Teenager problems advice please?

I am a step mother of a 13 yr old girl and me and her father are starting to get really worried about her. She has been educated about sex, rape and all of that stuff. She lives with her mom which cares less about what she does. But we care.. We can't afford a lawyer so please dont tell us to get one right now. Ok she went to a bar last weekend and meet a 17 year old boy and started dating him she said and we think that she is to young to go to a bar or have a boyfriend that old or really have one period but she lied to all her parents and said she was at a friends house. She confides in me a lot about everything from boyfriends to sex but she lied to me about this what is a good way of handling teens that are acting out. I need answers from parents that have been through this type of stuff and advice on how to handle no one nos how toTeenager problems advice please?
If you go to your town hall you can get a state appointed lawyer to help you out probono. The bar that allowed your 13 year old stepdaughter needs to be repramanded. also you need to find out the 17 year old boys name and report him because that is illegal for him to be ina relationship with a minor. Especially if sexual abuse (even if it was concentual the police will take it as rape) is thought to be happening. You can get lawyers pro-bono you just have to look around. also if you report it to the police they can help you get help





Teens that act out are very hard to handle. Honstely I was an angsty teen. You need to talk to the child more and if you have to punisher her more severly. You need to show her that you are the parent and she is a child.Teenager problems advice please?
Well if the mom is letting her go out unsupervised to where she can sneek out to this bar just check in on nights you think she is there. No parental agreement is not violated by you yanking her out of there and taking her back to her moms.