Friday, January 8, 2010

I need help big time guys!!! confused teenager?? advice... !!!?

about 7 months ago my boyfriend dated this girl for about a month and a half but they were friends for 1 1/2 years before they dated,he loved her to death and he never got over her (he told me this before we started going out) he lost his virginity to this girl. well after 7 months of them not talking or coming in contact. they started talking two days ago. now all he ever talks about is her (he talked about her before but not as much and i didnt care then because they didnt talk at all) well he went over her house for the last two days, he ever DITCHED me for her yesterday. she is single. she broke up with him back in january because she was moving but now she came back after 7 months of living 2 hours away. now she lives here again. i asked him if he was cheating on me with her he said ''no'' and when i tried to kiss him or hug him ever since he started talking to her he wont do anything with me at all. he just pulls away. he just totally changed since she came back...I need help big time guys!!! confused teenager?? advice... !!!?
I am so sorry Lili! This boy is still in love with someone else; and he is showing it to you when he ';ditched'; you to go to her and then wouldn't let you touch him later on. That is a harsh way to be told. He may not want to hurt you, but it is inevitable. He is going to go back to her. Plus the two of you are running a very high risk by just being with each other. He could be criminally charged with statutory rape if you two have been intimate with each other! It doesn't feel like it now, but this is the best thing that could happen. You are seeing how it really is and the lesson to take away is to really get to know a man before getting involved sexually with him and emotionally too. This will save you a WHOLE BUNCH of heartache later on my girl! Now cry your eyes out and tell him to take a hike with dry eyes and strength in your voice! You always have us! We'll get you through this! NanaI need help big time guys!!! confused teenager?? advice... !!!?
There is really no easy way to put this. He's going to leave you. He loves her. You've only been dating for a couple of weeks. They have a history together or friendship then love. He might not be cheating now but he definitely will be leaving you soon. Make it easy on him and break up with him. If not you are only going to make yourself miserable.

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