a padlock and when i cleaned up the house everything them left out got lock in the storage shed along with the television radios and video games. They where told until the learned to respect me the house and their belongings they had to learn to live with the bare minimum. I then pack a suitcase and went to a hotel for the 4 day holiday weekend. When I came home my house was immaculate I mean cleaner than when I left . Now all I have to say is I am thinking of making reservations to get them back on track.
I set the table one evening, called everyone to dinner and then set an expensive juicy steak with potatoes and green beans down in front of me, said grace and started eating. Everyone was, ';Where's mine?'; I said, ';Oh, I must have forgotten to make yours...right about the same time you forgot to empty the dishwasher and you forgot to clean the bathroom and you forgot to take out the garbage.'; Everybody freaked out, but I just sat there enjoying my steak. Later on I pulled all the laundry out of the shoot, seperated all my stuff and started washing. It didn't take them long to ask, ';Mom, are you going to wash ours?'; I said NO! I didn't say another thing, but everybody got the idea. Chores started getting done more often, and my husband started saying thank you.
I crabbed at everybody for years, but sometimes actions (and a beautiful steak!) speak louder than words!
This is what my mom did to help me realize how grateful I am for her. Go on vacation, take care of your mom, just go somewhere for a couple of days. Once you are gone, your responsiblities will become theirs. Once my mom left , my little sister, dad, and I realized quick that mom had a hard job. If when you come back and you still have this problem go on strike, meaning stop cleaning, cooking, etc.
I will tell you why I never did any chores while I was growing up: nothing was ever good enough for my mother. When I washed the dishes, I got yelled at for putting the dishes in the drainer wrong. If I dusted, it wasn't good enough. If I cleaned the bathroom, I used the wrong cleaner and didn't wipe the mirror. If I ran the vaccuum, I pushed it too fast. Eventually, I preferred to get in trouble for not doing chores rather than doing chores and getting in trouble anyway. I'm sure that you are so happy when they do the dishes that you don't nitpick or criticize, but I thought it was worth sharing.
Go on strike...if nothing is getting done in the house like their laundry, maybe they will sit down with you and decide to share the chores.
Go on STRIKE and make sure they know you are!
I wouldn't lift another finger until they get off their butts and help you out!
let them fend for themselves! omg 31 and he has a 16 year old? no wonder he is lazy, he was too busy having kids to grow up!
They're all to old for you to be picking up after any of them. You're not their maid and I would make that clear. Set up days and times to help with chores, and have some kind of reward system. If they don't pick up set the consequences. And I'd tell my husband you split the chores around the house.
Give your teens chores and make them do them or they cannot go out and do what they want to do.. Or make them do chores for allowance.. You have to get a hold of your family before its to late.. Come on people what is wrong with our society.. We need to start controlling our kids instead of your kids controlling you.. Get your crap together and make your kids do what you want them to do..
http://www.chorebuster.net/
My husband helps out around the house, but not as much as he could...What I did not too long ago was I stopped doing all the typical chores I do on a daily basis (just stopped for about a day and a half) and he soon realized how much I actually do around the house for our family. Mine is like your's....expects to be praised and rewarded for...i don't know, picking up his laundry off the floor and moving it to the hamper...
He has started to pitch in a lot more for little odd jobs and it really helps. Also, if you do try this technique, tell them you appreciate their help and let them know how much time it saves you. My husband has started saying thank you to me more, now that I remind myself to thank him for little things too.
Hope this helps!
Ugh! I feel you on this one. I would start making a list for each of them. Give the list to them in the morning and start taking away priveledges, tv, allowance, unless these things are done. Let them know that it is not fair for you to have to do EVERYTHING. With hubby. . . I'm sure he loves dinner. . . and sex. Let him know that the more he helps out with household chores and takes a lot of stress and energy off of you. . . . more dinner, more sex. Worked wonders on mine. Good luck to you.
Don't give them anything until they ALL start helping around the house...Husband included. No allowance for the boys, don't pick up anything special for them at the grocery store, cook meals they don't care for, don't do laundry for them(uniforms), don't give any rides (only 2 school..not anything extra), show them how much you do for them and that if they can't help around the house you aren't helping them with anything special.
Have a family meeting. Talk about this. If this yields no results, go on vacation for a week. Or just tell them that you aren't cooking or cleaning for a week or so.
Or you can try to bribe the kids...=]
yes! MAKE IT FUN!!!!! make up some games or try and get everyone involved and do something fun together.
Ha-I think this problem plagues tons of wives/mothers. You're not alone! When you find an acceptable solution please post it on Y!A to enlighten us that feel your pain!
Children are probably like that because moms do everything for them when they are young-it's just easier to do it yourself once than to have to go behind them and fix what they did wrong. Husbands are like that because their mother did the same thing we are with our kids!
Stop doing their laundry... and cooking dinner for them. What will they do without clean clothes and food to eat?? They will realize sooner or later that someone takes care of them and maybe they need to start doing it on their own.
Or you could call a family meeting and tell them they all need to pitch in.Any advice for help with household chores from a lazy husband and 2 lazy teenagers?
STOP doing a thing for them...
kick there stuff to their doorway (no matter what it is)
tell them you won't be cooking, cleaning, or doing anything for them at all until they help..
then go relax in a long bath ......
make a nice dinner for yourself(preferably their favourite)..
clean up after yourself..
don't do a thing for them ..
take a few days for you ...
act as if they aren't there...
just walk around them when you do things...
they will sooon get sick of it and help....
and as for your bed give your husband a sleeping bag and tell him that you wont allow animals in your room and until he helps he has to sleep on the lounge....
it will get to them.....
stop doing for them they are old enough to do there own just do your own stuff if they cant be bothered to bring there dirty clothes down to be washed leave them on the floor then when they have nothing to wear make them do there own washing same with cooking washing up shopping and everything else good luck i think your gonna need it lol x
to get my children and husbands attention I bought a padlock and when i cleaned up the house everything them left out got lock in the storage shed along with the television radios and video games. They where told until the learned to respect me the house and their belongings they had to learn to live with the bare minimum. I then pack a suitcase and went to a hotel for the 4 day holiday weekend. When I came home my house was immaculate I mean cleaner than when I left . Now all I have to say is I am thinking of making reservations to get them back on track.
I set the table one evening, called everyone to dinner and then set an expensive juicy steak with potatoes and green beans down in front of me, said grace and started eating. Everyone was, ';Where's mine?'; I said, ';Oh, I must have forgotten to make yours...right about the same time you forgot to empty the dishwasher and you forgot to clean the bathroom and you forgot to take out the garbage.'; Everybody freaked out, but I just sat there enjoying my steak. Later on I pulled all the laundry out of the shoot, seperated all my stuff and started washing. It didn't take them long to ask, ';Mom, are you going to wash ours?'; I said NO! I didn't say another thing, but everybody got the idea. Chores started getting done more often, and my husband started saying thank you.
I crabbed at everybody for years, but sometimes actions (and a beautiful steak!) speak louder than words!
This is what my mom did to help me realize how grateful I am for her. Go on vacation, take care of your mom, just go somewhere for a couple of days. Once you are gone, your responsiblities will become theirs. Once my mom left , my little sister, dad, and I realized quick that mom had a hard job. If when you come back and you still have this problem go on strike, meaning stop cleaning, cooking, etc.
I will tell you why I never did any chores while I was growing up: nothing was ever good enough for my mother. When I washed the dishes, I got yelled at for putting the dishes in the drainer wrong. If I dusted, it wasn't good enough. If I cleaned the bathroom, I used the wrong cleaner and didn't wipe the mirror. If I ran the vaccuum, I pushed it too fast. Eventually, I preferred to get in trouble for not doing chores rather than doing chores and getting in trouble anyway. I'm sure that you are so happy when they do the dishes that you don't nitpick or criticize, but I thought it was worth sharing.
Go on strike...if nothing is getting done in the house like their laundry, maybe they will sit down with you and decide to share the chores.
Go on STRIKE and make sure they know you are!
I wouldn't lift another finger until they get off their butts and help you out!
let them fend for themselves! omg 31 and he has a 16 year old? no wonder he is lazy, he was too busy having kids to grow up!
They're all to old for you to be picking up after any of them. You're not their maid and I would make that clear. Set up days and times to help with chores, and have some kind of reward system. If they don't pick up set the consequences. And I'd tell my husband you split the chores around the house.
Give your teens chores and make them do them or they cannot go out and do what they want to do.. Or make them do chores for allowance.. You have to get a hold of your family before its to late.. Come on people what is wrong with our society.. We need to start controlling our kids instead of your kids controlling you.. Get your crap together and make your kids do what you want them to do..
http://www.chorebuster.net/
My husband helps out around the house, but not as much as he could...What I did not too long ago was I stopped doing all the typical chores I do on a daily basis (just stopped for about a day and a half) and he soon realized how much I actually do around the house for our family. Mine is like your's....expects to be praised and rewarded for...i don't know, picking up his laundry off the floor and moving it to the hamper...
He has started to pitch in a lot more for little odd jobs and it really helps. Also, if you do try this technique, tell them you appreciate their help and let them know how much time it saves you. My husband has started saying thank you to me more, now that I remind myself to thank him for little things too.
Hope this helps!
Ugh! I feel you on this one. I would start making a list for each of them. Give the list to them in the morning and start taking away priveledges, tv, allowance, unless these things are done. Let them know that it is not fair for you to have to do EVERYTHING. With hubby. . . I'm sure he loves dinner. . . and sex. Let him know that the more he helps out with household chores and takes a lot of stress and energy off of you. . . . more dinner, more sex. Worked wonders on mine. Good luck to you.
Don't give them anything until they ALL start helping around the house...Husband included. No allowance for the boys, don't pick up anything special for them at the grocery store, cook meals they don't care for, don't do laundry for them(uniforms), don't give any rides (only 2 school..not anything extra), show them how much you do for them and that if they can't help around the house you aren't helping them with anything special.
Have a family meeting. Talk about this. If this yields no results, go on vacation for a week. Or just tell them that you aren't cooking or cleaning for a week or so.
Or you can try to bribe the kids...=]
yes! MAKE IT FUN!!!!! make up some games or try and get everyone involved and do something fun together.
Ha-I think this problem plagues tons of wives/mothers. You're not alone! When you find an acceptable solution please post it on Y!A to enlighten us that feel your pain!
Children are probably like that because moms do everything for them when they are young-it's just easier to do it yourself once than to have to go behind them and fix what they did wrong. Husbands are like that because their mother did the same thing we are with our kids!
I need advice{From moms, women,girls,Teenagers}?
