I need an advice from teenager girls?

I have this friend. She's got everything a teenage girl would want. She has the riches, intelligence, love, friends, humor. She got the things that a teenage girl would want. She has every wish you would wish.





Well, I can also get what I want, I also have the friends, intelligence just like hers. But I just don't know why I keep on insisting that I should be more like her or someone over her.





I really don't know what do I do know. I don't know If I should be trying more to be like her or just do something that will make me stop of wishing to be like her or to be over her.








Girls, please, what should I do? I am really confused!





I need an advice from teenager girls?
I really understand you.





I had this feeling before, with a friend and with my sister. When I talked with someone about it. They told me to have confidence. But if I had confidence, I would not feel like that in the first place right?! So I found a solution. I searched for my special talent, which happened to be writing and decorating, and I became very good at it. And slowly my confidence increased and it was no longer and issue about whether my friend or sister was better than I. Because I was too busy polishing my talent. My thing.





So, that's my suggestion. Find out your talent and polish it real good. You will find some happiness soon.I need an advice from teenager girls?
First thing-


friends always seem better than you, don't they? But even though they might appear to have everything and anything they want to, they always have one particular thing lacking in them, but you might just not see it. Everybody has flaws; it's impossible your friend has absolutely every single thing in the world or possesses flawless talents.





Second thing-


stop trying to be like your friend! As you said, you have friends and intelligence like hers. Perhaps you have all that she has, but you feel insecure because you are always comparing yourself to her. You need to feel more confident in yourself! Don't keep comparing yourself to her or thinking of what she has that you think you do not.





Try finding any hidden talents or skills you might have- eg painting or something like that (just an example) Try new things. It is not possible your friend knows absolutely everything right? If you learn a new skill it would prevent you from belittling yourself to your friend.





Hope this helps! (:
Sounds like you're having a hard time. True everyone has their flaws but we always get told to focus on someone's good points... lol seems like you're doing that quite well.





Your friend probably envies you, you may never know. Don't try to be like her. As a teenage girl, you would know that people will interpret you as a ';try-hard'; or a ';copycat'; i mean i'd be pretty annoyed too if my own friend copied what i do.





Don't waste your time trying to be someone else, it becomes a waste of who you are. Stand by her and support her instead of being jealous. Most importantly be yourself, because coolness starts when someone is just being themselves (how did you think Gwen Stafani made kawaii so kool?) LOL





good luck!
I think you need to like yourself more and know that a friend is not someone your in competition with.
Get a life of your own and stop trying to follow other people.

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