Friday, January 8, 2010

I need some major advice,teenager problems.LOL!?

I feel like my life is falling to pieces. I hate school so much, but at the same time I don't know if I could leave,not that I really have that option. But nonetheless I hate being there so much! Basically it just sucks, I've always had this problem with school though. We actually decided to pull me out a few years ago because it was really getting bad. But my parents are there for me like that anymore. I can't really talk to them about it either. Then I also have boy troubles. I'm going out with this guy, hes great(at times)lol. And theres this other guy(my ex-boyfriend) who was my first love.So cliche ,but true. I thought about it last night and decided I should be with my ex, I thought about all the times we had together and was like I miss it and want it back. But I started talking to my current bf about breaking up and it didn't feel right and I started crying. I am so completely confused. It just feels like everythings going awry. I'm not happy and I'm getting really down on myself.My question is basically I'm looking for any advice because I know either way I go someone is going to get hurt and I could make the wrong decision. I can't really talk to any of my friends about it. So anything you could throw my way would be very appreciated.Thanks!!I need some major advice,teenager problems.LOL!?
Wow, sounds like you are in a difficult situation.





I can relate to hating school. It isn't something I'd ever want to go through again. I highly recommend reading ';The Teenage Liberation Handbook'; by Grace Llewelyn. Lot of great ideas for teens to get on with their lives and leave highschool behind.





When you get to this point of having ex's in your life, you always have some comparison to your current boyfriend. You'll measure every guy against him from now on. It's not necessarily a bad thing, because you don't want someone not as good as the one you left.





Think really hard about why you broke up with your ex. Sometimes we look back and forget the bad stuff, and only remember the good. You want to make sure that if you do end your current relationship, you won't be regretful.





Sometimes life is just really confusing. There are tough decisions to make, and there are no guarentees in life. People do get hurt, it can't always be avoided; all you can do is try to make it as painless as possible.





Best of luck to you :D

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