Im a very violent teenager??...advice?

im 17, and ive chased my stepfather with knives, given him black eyes, I throw things at my parents,broken my moms finger before, constantly call them names, and beat up my little brother, and i argue with EVERYTHING that everyone says!! what kind of help should i get, or give me some good advice please....Im so tired of being like this.Im a very violent teenager??...advice?
Go on Maury





Or um...STOP. If you know what you're doing wrong and you know that you're hurting the people who should be most important to you in your life why would you screw it up? Your little brother is supposed to look up to you.





You're not setting an example and you are in fact, ABUSING him, and that will affect him later on in life. If you are so tired of it then you need to get some serious mental help. It's ridiculous that teenagers my age do the things they do. Wise up, please.Im a very violent teenager??...advice?
Just stop it. You can't have it your way all the time. Stop trying to control people and be more flexible. If somebody is pissing you off... just walk away instead of fighting.
Definitely calls for some anger management. You're 17. Its time to stop throwing these fits and act like an adult. At least you know this and you're looking to get some help. Good Luck.
i was a very angry teenager, and i never knew the reason. when i grew up i went to therapy and found out that i could've avoided myself from a lot of trouble if i only could've abided by the rules. i know is not fair but adults know best. if they give you love and protection, then you should wait until you reach maturity and leave. meanwhile keep yourself focus on your studies and be successful. good luck!
You've taken the first step, simply by admitting there is a problem. I commend you!!





Now, it's time to get some help. You need to approach your parents just as you have Yahoo Answers. It's time to get some help, kiddo.....do it for you!!





You're a good kid, I'm sure.......otherwise you wouldn't be here asking for help.





Good Luck
get a dr.s help ask yourself why u are like that get help asap
Get a priest to do an exorcism on you.
first of all ignore all the jack asses that commenmted on here becuase you still can turn everything around.


try to go see a consular opr a therapist. if that doesnt work ask your doctor, my uncle went through sonmething like this all becuase he had an alergic reaction to a medication.


or maybe you have bipolar. go ask your doctor and ttell him everything.


:) hope this helps
anger management, intervention, jail time, you really should be ashamed harming your relatives, you should appreciate them. you really need to get some help. counseling. self esteem issues could be a reason
You need to ask yourself why you're doing these things...be honest with yourself. You know it's not acceptable behavior, if you can figure out why you're always violent, you can start to change your behavior. Part of it is being a teenager, but just try to relax a little and don't let everything get on your nerves. It's not as bad as it seems.
You need to ask your parents to take you to a psychologist. Please do this as soon as possible!
I think you should surf the web for counselors or anger management groups near you. the worst thing you should do is nothing. you need to go get some help before this goes anyfurther. you took the first step in realizeing that your behavior is unnacceptable. good for you. and remember, always use protection.
something to think about ';what go around come around.'; what i mean is one day you will have kids and tell me do you want a kid like you... you don't sound upset by what you do.. i feel sorry for you.. you sound very unhappy.. growing up is hard and being mad and upset all the time make it even harder.. you have control over what you do and say.. YOU are the one that has to want to stop this.. you have to find out why you are doing it.. look deep and start reading self help books.. find some one you can talk to.. you do not have to be this way.. i know i was young and violent and of all the thing i did i wish someone told me that it was me that want to do them and if i wanted to stop i could because i was in control of me.. i control my actions.. i am responsible for what i do.. when you start to understand that and take responsible for your actions you will not be so mad..
It sounds cliche, but admitting you have a problem is the first step to solving it. Ask your parents for help. If they can't then go to a counselor at school or to your religious leader. Someone should be able to steer you in the right direction. Good Luck!
BRAVO!!!! You just made your first move.Accepting the fact that you have a problem.A big one at that.Hormones,Stress play a big roll in a teenagers life and it can take a toll on your body and others around you.Please seek a doctors advice.The doctor can help you with Your stress and anger levels which is brought on by messed up hormones which does not mean anything sexual or about your gender.Good luck and bless you.
OMG! 17yrs old? ... It is time to grow up %26amp; start acting like a mature humanbeing. The fifth commandment states ... honor your parents that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee. Therefore, seek couseling in your area ASAP, if you are using any substance that triggers this behavior try to quit. I would like for you to act before its too late . . Also remember only you can change you. If you chose violence remember the world is waiting for you to teach you what the real meaning of violence is all about. My prayers goes to you.
2 words: ANGER MANEGMENT. heres another 2: REHAB. its simple.
You need to be put on meds. to calm you down but i'm sure you no that already.
maybe your parents should call the cops so you can get hauled off to jail.
Wow





