Im a teenager, I need advice on love and longterm relationships?

Im 15, my boyfriend is going to be 18 next month. I love him, and he loves me, and we sacrifice a lot for each other. This is my first long term relationship, we've been together over 5 months. He wants to try and stay together when he goes to college, I will still be in highschool. I want to stay together aswell, but I feel like we will be in two different worlds, he will be in college talking about his career, doing internships, partying too, and I will be in highschool just getting my liscense, talking about prom and what happened outside someones locker. Also, I know this may sound selfish since I know many people seach for a long time to find love and someone who cares about them, but I kind of want to experience what else is out there. So i guess my questions are...


- What are the chances of us staying together? Is is just reality that we will eventually break up?


- Is is selfish of me to want to see what else is out there?Im a teenager, I need advice on love and longterm relationships?
I think the chances of you guys stay together are slim sorry but in college you'll never know what he up to and it rarely ever works long distance relationships are hard. it not selfish to want to see what el's is out there your young it would be better for both of you to end it when you split ways.Im a teenager, I need advice on love and longterm relationships?
Take a break, live your life, go to prom and then when you get into college, see if you got something left. PEople change.
To answer your SECOND question first. It is definitely NOT selfish for you to want to find out what's out there. You are still in high school and will be for a couple of more years. Like you said, you have prom..learning how to drive and doing all the other things that teenagers your age do. Your boyfriend will be on a completely different page. And considering your age difference, it's VERY possible that once he starts college he's going to want to date someone his own age. If you feel that this is a true relationship and you think you two can work it out, then don't give up. But just be warned that it may not last his first year of college. Good luck hun.
Ok to be completely Blunt, 5 months isnt that long


speaking from a guys point of view, when he turns 18 that means he will be free to party hard, participate in things like spring break. Things like that. He will see college girls, girls his age. to be honest the the chances in my opinion are low. Taking into account all those factors. I dont think you should date a guy who is so much older than you because think about it its basically a teenager/adult realationship.


The best thing is to consider dating a person 15-16


then again i could be mistaken and you could end up getting happily married or something...Good Luck
well youre very young finsh school and meet a new guy. Hes gonna go to college were alot of women his age and alot of temptation. Sounds like your gonna be hurt in the end! You still have alot to go thru like prom dances stuff he alread did.
jesus loves you and he will try to love your bf 2... no rash
I think you need to sit down and talk to your bf about this. At 15 you have a long time to settle down, your fears about making this a long distance relationship are justified, for the very reasons you mentioned.


You don't want to drop this like a big brick on his head. Let him know your worried...he may be having the same thoughts as you.


Good luck!
';Im 15, my boyfriend is going to be 18...';





Later in life you will probably laugh at having said this. My advice? Don't worry about it, you will most likely break up but enjoy it while it lasts.