Ohhkay im 11 i got my period when i was 9... i knoo....... and my boobs when someone bumps into me it hurts reallyyyyyyyyyyyy bad.. i fell like i wanna SCREAM for the whole universe. i weigh 81 pounds im all most 5'0 but im 4'11 right now. i were a 34 A cup.. i kinda want them bigger but i have to wait i know........ but the QUEISTION im asking is why does my Nipples hurt so bad when someone bumps me.. and why did i get my period when i was 9??I need advice{From moms, women,girls,Teenagers}?
well i cannot give you a for sure answer,
but here is my theory,
it has been proven in many causes that girls get their period earlier when they drink homogenized milk (non-organic milk found in the grocery store), because most milk is FULL of hormones.... there for giving young girls their period earlier.
and as for your breasts hurting during your period, that is completely normal.
hope that helpsI need advice{From moms, women,girls,Teenagers}?
Wear a thicker padded and tighter bra and it will help with the sensitivity.
well, my first question is, I hope your answer is no at 11, but I had a girl get pregnant when we were your age...so... the question is, have you had sex? if so, that's a sign of being pregnant. if no, it could just be tenderness because of your weight. you should probably gain some weight. either way, at your next doctors appointment, you should tell him/her about it. Just kind of hint about it when they check your heartbeat, if they don't notice...then you'll have to just come out and say, ';Ive been having pain/tenderness when someone bumps into my chest'; That shouldn't be embarassing to say.
For your second question: every girl begins their period at different times in life. The starting age has been getting increasingly younger over the past 5 years and the ending age is doing the same. That is normal. Why are people bumping into your chest anyway?
OMG!!!! i know when someone bumps into my boobs i feel like kicking them!lol!it hurts so bad. all it is though is your 'milk ducts'(the things that will amke milk if you have a baby) are forming, thats what the lumps are. as your boobs get bigger and the ducts arent forming anymore then it will be less tender :]] and i geuss you just got your period at 9 coz you are an early bloomer, as long as you are older than 8 then it is considered 'normal'. ask your mom, did she get hers at an early age too??
hope this helps,
feel better
xx
You got your period so early because you probably have a condition called precocious puberty. It's just a condition where girls develop WAY too early. Your boobs probably hurt because you are growing so fast. Just remember, just because you look like a woman, doesn't mean you have to try and act like one. Stay a kid as long as you can. Keep the boys away as long as you can. Once you give yourself away you can never get it back. Make sure it's really really really really special.
I don't know why nipples hurt or why you got your period at nine. You started to delovep early. Some are Early. Others are late. Everyone else is just about right. There are no rules to development.cargo
well i cannot give you a for sure answer,
but here is my theory,
it has been proven in many causes that girls get their period earlier when they drink homogenized milk (non-organic milk found in the grocery store), because most milk is FULL of hormones.... there for giving young girls their period earlier.
and as for your breasts hurting during your period, that is completely normal.
hope that helpsI need advice{From moms, women,girls,Teenagers}?
Wear a thicker padded and tighter bra and it will help with the sensitivity.
well, my first question is, I hope your answer is no at 11, but I had a girl get pregnant when we were your age...so... the question is, have you had sex? if so, that's a sign of being pregnant. if no, it could just be tenderness because of your weight. you should probably gain some weight. either way, at your next doctors appointment, you should tell him/her about it. Just kind of hint about it when they check your heartbeat, if they don't notice...then you'll have to just come out and say, ';Ive been having pain/tenderness when someone bumps into my chest'; That shouldn't be embarassing to say.
For your second question: every girl begins their period at different times in life. The starting age has been getting increasingly younger over the past 5 years and the ending age is doing the same. That is normal. Why are people bumping into your chest anyway?
OMG!!!! i know when someone bumps into my boobs i feel like kicking them!lol!it hurts so bad. all it is though is your 'milk ducts'(the things that will amke milk if you have a baby) are forming, thats what the lumps are. as your boobs get bigger and the ducts arent forming anymore then it will be less tender :]] and i geuss you just got your period at 9 coz you are an early bloomer, as long as you are older than 8 then it is considered 'normal'. ask your mom, did she get hers at an early age too??
hope this helps,
feel better
xx
You got your period so early because you probably have a condition called precocious puberty. It's just a condition where girls develop WAY too early. Your boobs probably hurt because you are growing so fast. Just remember, just because you look like a woman, doesn't mean you have to try and act like one. Stay a kid as long as you can. Keep the boys away as long as you can. Once you give yourself away you can never get it back. Make sure it's really really really really special.
I don't know why nipples hurt or why you got your period at nine. You started to delovep early. Some are Early. Others are late. Everyone else is just about right. There are no rules to development.
My teenagers just recently lost their Dad to suicide.. I need advice?
My daughter is handling it ok but my son has an ';I don't care about anything'; attitude. He is getting in trouble in school, home and with the law. Please give me some advice on what I should do. He says he won't talk to a therapist.My teenagers just recently lost their Dad to suicide.. I need advice?
You should just try to take him to a therapist. If he won't take, he will eventually.
I would suggest reading about how certain family member's take it when another family member commits suicide.
Just the other day I went to a site to look about suicide. I would suggest looking at the site,
www.suicide.org
I really think you should try to get your son to talk to you or someone else.
I wish you and your family the best.
and
I hope everything work's out for you and your family.
Drew.My teenagers just recently lost their Dad to suicide.. I need advice?
I'm so sorry.
tell him that you r sending him to a therapist if he wants to waste your $$$ and sit there and say nothing the whole time it is his choice but that he has to go. then drag him there by the ears! he needs to talk to someone and if it is not you it needs to be a therapist
he needs to know that ther are others like him who have dealt with suicide, maybe a support group or others who can share how they made it through these tough times. It may also be helpful for him to know that his Heavenly Father loves and cares for his wellbeing as well. God bless.
I am so sorry for your loss but this is not really a good site to get that kind of advice, please seek advice from a therapist or support group yourself in your town. Maybe they can help you communicate with your son about it. :-( SO sorry.
Wow, terribly sorry to hear your ordeal.
If your son won't talk to a therapist, you should. The answers out here will not be sufficient enough for you.
Good luck.
You should just try to take him to a therapist. If he won't take, he will eventually.
I would suggest reading about how certain family member's take it when another family member commits suicide.
Just the other day I went to a site to look about suicide. I would suggest looking at the site,
www.suicide.org
I really think you should try to get your son to talk to you or someone else.
I wish you and your family the best.
and
I hope everything work's out for you and your family.
Drew.My teenagers just recently lost their Dad to suicide.. I need advice?
I'm so sorry.
tell him that you r sending him to a therapist if he wants to waste your $$$ and sit there and say nothing the whole time it is his choice but that he has to go. then drag him there by the ears! he needs to talk to someone and if it is not you it needs to be a therapist
he needs to know that ther are others like him who have dealt with suicide, maybe a support group or others who can share how they made it through these tough times. It may also be helpful for him to know that his Heavenly Father loves and cares for his wellbeing as well. God bless.
I am so sorry for your loss but this is not really a good site to get that kind of advice, please seek advice from a therapist or support group yourself in your town. Maybe they can help you communicate with your son about it. :-( SO sorry.
Wow, terribly sorry to hear your ordeal.
If your son won't talk to a therapist, you should. The answers out here will not be sufficient enough for you.
Good luck.
Advice for a satire about teenagers?
I have a very loose sort of idea for this assignment, I'd like to do a paper on how insufferably ignorant/incapable teenagers are nowadays, but I can't think of a good premise. I thought of comparing them to sloths, but don't really know how to begin. I wrote a small blurb as an example:
';Sloths move only when necessary and even then very slowly: their bodies expend half the amount of energy as the average mammal of similar age and weight. They can achieve marginally higher speeds if they are in immediate danger of producing an original thought, but they burn large amounts of energy doing so and often soon return to a somnolent state to recharge.';
Is this a good idea for a satirical essay? Or do you have any suggestions for something better?Advice for a satire about teenagers?
check out these sites..might help you
http://vinono.com/top_ten_sites_of_educa鈥?/a>Advice for a satire about teenagers?
teenagers are not like sloths at all. most teenagers are much more active then their parents. plus, any good college professor is not going to like a paper written with bias or stereotypes.
Teenagers are not like sloth's. What you're doing is basically stereotyping. Most teenagers actually go out, not sit about all day playing video games.
I think it is a good topic.
Sloths and Teenagers are (stereotypically) put into the same category.
Keep on going on that track and you will do fine! Sounds like you already have a good blurb going on. Just make the premise either agree, challenge, or qualify with what you are thinking.
Good Luck!
';Sloths move only when necessary and even then very slowly: their bodies expend half the amount of energy as the average mammal of similar age and weight. They can achieve marginally higher speeds if they are in immediate danger of producing an original thought, but they burn large amounts of energy doing so and often soon return to a somnolent state to recharge.';
Is this a good idea for a satirical essay? Or do you have any suggestions for something better?Advice for a satire about teenagers?
check out these sites..might help you
http://vinono.com/top_ten_sites_of_educa鈥?/a>Advice for a satire about teenagers?
teenagers are not like sloths at all. most teenagers are much more active then their parents. plus, any good college professor is not going to like a paper written with bias or stereotypes.
Teenagers are not like sloth's. What you're doing is basically stereotyping. Most teenagers actually go out, not sit about all day playing video games.
I think it is a good topic.
Sloths and Teenagers are (stereotypically) put into the same category.
Keep on going on that track and you will do fine! Sounds like you already have a good blurb going on. Just make the premise either agree, challenge, or qualify with what you are thinking.
Good Luck!
Hip impingement teenager advice please?
13-year-old daughter diagnosed with hip impingement at a major hospital. They say she needs 30% percent of her hip socket shaved off and then the ball reshaped. What can she expect for recovery time? It MIGHT be with an arthroscope but most likely it will be done ';open'; because of her age and the fact that she is still growing.Hip impingement teenager advice please?
';Recovery time from most FAI [femoroacetabular impingement] surgical procedures is about 4 months to full, unrestricted activity. Your postoperative activity level will depend on your surgeon鈥檚 recommendation, the type of surgery performed, and the condition of the hip joint at the time of surgery. Revision FAI surgery may involve a significantly longer recovery.';
Taken from this web page which seems to cover a lot about FAI.
http://www.hipfai.com/
For even more, ';Google'; the phrase ';femoroacetabular impingement'; or ';hip impingement';.
It never hurts to do research on your own but don't neglect to pose this question to her surgeon.Hip impingement teenager advice please?
I am sorry i dont have any advice...I hope you get good advice from someone who knows about hip impingement....my prayers are with you...hope your daughter gets well soon.
