Becoming a teenager is a death sentence... That magical feeling that you have when you are a child goes away.. Nothing is carefree, happy, anymore: everything becomes sinister and dark. Guys don't like you because you're nice, smart or funny but because YOUR HOT and they want to make out with out or something. Nothing is the same anymore. EVERYTHING SEEMS TO BE GOING WRONG. I WANT TO BE LITTLE AGAIN. Sometimes, I just want to invent a time machine and go back to the times when everything used to be so HAPPY, so SIMPLE! Ppl under 13 who are reading this, ENJOY YOUR LIFE NOW. ENJOY IT PLZ. EVERYTHING GOES DOWNHILL FROM HERE SO ENNNNJOY. ADVICE PLZ? AS YOU CAN SEE, I CAN'T HANDLE ALL THE PRESSURES ANYMORE. I used to want to grow up fast, but now all I want is to be YYYYOUNG AGAIN... HEEEEELP SOSAdvice plzzzz! TEENAGER WHO HATES BEING A TEENAGER?
Being a teenager is never easy. Between the changes in our hormones and new responsibilities it can be a difficult time. It was difficult for me, but I made it. I know that you will also.
Let me make some recommendations:
1. Don't try to keep all this inside - talk to people
2. Visit with your pastor or guidance counselor and tell them what you're struggling with.
3. If you really feel overwhelmed, let your parents know. They can help you find ways to deal more effectively.
Above all us, remember that you can deal with the pressure. Sometimes we just need to talk about it.
Feel free to email me if you would like to talk more about this.
Pastor JohnAdvice plzzzz! TEENAGER WHO HATES BEING A TEENAGER?
Just wait until you're 30.
Enjoy the time where you aren't responsible for yourself.
Where you don't have to work 40 hours a week.
Where you don't have any responsibilities such as bills, kids, loans, a mortgage.
Grass is always greener on the other side or you can enjoy what you got at the time.
Im in the same boat except im a guy but yea happy fun times are over I don't cope with the pressure that well either i just drown it out with loud music funny movies a bit of alcohol and bong resin until im 18 when i can hurry up and wait to get out of this place but the next few years are almost over it will all be over soon
study hard and invent the time machine
I think most of the problem is that you realize your parents won't be paying your way forever and you might have to actually develop some life skills and earn your own money. It's only for seven years, you'll survive and people have been through way worse both before and after their teen years. Do your homework, listen to your parents even though you don't want to (you'll be apologizing later on in life for your behaviour as a teen), keep your nose clean and realize that you can make decisions for yourself even though ';all your friends are doing it';. Enjoy it, next comes taxes:)
Relax...Everyone goes through there, don't think you're the only one.
Guys like hot girls, it's obvious. Girls are snobby too, they won't go out with a nerd or something like it. It's life, man, you want to reproduce with the best looking person available so you can have the cutest child possible, of course you don't think about it, but nature wants it that way.
BTW, Teenage years go by sooooooo fast when you don't think about it. I can't believe I'm in senior year. It feels like I started High School Yesterday. It's all going to be aalll right.
You should always be happy that you are maturing and learning more about life. Never be unhappy about growing older, and don't think about going into the past. Right now, being a teenager, is one of the most important times of your life. Now is the time that you experience new things, learn new things, have the ability to do things you have never done before, and make a life for yourself. This is the moment where you choose the path you want your life to follow. Don't see being a teenager as a burden, it is a part of life that we can't ignore. This is your opportunity to make mistakes and learn from them, and to have fun! If guys only like girls now because they're hot, now is your chance to share your feelings with them and then both you and your friends can learn together. The pressures you face now are preparing you for your life ahead, so always be happy! Being unhappy won't make anything better. If you see the world with positives, you will also feel much better about yourself. Look at all the people around the world suffering of hunger and homelessness because they don't have the opportunities that you have. You are a human being and must strive to become better and improve in the things you are lacking. This is why we are here. If there are no problems in your life, what would you have to live for? The problems in your life are what keep you going, what give you hope. No matter what your life throws at you, it will be worth it. Life is always worth living, no matter what your situation is. Live your life and be happy! Being a teenager is an opportunity you will never get again, so enjoy it, learn from your mistakes, and have fun!
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