GUYS I NEED ADVICE (teenager)?

ok ive known this guy for over a year and we have been good friends. then i found out that he liked him (i wasnt supposed to find out) and that was almost 2 months ago and now he wont talk to anybody about it. he like wont talk to me at all and if i come around he will literally duck his head. i thought i might have liked him until he started acting like this. i know he's shy- but what is up with his behavior and why is he acting like this? hopefully some guy out there will be able to give me advice on what to do!GUYS I NEED ADVICE (teenager)?
hmm i would say go up to him or have one of your friends to go up to him and tell him thats its okay to like you and he doesnt have to be all awkward all the time..lol good luck





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I'm guessing he is really shy and nervous now that he knows you found out he likes you. You could try and write him a little note saying that you have feelings for him too. Sometimes it's o.k. for the girl to make the first move. He might just be unsure of himself and too nervous around you to talk to you right now. Let him know that you feel the same way and see if it opens him up. Good luck.
if he will not talk to you, write a letter and mail it to him, or give it to a friend that will hand it over.


EXPLAIN that he is hurting you, and you want to know why. Don't play that game by having friends talk btw you two, you must confront him on this, and let him know how you feel about all of this.


Also, how old is he?


I am assuming that he is at the age where boys and girls are old enough to have some kind of relationship, and I'm not talking about the kind that involves getting naked, but the kind where you can hang out, hold hands, and all that cool stuff. The naked part can wait till your older, and ready for the responsibilities that come with it.


All I can say is that he seems either unsyre of himself, or that he does not feel the same way about you, which will be hard to hear, but, you deserve to know the truth, like the rest of us.


Also, is there a chance he might be gay?


That will stand in the way of a relationship that goes beyond friendship.


Also, some guys just are not ready for a relationship, so now you have an idea of what to talk to him about.


Most important though, is you must tell him that he is hurting you and that ya's friendship wii not survive this kind of activity.





GOOD LUCK, young lady.
My guess: he's severely afraid of rejection. He likes you enough to not want to feel the pain of you not liking him. As a result, he hides in his shell to protect his feelings.





Now, how do you get him over that? If he knows that you know, then he finds himself in the more vulnerable position. You need to find a way to reverse that. For example, if you told him how you feel about him, that you wanted to get to know him better, that you like the way he does this or that... then you'd reverse the vulnerability and give him more confidence to come out of that shell.





Good luck, amberz!
obviously... he isnt man enough to say his true feelings. I would let him go and he can find someone who will keep chasing him. there is plenty out there chica, you just have to stop lookin and it will always find you... but like I said he aint worth it.
Just go talk to him and tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. You shouldn't worry about the outcome either.





If you don't want to do that, you should just forget about getting together with him all together.





Good luck.
you guys are teenagers, i took my teenage years as a learning experience. i use to be shy because dating and relationships were all new things to me. i don't think i'm too far from the truth to say that maybe the guy is just going through a phase.
its just auckward for a while. if he really likes u he will eventually come around. u could also walk up to him and tell him u like him. then he wont be as shy
why do boys dump u then make fun of u and diss u