';Recovery time from most FAI [femoroacetabular impingement] surgical procedures is about 4 months to full, unrestricted activity. Your postoperative activity level will depend on your surgeon鈥檚 recommendation, the type of surgery performed, and the condition of the hip joint at the time of surgery. Revision FAI surgery may involve a significantly longer recovery.';
Taken from this web page which seems to cover a lot about FAI.
http://www.hipfai.com/
For even more, ';Google'; the phrase ';femoroacetabular impingement'; or ';hip impingement';.
It never hurts to do research on your own but don't neglect to pose this question to her surgeon.Hip impingement teenager advice please?
I am sorry i dont have any advice...I hope you get good advice from someone who knows about hip impingement....my prayers are with you...hope your daughter gets well soon.
Any tips/advice for a teenager looking for a job?
im turning 17. I need a job. i already hav some experience as a receptionist working at a family biz. does ne one have ne tips for me ? (from browsing for places that r hiring to writing a resume)
which is best : at a retailer or a restaurant?Any tips/advice for a teenager looking for a job?
If you are still in school, you will probably need a work permit. Talk to your school's guidance counselor's office. They should be able to offer advice on resumes and may even know local employers looking for someone like you.Any tips/advice for a teenager looking for a job?
Hi friend.. There are some really a good way of making money online being at home.There is no need to pay at front.Just basic knowledge of internet is enough.Further it is much much better than online paid surveys %26amp; data entry..Just try it out there is nothing to lose since u r not going to pay.. Visit this = %26gt; %26gt; http://www.freewebs.com/getfree-onlinejob
i'm turning 17 in a month
but i live in a really small town
economy's down right now
all the ';kids'; are getting laid off
so that the ';adults'; can have more jobs
which is best : at a retailer or a restaurant?Any tips/advice for a teenager looking for a job?
If you are still in school, you will probably need a work permit. Talk to your school's guidance counselor's office. They should be able to offer advice on resumes and may even know local employers looking for someone like you.Any tips/advice for a teenager looking for a job?
Hi friend.. There are some really a good way of making money online being at home.There is no need to pay at front.Just basic knowledge of internet is enough.Further it is much much better than online paid surveys %26amp; data entry..Just try it out there is nothing to lose since u r not going to pay.. Visit this = %26gt; %26gt; http://www.freewebs.com/getfree-onlinejob
i'm turning 17 in a month
but i live in a really small town
economy's down right now
all the ';kids'; are getting laid off
so that the ';adults'; can have more jobs
Can maybe a wise parent or someone a teenager maybe give me some advice?
This summer has been kind of hard. I lost my best friend in the stupidest fight last year and we havent talked since. My new best friend you know can never kind of own up to all the stuff and grteat advice and the just that aura of my old best friend. This new ones always complaining telling me how ive changed and giving me heck about it. heres the message i got on an instant message,
Her (blocked out screen name) (4:02:29 PM): oh and did i forgot did i tell u that i went shopping? and i didnt even have to go to AE AERO HCO or any of those places to get COOL stuff i went to otehr places in the mall and got waaaay cuter stuff. it kinda seems like uve changed... becuz like ur icon... dells, camping, potatoes,clothes, summer 08 and then in ur away message ur like OMG U HAVE TO READ THIS and then u put ------------------xox--------------- and then ur all like if u havent had one ur missing out. i mean ur talking waaay different than u used to. idk.
I just dont know what she wants. CAn any of you give me advice to get my this or anything? im going to 7th grade adn thdres alredy been so much friend fighting in this group im in with this girl adn im not sure if i can take it.Can maybe a wise parent or someone a teenager maybe give me some advice?
Just talk to her about it, and if she wants to ditch you, let her. This will happen all through life. And it gets way worse in High School so get used to it. Just make new friends that truly care about you and want to be around you. Good luck. =]Can maybe a wise parent or someone a teenager maybe give me some advice?
Middle school drama.
Everyone is going to act like trough high school.
Just dont let it bring you down.
Let her do what she thinks its ';cool';
she'll learn later.
She'll end up having no friends, then want you back.
Its all how it ALL goes in middle school.
good luck.
Her (blocked out screen name) (4:02:29 PM): oh and did i forgot did i tell u that i went shopping? and i didnt even have to go to AE AERO HCO or any of those places to get COOL stuff i went to otehr places in the mall and got waaaay cuter stuff. it kinda seems like uve changed... becuz like ur icon... dells, camping, potatoes,clothes, summer 08 and then in ur away message ur like OMG U HAVE TO READ THIS and then u put ------------------xox--------------- and then ur all like if u havent had one ur missing out. i mean ur talking waaay different than u used to. idk.
I just dont know what she wants. CAn any of you give me advice to get my this or anything? im going to 7th grade adn thdres alredy been so much friend fighting in this group im in with this girl adn im not sure if i can take it.Can maybe a wise parent or someone a teenager maybe give me some advice?
Just talk to her about it, and if she wants to ditch you, let her. This will happen all through life. And it gets way worse in High School so get used to it. Just make new friends that truly care about you and want to be around you. Good luck. =]Can maybe a wise parent or someone a teenager maybe give me some advice?
Middle school drama.
Everyone is going to act like trough high school.
Just dont let it bring you down.
Let her do what she thinks its ';cool';
she'll learn later.
She'll end up having no friends, then want you back.
Its all how it ALL goes in middle school.
good luck.
Calling all teenagers!! i need your help/advice/ or anythng else you can offer!..?
so here'ss the thing:
i like this guy(he doesn't know i like him though). the guy said he likes me. he has a girlfriend. but he keeps flirting with me (in front of her too) she doesn't care though because she think im not interested in him
so i told in my friend(she doesnt hang out with our group) that i was getting exhausted w/ all these mixed signals %26amp;%26amp; that if he really cared about me he would stop playing these games %26amp;%26amp; do something about getting with me.
but she knows i really REALLY like him.
so she decided to ';help'; me by talking to him. but i don't want her to. he doesnt knw her, but he knws we hang out. so yesterday she messgd him behind my back. but i found out about it %26amp;%26amp; when i asked her what she was doing she just told me to not worry %26amp;%26amp; that she wsnt doing anything wrong.
i told her i didnt need her help. to back off %26amp;%26amp; stop tlkng to him. ( i hang out w/ him %26amp;%26amp; his friends. so if she embarrases me, i have no1 to hang out with. they were his friends 1st, %26amp;%26amp; im new in the school)
she said she will, but knwng how she is %26amp;%26amp; w/ the tone she said it i KNW she wnt stop.
please some1 help me! i dnt knw what to do!
she'll embarrass me in front of him. his girlfriend will probably make it worse. %26amp;%26amp; i'll lose the only friends i haveCalling all teenagers!! i need your help/advice/ or anythng else you can offer!..?
it sounds like hes jus a player... maybe try to find another guy, if he truly liked u he would tell you and break up with his gf.. if he cheats on her DONT date him or he will just play u when someone better comes along too.Calling all teenagers!! i need your help/advice/ or anythng else you can offer!..?
honestly girl, I'm just looking out for you and..if he's flirting with you while he has a girlfriend, what makes you think he isn't going to do that to you with someone else?
any guy that is going to emotionally or physically cheat is scum.
(flirting is emotionally cheating in my opinion.)
Secrets are meant to be kept to yourself, cuz if you tell one person it's not a secret anymore. %26gt;%26lt; And personally I'd get really angry at her and tell her to stop but my tone would be so angry she would actually stop. If she won't stop messaging him when you specifically ASK her NOT too, then I think you should end your friendship with her and hang with your group. Btw, I think she's flirting with the guy and talking behind your back. Hope this helped.cargo
i like this guy(he doesn't know i like him though). the guy said he likes me. he has a girlfriend. but he keeps flirting with me (in front of her too) she doesn't care though because she think im not interested in him
so i told in my friend(she doesnt hang out with our group) that i was getting exhausted w/ all these mixed signals %26amp;%26amp; that if he really cared about me he would stop playing these games %26amp;%26amp; do something about getting with me.
but she knows i really REALLY like him.
so she decided to ';help'; me by talking to him. but i don't want her to. he doesnt knw her, but he knws we hang out. so yesterday she messgd him behind my back. but i found out about it %26amp;%26amp; when i asked her what she was doing she just told me to not worry %26amp;%26amp; that she wsnt doing anything wrong.
i told her i didnt need her help. to back off %26amp;%26amp; stop tlkng to him. ( i hang out w/ him %26amp;%26amp; his friends. so if she embarrases me, i have no1 to hang out with. they were his friends 1st, %26amp;%26amp; im new in the school)
she said she will, but knwng how she is %26amp;%26amp; w/ the tone she said it i KNW she wnt stop.
please some1 help me! i dnt knw what to do!
she'll embarrass me in front of him. his girlfriend will probably make it worse. %26amp;%26amp; i'll lose the only friends i haveCalling all teenagers!! i need your help/advice/ or anythng else you can offer!..?
it sounds like hes jus a player... maybe try to find another guy, if he truly liked u he would tell you and break up with his gf.. if he cheats on her DONT date him or he will just play u when someone better comes along too.Calling all teenagers!! i need your help/advice/ or anythng else you can offer!..?
honestly girl, I'm just looking out for you and..if he's flirting with you while he has a girlfriend, what makes you think he isn't going to do that to you with someone else?
any guy that is going to emotionally or physically cheat is scum.
(flirting is emotionally cheating in my opinion.)
Secrets are meant to be kept to yourself, cuz if you tell one person it's not a secret anymore. %26gt;%26lt; And personally I'd get really angry at her and tell her to stop but my tone would be so angry she would actually stop. If she won't stop messaging him when you specifically ASK her NOT too, then I think you should end your friendship with her and hang with your group. Btw, I think she's flirting with the guy and talking behind your back. Hope this helped.
Teenagers read ! i need some advice !?
Im 13 and i like a boy who is 14 . i like him alot but he only likes me a little.
Well i wanna know how to make this boy like me more . cause i like him ALOT . and last i heard he only liked me a little. but we see each other like once a week and about every weekend. i want him to like me more. and i wanna be in a relationship wit him. also i mean when were together we dont talk much ... cause im a little shy. wat could i say or do to make him like me more ?Teenagers read ! i need some advice !?
Kiss him on the cheek and giggle. At your age, that's cute.Teenagers read ! i need some advice !?
First off; be careful. Guys are totally rude sometimes and will use the fact that you're younger than them against you. Even if its only by a year!
The first step, is to get to know him. Talk to his friends, see what he likes, see if you guys have anything in common, etc. Also, let him know that you're interested, but don't throw yourself on him and when you're hanging out, don't be stand-offish, try to make him laugh. Things like that.
