Tuesday, April 27, 2010

Im A Teenager Needing Advice On Sex?

Hello...At A Fancy Dress Party A Few Months Ago I Was Really Drunk And I Remember A Boy Who I Didnt Really Know Was Trying To get Me To Go Out Side With Him So No One Was Around I Kept Saying No But I Had Loads To Drink So I Did I Remeber Gettin With Him But Then I Remember Laying On The Floor With Him On Me And It Really Hurt...But I Didnt Bleed Does This Mean I Have Lost My Virginty?...Im Scared About When I Have Sex next Because I Dont Like People Seeing Me Naked Or Anything! Also What If they Think Im Really Bad At It..Can You Please Give Me Some Pointers On How To Make It Good For The Boy...e.g.What Do I Do If I Go On Top Or How Do I Do More Then Just Lay There Please Help me ?? xxxIm A Teenager Needing Advice On Sex?
first of all you shouldn't have let that guy sleep with you if you said no then he didn't have your conscent and therefor it was an illegal act and secoundly you should waite until your older then you won't mess up your life by having a baby.Im A Teenager Needing Advice On Sex?
If your wearing no clouthes there already having a good time don't worry, my saying is practice makes perfect XD
rapeage.
Yes, you've lost your virginity.


Don't do things to please a boy, do them for yourself.
Partying is fun, but you will have to know your limits, please do not allow yourself to be in such a situation, for you do not know what he is kind of disease he could be transmitting to you. keep the alcohol limit to a minimum and this could help you keep from being a mother before you want to be. Keep your pride and when you meet the right guy your clothes and inhibitions will come off, if he likes you no matter how well you dislike your body he will like it for it is you.
1. A capital letter should only be used when appropriate such as at the begining of a sentence, for a title, the name of a person, etc.





2. If you are not comfortable with someone seeing you naked then you are probably not ready for sex.





3. Most boys your age are probably just happy to see a girl naked so I don't really think it matters what you do, they will be happy.
Don't worry,you will get used to it.
By drinking and not using your head it is like throwing land mines out in front of you and then you dont understand why they blow up in your face and your life gets all screwed up. It would take an hour to explain what some responsible adult should be telling you. In the limited time I have all I can say is you better start taking care of you and think before you allow alcohol or anybody to use you so.
he has raped you wait untill u feel ready for sex before trying it you will only regret doing things u do not really want to do
Firstly, don't get yourself so drunk that you put yourself in situations like you were put in. You probably agreed to do things with this boy but don't remember so yes to a certain extent it was rape but he might not have known how drunk you were etc.... If you have missed a period or anything then go to your Dr and ask for a pregnancy test and an STD test. Explain what happened - they are there to help you!





You have lost your virginity to this boy too - losing your virginity is supposed to be special but that can't be helped now so what you need to do is forget all about it and look towards the future.





If you're under 16 then you shouldn't even be thinking about doing anything anyway but if you're over 16 and meet someone (a boyfriend) and after time you feel like you want to have sex then make sure you're doing it for you - not because you're under pressure or think he'll like you more. If he is the right person then you being naked is no issue at all and even if he's not then trust me a boy is happy to see a naked girl (no matter what shape and size she is!)





Good sex is less about what you do and more about the chemistry you have and how comfortable you feel with someone but like I did, you'll learn these things as you get older. When you have meaningful sex with someone you feel comfortable with then you'll develop your sexual skills the more you do it.





When the time and the boy are right all of your anxieties will fall away and you'll be comfortable with how things are going...





Remember to always make the boy wear a condom! You don't want a wee baby just yet!





xxx
you said you were a teenager but you didnt say how old,you probably shouldnt be having sex any way!have you thought about getting pregnant,getting a disease that you cant get rid of,getting a bad name(that you dont want)?you need to consider these things,and you are to young to be drinking,whats going to happen when you are really drunk and a few guys take turns with you(it could happen)think about these things
wow you actually had the guts to ask this question on Y!A cause you might get like negative feedback.


Anyways....


you do it naturally. you shouldn't think so much when you're doing it.


make sure the guy is wearing a condom so you won't get pregnant!!!

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