Teenager...need some advice on sex?

So my guy friend and I want to try it together (we are both 15 and virgins). Although I did agree to it already, he is way more eager than I am. He gets into detail about it, but its not weird or anything because he is a good friend of mine. Now, I totally trust him with my safety, hes not a jerk and is making sure we have protection. I know he wants to get laid really badly, like its totally a goal of his, which i don't fancy the idea of. But hes a great guy, he says he won't tell anyone (I find that impossible). Im not worried about how our relationship will end up, we both promised each other that if we did go through with it, we wouldn't be weird after. Anyway, hes changing schools after this summer and in all honestly I have always had a little crush on him and I am deiniatly physically attracted to him. IDK if I will do it or not, but if i change my mind, how do I say no after all the talk? And if I do want to have sex with him, what should I expect overall?Teenager...need some advice on sex?
All the promises in the world will not guarantee the lack of weirdness afterwards. Sex does change a relationship - not necessarily in a bad way, or a good way - just changes. So be prepared for the dynamic of your relationship to change if you go through with it. Your feelings towards him might change, or his might towards you. Exactly how is impossible to predict. One of you may want to have a closer relationship afterwards, or it may go the other way and one of you might freak out from the closeness and end up pushing the other away.





You are definitely risking the friendship if you go through with it. It is possible to have a sex-only relationship without things getting weird, but it does take a lot of sexual maturity. Just be aware of the possibility.





If you have any doubts, just don't do it. Tell him you need more time to think it over. If he is a good friend, he will understand. If he is a jerk about you changing your mind, then that's a good sign that you made the right decision in NOT sleeping with him.





In the end, do what feels right for you. Not what he wants, what you want.Teenager...need some advice on sex?
I wouldn't do it if i were you. save your first time for someone you love and have more then just a crush or attraction to! trust me it will be so much better sharing it with someone you love. also, at your age doing so is just trouble!!! guys can't keep their mouths shut, they will tell all their friends and you will just develop a bad reputation at school. trust me!!!!
That's not a binding contract to talk. You are still a girl...look, there's way too much bubbles over this sexual activity at your age. If it's sheer curiosity on your part, why don't you be a bit more patient? Can't you talk with your mother? There is absolutely nothing that guarantees you that your boyfriend will keep your intercourse all to himself afterwards. I don't believe him!
hes obviously goin to tell his friends because every lad does. Its a big committment and until u give him an answer you will see his response. its no good organising sex because you should just do it as a spare of the moment thing it will be more enjoyable and special
I can't tell you what to expect, but remember that you do have the right to change your mind at any point. Provided this guy really is a good friend, he should be understanding - even if he is frustrated.
if you dont want to have sex just say i no we talked about it but am really not ready yet and say that your sorry and if he really is your mate he will understand. if you do have sex with him youll be glad that you did because its ace lol am 15 and i lv it lol
to be honest think u r way too young to be having sex asnot ready mentally neither with all the baggagae that comes with it also dont u want your first time to be special with someone u love and u dont sound as u r ready just yet n doin it for the your friend
You need to really think about how you will feel after it is all said and DONE! Your first time should be very special. Whatever you do, just be safe and don't forget that things WILL change between you and him!
juss **** him already
if your so sure about try it before he goes away!!!!


what to expect mmm...nothing major
he cant hate u if u say no! and if u do have sex with him aslong as u talk afer it it should be fine
GO ON AND HAVE FUN
**** her
no u shouldnt he just sucking up for sex tell him your not ready for it.
For me, I dont think you should. Saving yourself for the one you truly love is much better than doing it with a ';good friend';. You'll feel so much better knowing that you've saved yourself and that you're able to give everything to the person you love and knowing that you've saved yourself just for him and is able to give all of yourself, not just half. You'll also have the rest of your life to make sex much more fun with the person you love and it'll get better everytime cause you're doing it with the person you love and trust.





Btw, i have a feeling that if you say no to this guy, he'll move on instantly. If you do decide to say no, dont worry because after all he's changing schools and you wont see him as much. And the expectation.. well, a bit of blood, it'll be over in 5 mins since he is inexperienced and maybe abit of pain when your hymen breaks. Maybe some awkwardness cause you're both naked. Also some regret on your behalf because you dont seem as interested as he is.
Hey you're a strong woman. If you don't feel up to it all you have to say is no. us men all we can think about is getting laid and getting paid this guy sounds WAY to eager. It's your decision but I think that you should save it for the one you love. And you're exactly right he will tell all of his homies and then everyone will know. it's like almost impossible not to brag when you get laid by a hot girl. and you know boys are looked at differently than girls when it comes to sex. he'll be looked at like hes all cool and playa and it'll make you look bad so please don't do it. And condoms don't always work they bust and you could get pregnant!! it happens. but, i know you'll make the right choice. ( ;
First of all, you are 15. You are young and probably beautiful. The way you describe your guy friend makes him sound like you want him to be your boyfriend. I say, if you really love someone, then there is no reason not to have sex. It is a phisical expression of love, only to be used to relay your love to another when words just won't cut it. Try dating the guy, wait a year (changing schools won't stop you two) then when YOU feel ready, jump his freakin' bones!
OK, where to start...I can understand your curiosity on this subject as all girls do - and as for his, he is a male and all males will happily jump at the chance if they are offered sex, so his side of things aren't a question here. I know its soppy, but do you really want to have sex for the first time with someone who is just a friend, wont be around for long and is making you feel pressured about it already? I lost my virginity at your age, and I had been going out with the guy for 9 months before we had sex, and after I still felt that I could have waited longer and only did it for him really. Believe me, sex is really not all that it is cracked up to be, and I personally think you would be better waiting for someone you really care about who you will be in a relationship with, however, you sound very sensible and if it is something you really feel you want to do, just go careful, protection wise and heart wise. Good luck.