Good luck, hon!
You can't MAKE him like you more. Unless you want to change yourself. And if you want to change yourself in order to get a guy, I think you have some growing up to do. But in general just be more sociable, there are a lot of shy people out there in relationships haha. Just keep in mind that he may like someone more than you.
when ur around him, dress really cute, but not like slutty or trashy.
and instead of talking to him, flirt with him a little, but not too much.
just let him know that ur interested by doing that stuff..
and be like we should hang out more, something like that.
do something that will make him knotice u
Well i wanna know how to make this boy like me more . cause i like him ALOT . and last i heard he only liked me a little. but we see each other like once a week and about every weekend. i want him to like me more. and i wanna be in a relationship wit him. also i mean when were together we dont talk much ... cause im a little shy. wat could i say or do to make him like me more ?Teenagers read ! i need some advice !?
Kiss him on the cheek and giggle. At your age, that's cute.Teenagers read ! i need some advice !?
First off; be careful. Guys are totally rude sometimes and will use the fact that you're younger than them against you. Even if its only by a year!
The first step, is to get to know him. Talk to his friends, see what he likes, see if you guys have anything in common, etc. Also, let him know that you're interested, but don't throw yourself on him and when you're hanging out, don't be stand-offish, try to make him laugh. Things like that.
Good luck, hon!
You can't MAKE him like you more. Unless you want to change yourself. And if you want to change yourself in order to get a guy, I think you have some growing up to do. But in general just be more sociable, there are a lot of shy people out there in relationships haha. Just keep in mind that he may like someone more than you.
when ur around him, dress really cute, but not like slutty or trashy.
and instead of talking to him, flirt with him a little, but not too much.
just let him know that ur interested by doing that stuff..
and be like we should hang out more, something like that.
do something that will make him knotice u
Does anyone have advice for getting a job as a teenager?
I have applied at probably 15 different places, but only received one call back and had one interview. I know most places are looking for someone with experience, but are there any places that hire teens more easily? I understand that the economy is bad right now and there is a lot of unemployment, but any advice would be really helpful because my job search has been frustrating.Does anyone have advice for getting a job as a teenager?
Start your own business, more money, less bossDoes anyone have advice for getting a job as a teenager?
Ask your family and neighbours if they've heard of any suitable openings where they work. Your first job is always hard to get, but knowing someone really helps get you an interview (which is usually the hard part).
Other than that, keep applying. Unfortunately 1 interview in 15 applications with zero experience is fairly typical.
try to get an apprenticeship. The pay is lousy but by the time you are 18 to 21, you will have a job for life.
G to an employment agency or service. They have the best resources for trades eg: plumbing, electrical, computer-related.
In the meantime, try at the local supermarket. I was a trainee manager at the age of 17 at Coles supermarket. I think you have to submit a resume online for supermarket jobs.
Start your own business, more money, less bossDoes anyone have advice for getting a job as a teenager?
Ask your family and neighbours if they've heard of any suitable openings where they work. Your first job is always hard to get, but knowing someone really helps get you an interview (which is usually the hard part).
Other than that, keep applying. Unfortunately 1 interview in 15 applications with zero experience is fairly typical.
try to get an apprenticeship. The pay is lousy but by the time you are 18 to 21, you will have a job for life.
G to an employment agency or service. They have the best resources for trades eg: plumbing, electrical, computer-related.
In the meantime, try at the local supermarket. I was a trainee manager at the age of 17 at Coles supermarket. I think you have to submit a resume online for supermarket jobs.
Egypt Section, What is the best piece of advice you could give a teenager?
i'm 22 years old and my 13 years old cousin does things i only heard about when i was his age. You have to make him learn to make the right decisions and keep him busy in activities and make sure you know where his money is spent.Egypt Section, What is the best piece of advice you could give a teenager?
My Advice to teenagers : Think twice always. Think deeply. It's time you are forming your character, so take care when you try to discover any new world. Plan for future and work for your plan.
Live simply and happilyEgypt Section, What is the best piece of advice you could give a teenager?
*2 Love is Nothing..2 be Loved is Something..2 Love and be Loved is Everything.. *Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 see but 2 understand, not 2 hear but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!
giving advices is SO easy
.
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ok...aziza i think at the moment best for you is to listen to your parants,judge yourself and decide yourself and exicute your decissions.
STAY AWAY from drugs..cig,etc.. an alchol!!!!!
I have 5 children and now i am left with my two teenagers at home...
Over the years the changing world has meant different advice was appropriate for my children...
But the advice that has remained the most prominent for all of them is, Choices...
I have always tried to teach them that they have to make their own choices and that all choices have consequences, good or bad.
Also that they have to be ready to accept the consequences of there own choices...
But you will be there for them to support them through any choices that they decide to make...
My children have grow up to be very grounded and have not yet (touch wood) brought back any cause for concern to my home...
I have two grown up, married with there own homes and children. one who is just about to graduate from university and my two teenagers... they don't hang out on street corners and get drunk or cause any kind of anti-social behavior...
And you know what, i am a single mum and have been for many years...I am very proud of my children and the choices they have made...
Good luck and just try to be there for your brother if he makes the wrong choices...knowing they are supported can have a very positive effect...
i really dunno cz i'm still a teenager
Don't listen to ur head.
choose your friends wisely ...
teenagers get their input from their friends
do not do anything you would be ashamed of.
if your photo is to appear in a newspaper, it must be to honor you and your fmily.
dont try illegal drugs , they are bugs that stick and make a person an addict.
your time is valuable , dont waste it on irrelevant activities .
choose your friends as you would choose in laws .
have an aim in life and work on it .
my advice to a mother and a father is to befriend their offspring at an early age to win their trust and be able to there for them in all stages of their lives .
If you think it's a good idea,....... don't do it!!!!!
My Advice to teenagers : Think twice always. Think deeply. It's time you are forming your character, so take care when you try to discover any new world. Plan for future and work for your plan.
Live simply and happilyEgypt Section, What is the best piece of advice you could give a teenager?
*2 Love is Nothing..2 be Loved is Something..2 Love and be Loved is Everything.. *Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 see but 2 understand, not 2 hear but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!
giving advices is SO easy
.
!
.
ok...aziza i think at the moment best for you is to listen to your parants,judge yourself and decide yourself and exicute your decissions.
STAY AWAY from drugs..cig,etc.. an alchol!!!!!
I have 5 children and now i am left with my two teenagers at home...
Over the years the changing world has meant different advice was appropriate for my children...
But the advice that has remained the most prominent for all of them is, Choices...
I have always tried to teach them that they have to make their own choices and that all choices have consequences, good or bad.
Also that they have to be ready to accept the consequences of there own choices...
But you will be there for them to support them through any choices that they decide to make...
My children have grow up to be very grounded and have not yet (touch wood) brought back any cause for concern to my home...
I have two grown up, married with there own homes and children. one who is just about to graduate from university and my two teenagers... they don't hang out on street corners and get drunk or cause any kind of anti-social behavior...
And you know what, i am a single mum and have been for many years...I am very proud of my children and the choices they have made...
Good luck and just try to be there for your brother if he makes the wrong choices...knowing they are supported can have a very positive effect...
i really dunno cz i'm still a teenager
Don't listen to ur head.
choose your friends wisely ...
teenagers get their input from their friends
do not do anything you would be ashamed of.
if your photo is to appear in a newspaper, it must be to honor you and your fmily.
dont try illegal drugs , they are bugs that stick and make a person an addict.
your time is valuable , dont waste it on irrelevant activities .
choose your friends as you would choose in laws .
have an aim in life and work on it .
my advice to a mother and a father is to befriend their offspring at an early age to win their trust and be able to there for them in all stages of their lives .
If you think it's a good idea,....... don't do it!!!!!
Does anyone have any advice for decorating a teenagers room ';ocean'; theme?
I was going to do that!
Okay, here where my plans:
Paint the walls an ocean blue.
Make a shelf above your bed and put some shells on it...maybe even a TINY bit of sand and an old looking bottle (the whole message in a bottle thing) .
Hang some nets on your wall and go look at antiqe shops...they might have old hair brushes or mirrors that look like they've been under water for a LONG TIME.
Tangle that stuff in the nets.
I was also going to get fish tanks that can hang on your wall and put some REAL FISH in them (Fake fish look dumb)
Email me if you want more ideas ok?!
Good Luck!Does anyone have any advice for decorating a teenagers room ';ocean'; theme?
Here is a picture of a room like ocean/beachy: http://boysthemebedrooms.com/surfing/ret鈥?/a>
and here is some bedding: http://www.bungalowbeachdesigns.com/sutr鈥?/a>
mostley when i thnk of the beach i thnk light and airy so whites and bluesDoes anyone have any advice for decorating a teenagers room ';ocean'; theme?
Ships wheel, fish net from ceiling, lighthouse painted on wall
well, first, maybe get some ocean-themed furniture. you know, like a surf board or shark jaw, and hang it in the room. another great use for surfboard is for a headboard. the carpet should be tan or a dark green, and the walls should be painted blue-you can choose the shade. get a dark blue bedspread, with white sheets undereath. if you want an endtable, go with blue and glasstop.
get a vintage longboard and put it on the wall
Okay, here where my plans:
Paint the walls an ocean blue.
Make a shelf above your bed and put some shells on it...maybe even a TINY bit of sand and an old looking bottle (the whole message in a bottle thing) .
Hang some nets on your wall and go look at antiqe shops...they might have old hair brushes or mirrors that look like they've been under water for a LONG TIME.
Tangle that stuff in the nets.
I was also going to get fish tanks that can hang on your wall and put some REAL FISH in them (Fake fish look dumb)
Email me if you want more ideas ok?!
Good Luck!Does anyone have any advice for decorating a teenagers room ';ocean'; theme?
Here is a picture of a room like ocean/beachy: http://boysthemebedrooms.com/surfing/ret鈥?/a>
and here is some bedding: http://www.bungalowbeachdesigns.com/sutr鈥?/a>
mostley when i thnk of the beach i thnk light and airy so whites and bluesDoes anyone have any advice for decorating a teenagers room ';ocean'; theme?