You made the first step now you should also call a crisis line and get some counselling for your anger issues I hope they give you some medicine to calm you down, while you are still okay and before you do something you will regret for the rest of your life.





Keep trying to get help for yourself and keep reaching out


AND ignore people who will say things to you that make you


angry, tune them out.





Good Luck and please call the help lines to speak to someone in person and with more expert opinions then


us here on this site.





Sounds like the road to self and other destruction





Take a deep breathe and calm down
You might have some sort of chemical imbalance. Tell your parents you don't know why you act like this and you want to find out and get help. Then, find a counselor together.





Good for you for wanting to change your behavior. You're lucky your parents are still letting you live in their house.
Heres what you need to do is GROW UP your 17 and from the sounds of things you act worse that a 7 years old next you need to stop being violent that will land you in Jail and trust me you do not want to be in a place like that. and why do you argue with everything that just plain stupid... if you have a older sister or brother talk with them first before you end up with out a family
You're on your way to success. Speak to your parents and tell them that you are sorry and that you don't want to be this way anymore. They will be more then happy to help you. But you will need to go speak with a counselor. I don't believe that they should medicate you, that will only mask the problem. You need to talk. And when you feel rage coming on take a step back and breath. You'll be fine just reach out to your parents and don't listen to any of the judgmental comments some people have posted. Good luck and put all your determination in become that person that you so want to be.
Anger management, yoga, training/getting/owning a pet (make sure you don't harm the pet) try bonding with all the people you hurt, go to the spa with your mom, go to a sport game that your stepfather likes. And if you are not the girly type, try going to the mall or the movies with your mom.
Well...right now, you're doing the first thing to getting better: You recognized you have a problem. You don't have to get counseling to get help....but it DOES work for some people. If you don't do counseling, the next thing you need to do to get better is recognize what makes you act out in anger. What makes you mad? Then you need to find a better way to channel that anger. For me, listening to heavy metal really helped. Bands like Machine Head, Mudvayne, and Disturbed help me get through really bad days. It's really great that you've noticed that something's not right and that you need to act on it.





Hope things work out!
Sounds like you have an anger management problem on your hands.


Your best bet is figuring out WHY you act the way you do and then going from there. Most people aren't that angry for no reason (trust me, my teenage years were very similar) and so usually there are underlying issues that need to be addressed before the physical manifestations of these issues can be stopped.


Talk to someone you trust, a counselor, a teacher, a mentor but do it quickly because the anger won't go away on its own.


Good luck!
I am so so so sorry that you are dealing with this. I don't know for sure what is wrong with you and you really would need to see a psych doctor to find out. I was the same way when I was 12 and continued to be for a long time till I was diagnosed with bipolar and medicated. I truly believe that this is not your fault...it is very likely a chemical imbalance in your brain.





Good Luck!
get into counseling of some kind. if you do these things and you know theyre wrong, but you can't control it, then you need some help. mental problems are real. it doesnt make you crazy, just means that something is not right in your brain. maybe a chemical imbalance. hope this helps....good luck
You might want to talk to a family doctor and ask to see a psychiatrist about this problem.
I think you need anger management and I also think that your parents should throw your *** out of the house. How dare you be so disrespectful to the people who provide a life for you. I don't care for your reasons for doing the things that you do. There is no excuse for your behavior. It's just plain disgusting. You think life sucks living with your parents, just wait until you have to live in the real world. What is that how you will treat a landlord, boos, friend? Treating people that way will land your *** in jail. Maybe the next time you act like that your parents will call the police and have you thrown in jail. That is if you don't kill one of them first. You should be ashamed of yourself.