Yet another teenager needs dating advice...?

So to sum up myself, I'm 16, and kind of a loser (ie. unpopular, chubby but not completely fat-***)





I've never had a girlfriend, but I;ve been feeling kinda lonely these days...





A few days ago I started talking to a girl who I never really noticed before, but she's really great, and pretty too! I think I wanna ask her out, but I don't think she feels the same way...





We've just been chatting as friends, and on one hand I dont wanna get stuck in the 'friend zone', but on the other I don't wanna get denied and lose her as a friend either (we have a lot in common, and I enjoy our talks even tho they aren't romantic, lol)





I guess I just don't know what the hell I'm doing. Although I never actually asked a question (because I'm not quite sure what my question is), comments are appreciated.





ThanksYet another teenager needs dating advice...?
My friend I am going to lay the smackdown on your situation in different parts going by your situation.....





Part one: ';Kind of a loser';


Well here's something you gotta work on first bro which is not that hard but takes pracitce. You need to ask yourself: ';are you comfortable with yourself?';. So you like this girl...';How do you feel about her?'; ';How do you take a approach her?';. Turn your fears into ';How to...'; so you can be able to tackle on this situations. Keep in mind instead of having the fear of rejection have the fear of regret...That way when you ask her and it works out cool, but if it doesn't, then you don't have to ask yourself ';What if';





Part two: ';Asking her out';


Whoa easy there partner....you don't want to jump the gun just yet. the first thing you want to do is to ask her number and then make her feel comfortable. One day out of the blue just strike out a conversation about stuff you guys talk about (from you guys been chatting about). Make sure to maintain eye contact and stand up straight up, but not too much were you're stiff you want to be laid back as well. Then out of the blue ask her for your number....if she's says no or beats around the bush it move on....if she's say yes give her a call some time, but not right away nor a week later 2 or 3 days giver take.





Part 3 ';Chatting as friends and the friend zone';


Ok here's where most guys fall under and don't even know how to get out nor don't know how they get in. It's plain and simple ';STOP ACTING LIKE A FRIEND';...keep in mind yes we like to do nice things for a girl but it's not calculated like a video game where you achieve 10000 points and bam she's your girlfriend. When it comes to building attraction for a female you like, you need to show ';I want you, but I don't need you';...In a way try to be more a cocky and funny acting like you don't care., but not in a since you come off as an A*hole to her. You have to balance that out so that the end of the day it makes her laugh. About losing her as a friend, hey bro if it comes down to it life goes on and it was never meant to be.





Well that's pretty much I can sum it up for ya and the things I'm telling you don't happen overnight...you're young and full of energy so all it take is practice and you'll get the hang of it. good luckYet another teenager needs dating advice...?
you are struggling with yourself..lacking a bit of confidence and feeling not too happy about the way you appear and who you have become....


If you are truly interested in turning this friendship into more, then start your transition. Get interested in you and clean up your act....


Do not ask someone out if they are not showing the same interest towards you......


Friendships usually last a lot longer than bf/gf stuff...
that depends...you can give it a casual shot...don't use the terms love or like...just ask her if she wantes to hang out sometime and all that...NOT A DATE...this way you can figure out if there is potential there...that way you can maintain the friendship and see if you can get any ';signals'; from her
Hey man,


I used to be in the same situation. Hardest thing to do.


Best way to do it is to ask her if she wants to hangout sometime. Usually things go from there :)





Best of luck
I think your the type that girls would like once they got to know you better...your not a love at first site type, so , be patient...continue to be friends....she will show more interest in you if she eventually finds you to be a good catch...but don't be discouraged...somene will notice the good within you but some things take time...good luck.
you got into the ';tired of being single or lonely'; phase. happens to me all the time. ask yourself this, is having a relationship with her totally worth it? i regret making a move on the most beautiful girl iv met.
You must start with some confidence my young friend.. You're insecurity will come through every time eventually. The fact that you are reaching out and not assuming to know it all is a good sign that you are not a loser. But, someone humble enough to know that he needs help and not too cocky to ask for it.


Now, if you really are lonely and not just lookin to get';some';, you will be patient and enjoy the company of this girl. Love will bloom in time regardless of appearances, if it is truly love. The friend zone does not sound like a bad place for you right now anyway, since, according to you,you '; don't know what the hell you are doing';.


My advice to you is this. Don't rush things with this girl because you are lonely. try to figure out how she feels and see where she is at in that department. If you see an opening, then by all means,, grasp the moment. But, make sure you know where she stands first,, or else you could be going the wrong way down a 1 way street.
chat with her more, get to know her more.





then GO FOR IT.





i mean it.





i will be rooting for you. %26lt;3
buy some cologne, act and talk like a man and everything will be just fine.