Ships wheel, fish net from ceiling, lighthouse painted on wall
well, first, maybe get some ocean-themed furniture. you know, like a surf board or shark jaw, and hang it in the room. another great use for surfboard is for a headboard. the carpet should be tan or a dark green, and the walls should be painted blue-you can choose the shade. get a dark blue bedspread, with white sheets undereath. if you want an endtable, go with blue and glasstop.
get a vintage longboard and put it on the wall
What advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
dont do drugs
always wear a condom
respect your elders
curb the swearing
dont smoke
dont drink - too much
wear sunscreenWhat advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
to teens- remember that it only lasts so long, don't argue with your parents too much, and have alot of experiences that you will remember past your teen years.What advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
do not drink - it is not necessary in order to have fun (same for drugs)
do not rush into having sex - you'll enjoy it more when you are bit more mature
Live and enjoy life
dont bother getting drunk
lmao
it kills you in sum way or another
xxxxxxxx
wear sunscreen.
that was a random song, i'm going to have to go and look it up
Foremost, don't fail to seek God's help and guidance in every endeavor you are in. Choose your company, outside influence put a big part in building adolescence, good company- good influence. Concentrate with your studies, better education means brighter future, your future depends on how you prepared in the past. Respect for elders, sooner you become parent too and you'll see what I mean.
Shut up and get on with it, and get your hair cut while you're at it. And don't ask for more money because you can't have any. Turn that music down or you'll be deaf before your 30. Don't forget to wash behind you ears. Use a condom. If you'r pi..ed don't even think about coming home, etc etc etc
boys think about wot your doing it is'nt hard and it is'nt clever
girls same as above %26amp; watch them boys !!
Get the best education you can-it's never wasted.
Don't think you're 10 feet tall and bullet proof. Bad things can and will happen to you and thinking you're invincible is only going to make things much worse.
Please use birth control and condoms should you become sexually active.
Please get some sort of education, even if you can only afford to go to a trade or technical school, please become skilled in something.
Please do not do drugs, and yes, marijuana IS a drug. It doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you look cool, and it IS addicting. My baby brother has virtually ruined his life because he cannot stop doing marijuana. Thankfully almost dying from a gun shot from a mad dealer got him off the ';harder'; stuff but marijuana is taking it's toll all on its own. Just don't do it. It's not worth it.
Peace,
Jenn
Hang on... I'll look out some rope and see if I can rope one in... but even if I tie them down long enough to ask... d'ya really think they'll listen?
Doubt it...
Mum of six mid life adults... and seven early twenties/teenage/rising teens grandchildren and tiny tot great-grandchildren (not a lot of difference between teens and terrible twos)
Serious experience:-(
turn off television.
don't be swayed by the media.
be the wonderful person you were meant to be.
stay healthy.
be confident...be independent.
don't follow the crowd.
be an individual
make nuturing friends.
enjoy being a teenager...there's enough time to be an adult.
Sex ed wise...
Do it like in Northern European countires.
Teach everything and I mean everything from the age of four though teenage getting more indepth with the biologica stuff more fro kids inc how to deliver a baby, and what gays are etc.
Through in teenage more the realtioship aspects, how guys and girls feel different , how blowjbs and vibrators and masterbation works, what terms like russian and french mean. Pyschological break down of pole dancing and boy bands. pretty much every kind of question asked here, reinforced over and over so things like condom AND hornone contraceptive use becomes instinctive and normalised.
Self defence and parkour lessons as standard.
Lessons in respect in that you get none from being a mugger, in a gang or hurting those who you think dis you or preditory behavour.
That respect comes from achienvemnt, what you bring to the community and how you put yourself at risk to look after others. Ie be a hero and eventually peickle stick up for you. Prey on people and whilst you instill fear people would not pee on you if you were on fire but add petrol instead whilst if they respect you they get burnt even die to help you.
Treat others how you would expect and want to be treated. thats what mornality is.
Girls guys like medium... not starving so eat and you get boobs, what guy dont like boobs, but not so much you get fat either.
GIRLS, STUFF THE RULES AS THE GUYS OUT IF YOU LIKE THEM, ODDS ARE THEY REALLY LIKE YOU BUT CANT WORK OUT WHAT TO SAY AS YOU GIRLS ARE SO SUFFY AND OVER SENSITIVE THEY THINK WITH GOOD REASON ONE SLIP UP AND YOU WILL FREAK AND TREAT THEM LIKE SOME SORT OF PERVE.
Perversion is not sleeping around, checking out naked girls dating somone younger (unless they are clearly below mid 15 if you are over then 21 or under 14 if you are younger then 18, or 13 to 13 or younger unless you are 14.), seeing strippers, being gay, being into tie up or dress up games etc.
Perversion is preditory dominance, gettig off on control (not play control like fluffy hand cuff games) and dominance and intimidation where you hurt others and its not consentual and you are hurting or upsetting the other person.
This includes mugging and bulling for kicks, peadophila (when its clear not borderline), rape, forced arrnaged marriage, borthers/fathers intimidating sisters, tenning people they are dirty or wicked for wanting to date or natural curiousity etc.
That you need social skills more then acedmeic skills as most jobs require bs office politics not what you know.
Alchol is a drug. dont over do it you act like a looser.
Only fight if you have to to defend self, others or a just cause.
Look after those smaller and less experienced then you are or weaker.
Thats what leadership and respect is about
Its the spirit of the law not the letter thats important however be prepared to deal with those who see it the other way round on power trips.
Girls see definition on perversion above.
If a guy is checking out your boobs or body it does not mean he thinks you dumb or thats all he is intoerested in.
He just finds you attractive and odds are wants to get to know you and your brain.
Guna aint cool. they are an ugly ansty tool which hurts people and their families only to be used to save yours or others.
Lads. Gays often have lots of hot sexy female mates. who may if you are the gay guys mate want to try and convert you to straight. Or may get all horney around gay mate then want to unlease horniness on you.
Stop having unprotected sex, and DONT DO DRUGS.
Stop listening to the oldies that keep telling them they are wasters and failures and continue getting their degree and look forward to a long and fulfilling life. Unfortunately too many people get sucked into the media machine and dont stop to think that perhaps not all teenagers are wasters and yobs. I think people should put everything into perspective, teenagers are going through puberty-something that makes us behave in weird and wonderful ways and not all of them are out knifing old women and shoplifting to feed their kids. Leave the youth alone!
to be there selves
and never put them selves down
Just be yourself and have fun...there are too man damn people in this world shaped by the same cookie cutter.
try to be happy in this crazy world. You can pick your friends but you can't pick your families.
Go be happy and safe. xx
DONT TRY TO FIT IN .. JUST STAND OUT!
Even though you think you know everything...you have SO much to learn. Older people know stuff because they've lived it., you simply have not had the life experience to always be able to make the best decisions. What you're going through is nothing new....millions of people have gone through it before you and they want you to learn from their mistakes so you don't have to suffer through your own. LISTEN to your parents and don't be so hardheaded!
i wont we teenagers never listen
Don't sleep around.
Keep your eyes wide open. Listen to your heart.
Dont become a emo or a chav
don't drink don't smoke go to school work hard
To spend more time actually talking to their friends face-to-face, verses texting or IMing from behind a computer.
don't let people talk you into doing something that you know you shouldn't do
Except for your education and the best friend you might make, High school is meaningless. Don't worry about fitting in, being cool or having a boyfriend. College is where your life begins. So, pay attention in class, get a good education and move onto bigger and better things!
don't do heroin...be safe...get good(ish) grades...listen to your parents..they are actually right :( never disrespect your elders, unless they they disrespect you!...don't try and grow up too quickly, because by the time you've grown up..you wish you were a teen again! Live Life. Have fun. and never let things get you down.theres always something good round the corner!
Any way you can teach them empathy is a good start. Might be one of the things most lacking in society these days.
Empathy is the basis for any kind of decency.
If people can understand where others are coming from, the result is far less anger, hatred, violence and other negative behaviors that drives everyone nuts.
With a little empathy you see the line between right and wrong. You're motivated to do right, and consider the feelings of others.
Some people say GOD! I don't think you need to try and force religion on teens, if you can just show them the benefits of trying to walk in someone elses shoes, to understand others and try to see from their point of view. To imagine how your actions impact someone else and think about how you'd feel if roles were reversed.
Road rage, biggotry, shooting sprees... Relationships... Family, friends and romantic interests. A little empathy on everyone's part goes a long, long way with the closest and most important people in your life.
If you can understand where others are coming from, imagine how others feel... You're a far more enlightened individual than most these days. It can enable them to exceed expectation in school, to succeed in work, to build a happy family and eventually to die a dignified death, with honor, surrounded by good friends with great memories.
...and don't squeeze the charmin.
i wouldnt. teenagers are always right...or so they think
always wear a condom
respect your elders
curb the swearing
dont smoke
dont drink - too much
wear sunscreenWhat advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
to teens- remember that it only lasts so long, don't argue with your parents too much, and have alot of experiences that you will remember past your teen years.What advice would you give to the teenagers nowadays???
do not drink - it is not necessary in order to have fun (same for drugs)
do not rush into having sex - you'll enjoy it more when you are bit more mature
Live and enjoy life
dont bother getting drunk
lmao
it kills you in sum way or another
xxxxxxxx
wear sunscreen.
that was a random song, i'm going to have to go and look it up
Foremost, don't fail to seek God's help and guidance in every endeavor you are in. Choose your company, outside influence put a big part in building adolescence, good company- good influence. Concentrate with your studies, better education means brighter future, your future depends on how you prepared in the past. Respect for elders, sooner you become parent too and you'll see what I mean.
Shut up and get on with it, and get your hair cut while you're at it. And don't ask for more money because you can't have any. Turn that music down or you'll be deaf before your 30. Don't forget to wash behind you ears. Use a condom. If you'r pi..ed don't even think about coming home, etc etc etc
boys think about wot your doing it is'nt hard and it is'nt clever
girls same as above %26amp; watch them boys !!
Get the best education you can-it's never wasted.
Don't think you're 10 feet tall and bullet proof. Bad things can and will happen to you and thinking you're invincible is only going to make things much worse.
Please use birth control and condoms should you become sexually active.
Please get some sort of education, even if you can only afford to go to a trade or technical school, please become skilled in something.
Please do not do drugs, and yes, marijuana IS a drug. It doesn't make you cool, it doesn't make you look cool, and it IS addicting. My baby brother has virtually ruined his life because he cannot stop doing marijuana. Thankfully almost dying from a gun shot from a mad dealer got him off the ';harder'; stuff but marijuana is taking it's toll all on its own. Just don't do it. It's not worth it.
Peace,
Jenn
Hang on... I'll look out some rope and see if I can rope one in... but even if I tie them down long enough to ask... d'ya really think they'll listen?
Doubt it...
Mum of six mid life adults... and seven early twenties/teenage/rising teens grandchildren and tiny tot great-grandchildren (not a lot of difference between teens and terrible twos)
Serious experience:-(
turn off television.
don't be swayed by the media.
be the wonderful person you were meant to be.
stay healthy.
be confident...be independent.
don't follow the crowd.
be an individual
make nuturing friends.
enjoy being a teenager...there's enough time to be an adult.
Sex ed wise...
Do it like in Northern European countires.
Teach everything and I mean everything from the age of four though teenage getting more indepth with the biologica stuff more fro kids inc how to deliver a baby, and what gays are etc.
Through in teenage more the realtioship aspects, how guys and girls feel different , how blowjbs and vibrators and masterbation works, what terms like russian and french mean. Pyschological break down of pole dancing and boy bands. pretty much every kind of question asked here, reinforced over and over so things like condom AND hornone contraceptive use becomes instinctive and normalised.
Self defence and parkour lessons as standard.
Lessons in respect in that you get none from being a mugger, in a gang or hurting those who you think dis you or preditory behavour.
That respect comes from achienvemnt, what you bring to the community and how you put yourself at risk to look after others. Ie be a hero and eventually peickle stick up for you. Prey on people and whilst you instill fear people would not pee on you if you were on fire but add petrol instead whilst if they respect you they get burnt even die to help you.
Treat others how you would expect and want to be treated. thats what mornality is.
Girls guys like medium... not starving so eat and you get boobs, what guy dont like boobs, but not so much you get fat either.
GIRLS, STUFF THE RULES AS THE GUYS OUT IF YOU LIKE THEM, ODDS ARE THEY REALLY LIKE YOU BUT CANT WORK OUT WHAT TO SAY AS YOU GIRLS ARE SO SUFFY AND OVER SENSITIVE THEY THINK WITH GOOD REASON ONE SLIP UP AND YOU WILL FREAK AND TREAT THEM LIKE SOME SORT OF PERVE.
Perversion is not sleeping around, checking out naked girls dating somone younger (unless they are clearly below mid 15 if you are over then 21 or under 14 if you are younger then 18, or 13 to 13 or younger unless you are 14.), seeing strippers, being gay, being into tie up or dress up games etc.
Perversion is preditory dominance, gettig off on control (not play control like fluffy hand cuff games) and dominance and intimidation where you hurt others and its not consentual and you are hurting or upsetting the other person.
This includes mugging and bulling for kicks, peadophila (when its clear not borderline), rape, forced arrnaged marriage, borthers/fathers intimidating sisters, tenning people they are dirty or wicked for wanting to date or natural curiousity etc.
That you need social skills more then acedmeic skills as most jobs require bs office politics not what you know.
Alchol is a drug. dont over do it you act like a looser.
Only fight if you have to to defend self, others or a just cause.
Look after those smaller and less experienced then you are or weaker.
Thats what leadership and respect is about
Its the spirit of the law not the letter thats important however be prepared to deal with those who see it the other way round on power trips.
Girls see definition on perversion above.
If a guy is checking out your boobs or body it does not mean he thinks you dumb or thats all he is intoerested in.
He just finds you attractive and odds are wants to get to know you and your brain.
Guna aint cool. they are an ugly ansty tool which hurts people and their families only to be used to save yours or others.
Lads. Gays often have lots of hot sexy female mates. who may if you are the gay guys mate want to try and convert you to straight. Or may get all horney around gay mate then want to unlease horniness on you.
Stop having unprotected sex, and DONT DO DRUGS.
Stop listening to the oldies that keep telling them they are wasters and failures and continue getting their degree and look forward to a long and fulfilling life. Unfortunately too many people get sucked into the media machine and dont stop to think that perhaps not all teenagers are wasters and yobs. I think people should put everything into perspective, teenagers are going through puberty-something that makes us behave in weird and wonderful ways and not all of them are out knifing old women and shoplifting to feed their kids. Leave the youth alone!
to be there selves
and never put them selves down
Just be yourself and have fun...there are too man damn people in this world shaped by the same cookie cutter.
try to be happy in this crazy world. You can pick your friends but you can't pick your families.
Go be happy and safe. xx
DONT TRY TO FIT IN .. JUST STAND OUT!
Even though you think you know everything...you have SO much to learn. Older people know stuff because they've lived it., you simply have not had the life experience to always be able to make the best decisions. What you're going through is nothing new....millions of people have gone through it before you and they want you to learn from their mistakes so you don't have to suffer through your own. LISTEN to your parents and don't be so hardheaded!
i wont we teenagers never listen
Don't sleep around.
Keep your eyes wide open. Listen to your heart.
Dont become a emo or a chav
don't drink don't smoke go to school work hard
To spend more time actually talking to their friends face-to-face, verses texting or IMing from behind a computer.
don't let people talk you into doing something that you know you shouldn't do
Except for your education and the best friend you might make, High school is meaningless. Don't worry about fitting in, being cool or having a boyfriend. College is where your life begins. So, pay attention in class, get a good education and move onto bigger and better things!
don't do heroin...be safe...get good(ish) grades...listen to your parents..they are actually right :( never disrespect your elders, unless they they disrespect you!...don't try and grow up too quickly, because by the time you've grown up..you wish you were a teen again! Live Life. Have fun. and never let things get you down.theres always something good round the corner!
Any way you can teach them empathy is a good start. Might be one of the things most lacking in society these days.
Empathy is the basis for any kind of decency.
If people can understand where others are coming from, the result is far less anger, hatred, violence and other negative behaviors that drives everyone nuts.
With a little empathy you see the line between right and wrong. You're motivated to do right, and consider the feelings of others.
Some people say GOD! I don't think you need to try and force religion on teens, if you can just show them the benefits of trying to walk in someone elses shoes, to understand others and try to see from their point of view. To imagine how your actions impact someone else and think about how you'd feel if roles were reversed.
Road rage, biggotry, shooting sprees... Relationships... Family, friends and romantic interests. A little empathy on everyone's part goes a long, long way with the closest and most important people in your life.
If you can understand where others are coming from, imagine how others feel... You're a far more enlightened individual than most these days. It can enable them to exceed expectation in school, to succeed in work, to build a happy family and eventually to die a dignified death, with honor, surrounded by good friends with great memories.
...and don't squeeze the charmin.
i wouldnt. teenagers are always right...or so they think
Poo problem in a teenager, what advice can you give?
is holding ur poop against ur health and how can i poo more when i have to poo how can i poo more, any methods ?Poo problem in a teenager, what advice can you give?
Get off junk food, fast food garbage %26amp; sugary sweet soda's. Drink more water, fruit juices %26amp; fat free milk to help keep the traffic flowing. Eat more boiled or steamed vegetables. Snack on RAW fruit %26amp; veggies.Poo problem in a teenager, what advice can you give?
what doctors usually do is stick a thermometer in the patients butt. NO i not messing around because that's what they did to my nephew and hes 10! Also try laxatives? or pedialyte. Some doctors even tell you to drink gatorade. Oh maybe some pep to bismol!
Ya it's not to healthy holding your waste. And simply drink a lot of water to help it all go down.
NOT BE HOLD IN UR POO!cargo
Get off junk food, fast food garbage %26amp; sugary sweet soda's. Drink more water, fruit juices %26amp; fat free milk to help keep the traffic flowing. Eat more boiled or steamed vegetables. Snack on RAW fruit %26amp; veggies.Poo problem in a teenager, what advice can you give?
what doctors usually do is stick a thermometer in the patients butt. NO i not messing around because that's what they did to my nephew and hes 10! Also try laxatives? or pedialyte. Some doctors even tell you to drink gatorade. Oh maybe some pep to bismol!
Ya it's not to healthy holding your waste. And simply drink a lot of water to help it all go down.
NOT BE HOLD IN UR POO!
Hi I need advice from parents of teenagers please. My husband & I have an 18 yr old son. Last October we moved?
to a nice country home closer to his college. I got a job with the Federal Govt and things are a little easier for us. Two months after we moved in he moved in with his girlfriend. I thought he would be happier in a nicer home and our finances are a little better. He said the reason he moved out is he wants to move forward with his life and do things on his own. He works, goes to college full time, gets good grades, works hard at his job and studies martial arts. He is not lazy nor disrespectful to me. We were always close. However, I think he is trying to grow up too fast. He is too young to be serious and living with someone. They share bills, buy food, they live together. He bought her a promise ring last year. It's not that I don't like her I think he should be enjoying his youth and not be committed to someone so young. I was hoping he would at least stay home till he graduates college. He lives 15 minutes from me but I rarely see him. I miss him so much I'm heartbroken.He works at a retail store and pretty much the only time I can see him is if I go to the store where he works. I am very depressed over this . I know he has to grow up but I think he is rushing everything. I know I can't do anything about it cause he is over 18 but it sickens me. By the way they both work at the same store that's where he met her. I want him to come home so I can be a mother to him at least a few more years. Sometimes I cry about it.Any advice? Thank you.Hi I need advice from parents of teenagers please. My husband %26amp; I have an 18 yr old son. Last October we moved?
Wow. With all due respect, and understanding how mothers are (had one, and was married to one), you are more concerned with fulfilling your own life, satisfying your own needs and wishes, than his. Think about what you are saying. Seem to be more about you than him. Let him fly, grow, start and enjoy his life, like your parents did for you. And be there if and when he needs you.
Just be happy and satisfied you raised a great kid, and leave it at that. Your job is done, and you succeeded. Now move on, go back to school, or take classes, get a hobby, travel, enjoy life, and in a few years, you will have grandchildren to nurture. That's always the best part of life anyway. Parents have to say no. Grandparents get to say yes.Hi I need advice from parents of teenagers please. My husband %26amp; I have an 18 yr old son. Last October we moved?
He is 18 years old and by law an adult. As such he has the right to live his life the way he is living it, you don't get to dictate how he lives any longer. I suggest you start accepting the fact that he is no longer a child and he is going to grow up whether you want him to or not. Frankly it sounds to me as if you're jealous, get over yourself your son no longer needs Mommy, he needs his own life
wow...sounds to me like this kid is doing exactly what every parent trys
to teach and that's be responsibly independent. You can't live his life the
only thing you can do is be supportive. However, if you pay for his education you can tell him that support will be removed if he marries or
she become pregnant before he completes his education. Make sure he
understands you are serious as they have a choice in both these matters
through their actions. Time has come - he's ';showing you'; he CAN fly.
to fight it would create resentment...be thankful for what he is.
Wow. With all due respect, and understanding how mothers are (had one, and was married to one), you are more concerned with fulfilling your own life, satisfying your own needs and wishes, than his. Think about what you are saying. Seem to be more about you than him. Let him fly, grow, start and enjoy his life, like your parents did for you. And be there if and when he needs you.
Just be happy and satisfied you raised a great kid, and leave it at that. Your job is done, and you succeeded. Now move on, go back to school, or take classes, get a hobby, travel, enjoy life, and in a few years, you will have grandchildren to nurture. That's always the best part of life anyway. Parents have to say no. Grandparents get to say yes.Hi I need advice from parents of teenagers please. My husband %26amp; I have an 18 yr old son. Last October we moved?
He is 18 years old and by law an adult. As such he has the right to live his life the way he is living it, you don't get to dictate how he lives any longer. I suggest you start accepting the fact that he is no longer a child and he is going to grow up whether you want him to or not. Frankly it sounds to me as if you're jealous, get over yourself your son no longer needs Mommy, he needs his own life
wow...sounds to me like this kid is doing exactly what every parent trys
to teach and that's be responsibly independent. You can't live his life the
only thing you can do is be supportive. However, if you pay for his education you can tell him that support will be removed if he marries or
she become pregnant before he completes his education. Make sure he
understands you are serious as they have a choice in both these matters
through their actions. Time has come - he's ';showing you'; he CAN fly.
to fight it would create resentment...be thankful for what he is.
Teenagers - If you could give your parents advice...?
...on how better to understand you, what would you say?Teenagers - If you could give your parents advice...?
i would tell them to just let me be me and i will learn from what i do myself..i don't need them telling me what i'm doing wrong because most likely i know. we always know, we just don't do it. the more my parents pressure ma bout something the more i want to piss them off about it. just let me be, i'll be fine. promise.Teenagers - If you could give your parents advice...?
id tell my mom 2 stop tryin 2 b cool and all up in my buisiness!
since i live with my dad i would just tell him to try to stay out of the girl stuff cause he doesnt need to know every detail of my life
I would say, give me more independence
I'll say chill out man, we know what we are doing!
When I don't want to talk don't talk to me. Otherwise we will get into a fight. And it will be all my fault and then I'll feel bad.
Ive got leprosy get away
I hear you the first time you say it. Just because I don't remember right away doesn't mean the information does not compute. Everyone telling me things more than twice makes me feel stupid. So stop.
YOU NEED TO SEE, OPEN YOUR EYES AND YOU'LL SEE HOW SICK I AM!
excuse the caps there
i would say that even though that they themselves were once teens doesnt mean that the stiuations are the same. times have changed, and im not them.
mama, if you dont trust me, of course im gonna rebel, you gotta let me go sometimes, and trust that i learned what you taught
you have to let go and trust us to do the right thing and be safe. quit being so overprotective and let go a little!!!
I do actually care about school, so get off my back about it. jk
stop being overprotected im old enough to know whats right and whats wrong.
well, most teenagers don't come to their parents, they expect the parents to come to them, even if they do push away. Me, not so much because I'm lucky and I don't really have any drama or anything with my life. Um...I guess by just asking lots of questions about them and get to know them as a friend, but definitely do not lose touch with the parent side either. Balance is key.
i would tell them to just let me be me and i will learn from what i do myself..i don't need them telling me what i'm doing wrong because most likely i know. we always know, we just don't do it. the more my parents pressure ma bout something the more i want to piss them off about it. just let me be, i'll be fine. promise.Teenagers - If you could give your parents advice...?
id tell my mom 2 stop tryin 2 b cool and all up in my buisiness!
since i live with my dad i would just tell him to try to stay out of the girl stuff cause he doesnt need to know every detail of my life
I would say, give me more independence
I'll say chill out man, we know what we are doing!
When I don't want to talk don't talk to me. Otherwise we will get into a fight. And it will be all my fault and then I'll feel bad.
Ive got leprosy get away
I hear you the first time you say it. Just because I don't remember right away doesn't mean the information does not compute. Everyone telling me things more than twice makes me feel stupid. So stop.
YOU NEED TO SEE, OPEN YOUR EYES AND YOU'LL SEE HOW SICK I AM!
excuse the caps there
i would say that even though that they themselves were once teens doesnt mean that the stiuations are the same. times have changed, and im not them.
mama, if you dont trust me, of course im gonna rebel, you gotta let me go sometimes, and trust that i learned what you taught
you have to let go and trust us to do the right thing and be safe. quit being so overprotective and let go a little!!!
I do actually care about school, so get off my back about it. jk
stop being overprotected im old enough to know whats right and whats wrong.
well, most teenagers don't come to their parents, they expect the parents to come to them, even if they do push away. Me, not so much because I'm lucky and I don't really have any drama or anything with my life. Um...I guess by just asking lots of questions about them and get to know them as a friend, but definitely do not lose touch with the parent side either. Balance is key.
I need advice from moms and teenagers(girls)?
Last year a lot of stuff happened in my family. My parents were already divorced and my mom was in the process of her second divorce. Any way worse came to worse and the last year I went and lived with my dad. I love it there but i missed my friends and I wanted to come back and graduate with them. I told my mom I wanted to come back but I couldn't live with her. I'd suffered enough emotional scarring. However, I promised I'd stay the summer with her. Now summer is ending and school starts in less than 2weeks and i'm still at my moms. I'm supposed to be moving in with my grandparents soon so i can get situated for school. It makes it harder that life at her house has improved. All though she remarried rather quickly. He is a great guy and loves her and my siblings.Now I know that there's no good way to go about this conversation but I don't even know how to bring it up. I don't want to hurt my mom she has suffered enough as well but I have made up my mind and I am set in my decision. How do I tell her that i have to move out yet again? She already knows it's coming but I'm fairly sure she is in denial and that she'll play the guilt card.
How do I bring it up and go about this as...maturely as possible. Please I need help.
TiffI need advice from moms and teenagers(girls)?
If your mom already knows it's coming, how about something like:
';My grandparents are about ready for me to move in with them. I have been having a great time with you and my siblings though! And ___ is a great guy. Can we get back together and do something fun the weekend after school starts?';
That will state that you are in fact leaving, assures her that you approve of her new life, and lets her know that she will see you again soon.
Beyond that - hopefully she won't play the guilt card much. If she does, tell her that as great of a time as you are having with her - you aren't ready to move back. There are too many sad memories from the past and you need more time.
She should learn to accept this. Hopefully soon.
If she is too hard to talk to in person, try writing her a letter. After you move out, send her a letter explaining stuff. Maybe she can reflect on it until your words sink in. I need advice from moms and teenagers(girls)?
Its hard i went through something like that but the difference was that i was SENT somewhere else not that i wanted to moved. But the best thing is to work up your courage and talk to her. only you know ur mom so only u know what u can say that wont hurt her. Try to explain your feelings and what it was u went through emotionally with everything that happened. She'll understand. She loves you and she's always gonna want the best for you.
Whatever she has done, your mom loves you . Be happy for her that she has found a man who loves her. If she already knew that you are going away again, it won't be too difficult for you to bring up the subject. Just tell her outright but don't forget to tell her that you love her and that you are going to miss her. She'll understand.
Tell your mother that she is not the only one in the family that suffered from the divorce. You still need time to recover also . Its not selfish of you to let her know your not ready. She should want whats best for you. If that means not living with her then so be it. I can imagine how tough it must be. Stick out time does heel MOST things.
tell your mom you love her but you think that you would be better off at your grandparents house...tell her you would make better grades and feel better emotionally...now tell her as sweetly as possible
i just straight told my dad i wanna live with my mom just tell your mom you wanna live with your grandparents
How do I bring it up and go about this as...maturely as possible. Please I need help.
TiffI need advice from moms and teenagers(girls)?
If your mom already knows it's coming, how about something like:
';My grandparents are about ready for me to move in with them. I have been having a great time with you and my siblings though! And ___ is a great guy. Can we get back together and do something fun the weekend after school starts?';
That will state that you are in fact leaving, assures her that you approve of her new life, and lets her know that she will see you again soon.
Beyond that - hopefully she won't play the guilt card much. If she does, tell her that as great of a time as you are having with her - you aren't ready to move back. There are too many sad memories from the past and you need more time.
She should learn to accept this. Hopefully soon.
If she is too hard to talk to in person, try writing her a letter. After you move out, send her a letter explaining stuff. Maybe she can reflect on it until your words sink in. I need advice from moms and teenagers(girls)?
Its hard i went through something like that but the difference was that i was SENT somewhere else not that i wanted to moved. But the best thing is to work up your courage and talk to her. only you know ur mom so only u know what u can say that wont hurt her. Try to explain your feelings and what it was u went through emotionally with everything that happened. She'll understand. She loves you and she's always gonna want the best for you.
Whatever she has done, your mom loves you . Be happy for her that she has found a man who loves her. If she already knew that you are going away again, it won't be too difficult for you to bring up the subject. Just tell her outright but don't forget to tell her that you love her and that you are going to miss her. She'll understand.
Tell your mother that she is not the only one in the family that suffered from the divorce. You still need time to recover also . Its not selfish of you to let her know your not ready. She should want whats best for you. If that means not living with her then so be it. I can imagine how tough it must be. Stick out time does heel MOST things.
tell your mom you love her but you think that you would be better off at your grandparents house...tell her you would make better grades and feel better emotionally...now tell her as sweetly as possible
i just straight told my dad i wanna live with my mom just tell your mom you wanna live with your grandparents
I need advice for all the teenagers and young adults!?
so, this boy that i knew for 5 months has a gf. We go to different schools, but we talk every night. We used to like each other, but i have a feeling he still does because he is trying to make me so jealous. he likes the preppy girls, like me, and hes going out with a total tomboy/sporty girl. He tells me he loves her, and just the other day she texted me because he told her that i was his bestie. Why would he even give her my number? I need your opinion on this situation!!I need advice for all the teenagers and young adults!?
The guy loves himself too much and wants girls to fight over him. Don't give him the satisfaction, he is too immature.I need advice for all the teenagers and young adults!?
maybe hes into both preppy/sporty girls i mean lots of times it depends on the person/situation but if u really think he is trying to make u jealous then u should confront him and ask him about it!
The guy loves himself too much and wants girls to fight over him. Don't give him the satisfaction, he is too immature.I need advice for all the teenagers and young adults!?
maybe hes into both preppy/sporty girls i mean lots of times it depends on the person/situation but if u really think he is trying to make u jealous then u should confront him and ask him about it!
I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
I'm sorry if this is really long.
I'm a freshman. I'm home-schooled and I'm really tired of being bored and not having anyone to hang out with. I know people and hear about people all the time that are considered ';the weird kids'; and wear whatever they want and do whatever they want. But in the last school I went to had nobody like me and I still didn't have any friends. I have the choice to go to high school next year as a sophmore, but the highschool i'm going to is known for being a ';cliquey'; school and everyone being desperate to fit in. So will I be able to make friends even then? I just don't know what to do. I can go to Church to make friends, but the kids that go there just aren't into the same things as I am and they think i'm weird too. I just have nowhere to go. And i'm so tired of being bored and alone. I just want someone that won't try to make me feel bad or change me.I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
I think you should definitely go to high school. I can promise you with some certainty that you aren't too ';weird'; to not make any friends. It may take time, but I'm sure there are some people who share similar interests as you that will go to the same school. Some people will accept you for who you are. It's important to understand that sometimes you make friends with people who you get along with well, but don't necessarily have a lot in common with, especially when you have interests that aren't as popular. I listen to heavy metal, only wear black band T-shirts, and have long hair(in other words, on the surface, I look ';emo'; or something to the average person), but I still have a lot of friends in school(most of which don't share similar interests or views as me).
In your case, I think you need to accept other people before any of them will accept you. If you seem like you don't want to talk to anybody, nobody will talk to you. If you appear to be social to other people, some of them won't treat you so differently. I know this might not sound like anything new or useful, but I really think it is. Less than a year ago, I never had any friends, and always felt too different around people to become friends with anyone my own age. Not everyone is a mean person who isn't willing to be friends with you.
Most importantly, don't be scared of rejection or let others hurt you. I'm sure this seems difficult, but understand that, no matter what anybody says about you, you're still a great person. Just because somebody might say something bad about you, doesn't make it any closer to being true.
If you don't take any of this advice, I can't blame you. But if you do, I'm sure it'll help you make friends. And I really hope you do, because I know how bad it is to feel isolated from everyone else.I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
If you want to be cool where-ever you go,you have to know that nothing matters and you don't need anyone and no-one needs you, that way you stop acting and you be true to urself and others.That is the way to be cool by not caring and knowing life is bigger than that so go to the high-school and be normal and be sure that everything will be okay.I wish u luck
Well, what are you into? I have been in the same position as you. I just do something I like doing such as playing computer games or workout in the gym. And of course I study.
Its boring, yes. But know that there is a future out there and you can make it anyway you want.
sorry you're having problems making friends. it can be hard. what are your interests? you could join a book club or sign up for a dance class or join a sport. that's a good way to make friends because you'll automatically have something in common.
Aww. I feel bad for you. I'll Im you. what's your SN.
EDIT: no worries, i won't stalk you and kill you.
Hahahahahahahhahah!
No really, I won't do that.
Try being nice to people. If that school has at least 1 decent person, you'll find a friend for sure.
Sure let's email ^^
I'm a freshman. I'm home-schooled and I'm really tired of being bored and not having anyone to hang out with. I know people and hear about people all the time that are considered ';the weird kids'; and wear whatever they want and do whatever they want. But in the last school I went to had nobody like me and I still didn't have any friends. I have the choice to go to high school next year as a sophmore, but the highschool i'm going to is known for being a ';cliquey'; school and everyone being desperate to fit in. So will I be able to make friends even then? I just don't know what to do. I can go to Church to make friends, but the kids that go there just aren't into the same things as I am and they think i'm weird too. I just have nowhere to go. And i'm so tired of being bored and alone. I just want someone that won't try to make me feel bad or change me.I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
I think you should definitely go to high school. I can promise you with some certainty that you aren't too ';weird'; to not make any friends. It may take time, but I'm sure there are some people who share similar interests as you that will go to the same school. Some people will accept you for who you are. It's important to understand that sometimes you make friends with people who you get along with well, but don't necessarily have a lot in common with, especially when you have interests that aren't as popular. I listen to heavy metal, only wear black band T-shirts, and have long hair(in other words, on the surface, I look ';emo'; or something to the average person), but I still have a lot of friends in school(most of which don't share similar interests or views as me).
In your case, I think you need to accept other people before any of them will accept you. If you seem like you don't want to talk to anybody, nobody will talk to you. If you appear to be social to other people, some of them won't treat you so differently. I know this might not sound like anything new or useful, but I really think it is. Less than a year ago, I never had any friends, and always felt too different around people to become friends with anyone my own age. Not everyone is a mean person who isn't willing to be friends with you.
Most importantly, don't be scared of rejection or let others hurt you. I'm sure this seems difficult, but understand that, no matter what anybody says about you, you're still a great person. Just because somebody might say something bad about you, doesn't make it any closer to being true.
If you don't take any of this advice, I can't blame you. But if you do, I'm sure it'll help you make friends. And I really hope you do, because I know how bad it is to feel isolated from everyone else.I need advice and help badly. Teenagers?
If you want to be cool where-ever you go,you have to know that nothing matters and you don't need anyone and no-one needs you, that way you stop acting and you be true to urself and others.That is the way to be cool by not caring and knowing life is bigger than that so go to the high-school and be normal and be sure that everything will be okay.I wish u luck
Well, what are you into? I have been in the same position as you. I just do something I like doing such as playing computer games or workout in the gym. And of course I study.
Its boring, yes. But know that there is a future out there and you can make it anyway you want.
sorry you're having problems making friends. it can be hard. what are your interests? you could join a book club or sign up for a dance class or join a sport. that's a good way to make friends because you'll automatically have something in common.
Aww. I feel bad for you. I'll Im you. what's your SN.
EDIT: no worries, i won't stalk you and kill you.
Hahahahahahahhahah!
No really, I won't do that.
Try being nice to people. If that school has at least 1 decent person, you'll find a friend for sure.
Sure let's email ^^
I need advice from parents of teenagers!!?
okay so im 17 and i live with my mom and dad and ive had my license for a year and since then ive become a taxi driver to my little sister. When my parents ask me to give my sister a ride they tell me that i get the car whenever i was and its the least i can do. but the truth is i avoid taking the car when i can because its a hassle to park in my city. Tonight i drove my sister to her friends house and then asked my parents if i can use the car to go to my friends house and they said '; no because i dont like that kid and i don't like you going over their'; but if i wanted to walk there they would let me and they don't let my friends come here so the least the can do its let me go there. i don't understand this like i drive my sister everywhere for them and they wont let me go to a friends house because they don't like him? i think that's unfair. but i would like an opinion from a parents point of view so please answer?I need advice from parents of teenagers!!?
Their logic is quite flawed, but I don't know if you are going to be able to convince them. You might be able to work a trade: the next time they ask you to chauffeur her, say ';Sure, if I can then go on over to my friend's house. If I can't, then no, thank you, I don't want to drive.';I need advice from parents of teenagers!!?
Maybe it's exactly what they said. They don't like the kid. They know you won't walk in 20 degree weather, either. I think it's fair because it's their car. Until you turn 18,move out and get your own car, they have a right to say no.
i understad what your saying you should just ask her what her issue is in a nicer way lol
if they will let u walk there but not drive its probably because they think the two of you will leave his house in the car. just walk there if all u want to do is go over there. and all kids are errand runners for their parents when they get their license.
goood luck.
Your parents don't trust that your friend can't talk you into doing something stupid. Like driving out of state to get a hamburger or loading the car up with kids. Even if you are trustworthy, your friend may do something stupid with the car. My son's friend got in my car and forced it out of park with no key. The car rolled backwards into the street. Fortunately there was no accident. Unless you count my losing my temper. Talk to Mom and Dad and tell them that you would like some time off from driving Sis or at least no driving her all the time. Maybe they will listen.cargo
Their logic is quite flawed, but I don't know if you are going to be able to convince them. You might be able to work a trade: the next time they ask you to chauffeur her, say ';Sure, if I can then go on over to my friend's house. If I can't, then no, thank you, I don't want to drive.';I need advice from parents of teenagers!!?
Maybe it's exactly what they said. They don't like the kid. They know you won't walk in 20 degree weather, either. I think it's fair because it's their car. Until you turn 18,move out and get your own car, they have a right to say no.
i understad what your saying you should just ask her what her issue is in a nicer way lol
if they will let u walk there but not drive its probably because they think the two of you will leave his house in the car. just walk there if all u want to do is go over there. and all kids are errand runners for their parents when they get their license.
goood luck.
Your parents don't trust that your friend can't talk you into doing something stupid. Like driving out of state to get a hamburger or loading the car up with kids. Even if you are trustworthy, your friend may do something stupid with the car. My son's friend got in my car and forced it out of park with no key. The car rolled backwards into the street. Fortunately there was no accident. Unless you count my losing my temper. Talk to Mom and Dad and tell them that you would like some time off from driving Sis or at least no driving her all the time. Maybe they will listen.
I need some help, teenager, advice from female adults please :(?
Okay, im 16 and worrying about my period, its so stupid because im 2 days over my period is due. I feel that its stupid because im sad, Can this effect my period coming :(?
Ive been worrying for like 3 days that its making me feel sick.
Im also getting little, small lower back pains (not really pains, just mild compared to the pain you get when your on your period) is that a sign that my period is coming?
Thanks ! xxI need some help, teenager, advice from female adults please :(?
I think the average cycle could be between 23-28 days so don't worry just yet. My cycle fluctuates often + or - 2 or 3 days, and stress can definately affect it.
Often a week before I get my period I get very emotional and sad for no reason, and it goes away after my period comes. Maybe you are sad because of your hormones/period coming?
I also get lower back pains almost every month a few days before I get my period so that may be a sign.
If your cycle is very regular, you are sexually active and you don't get your period after a week, go see your doctor.
Don't stress, its probably nothing!I need some help, teenager, advice from female adults please :(?
If you just started getting it, it's still irregular. I got mine 8 days late once! You'll probably get it in a few days. And yes, if you're sad it will effect you.
you don't mention whether or not you are sexually active....if you aren't, then your period is probably stress delayed, if you are, who knows.
Don't worry about it. It will eventually come. Worry and stressing about it can make it late. So just relax.
Ive been worrying for like 3 days that its making me feel sick.
Im also getting little, small lower back pains (not really pains, just mild compared to the pain you get when your on your period) is that a sign that my period is coming?
Thanks ! xxI need some help, teenager, advice from female adults please :(?
I think the average cycle could be between 23-28 days so don't worry just yet. My cycle fluctuates often + or - 2 or 3 days, and stress can definately affect it.
Often a week before I get my period I get very emotional and sad for no reason, and it goes away after my period comes. Maybe you are sad because of your hormones/period coming?
I also get lower back pains almost every month a few days before I get my period so that may be a sign.
If your cycle is very regular, you are sexually active and you don't get your period after a week, go see your doctor.
Don't stress, its probably nothing!I need some help, teenager, advice from female adults please :(?
If you just started getting it, it's still irregular. I got mine 8 days late once! You'll probably get it in a few days. And yes, if you're sad it will effect you.
you don't mention whether or not you are sexually active....if you aren't, then your period is probably stress delayed, if you are, who knows.
Don't worry about it. It will eventually come. Worry and stressing about it can make it late. So just relax.
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